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I know downloading music is wrong, but I'm sorry okay. I use winmx and I love it. But I'm trying to download the new all-american rejects CD, and THOUSANDS of results come up for all the songs, and every single one of them fail. NONE of them work. They'll turn yellow and say "Waiting for network reply..." for like 2 minutes and then they'll fail. Not one single song works. WHY?!

i dunno. but get limewire, it works really good

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my guy friend is having trouble with this and if im more informed, i can help him out a bit more. well he has this gf, kelly, who is a good friendof mine and i got them together. theres this girl who is kelly's friend, bernie, who is always clinging onto kelly (almost like she likes her...) and so this guy cant pull her aside to kiss her. theyve been together for 4 months and for some reason kelly isnt being very nice to the guy...she doesnt want to hang out for dumb reasons and she thinks theyre going to fast when they barely hold hands, she never calls him or does anything sweet for him. before we thought it was pms but its been going on for a reallllly long time. (poor guy.."i didnt think it was supposed to last this long") he really loves her and i dont know what to say to either of them. any tips?

It's their business, let them handle it.

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im going out to eat with my boyfriend and his family (his mom,dad, 2 bro's, and 2 sister-in-laws, and nephew and neice) anyways.. i gotta inpress them... dont know why but i know i do. So were going to applebee's.. im a very picky eater and i dont know what to get. i dont really like burgers and such. Any suggestions?i was thinking matzarella sticks but i dont know if that'd be rude because its a appetizer.. help. i know its dumb but whatever! ( ive also never been there)

I don't think it would be rude getting matzarella sticks cause even though it's an appetizer, they still give you alot. And I'm a very picky eater also.

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ok im 13 female and i started cutting because family and friend problems and i stopped 4 like 2 weeks and then i got so mad and deprest i cut again and now i want to really bad but i promised myself i wouldnt do it again because im scared someones going to find out about it and send me to a mental home or something beause of it and i have thought about killing myself one or twice but i havent gone threw with it yet but i trie to hide it from my mom and my teachers so i dont wear shorts or anything and i wear a jacket most the time so that no one see the scares but i really need help and i was going to tell someone about it but im to scared so can anyone give me advise because i could really use some right now??? please help

You're afraid your family will find out?! I would be afraid I would kill myself cutting.

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how do you get sunburn to go away really really fast please dont say aloe b/c i pur that on and its not helping that well and i have a really bad sunburn and i have a dance on saturday and i dont need to peel either!!!

Use aloevera gell. It works really good. =)

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me and my boyfrind have been together for almost 10 months now. we never really argue, except when i talk to other males on the telephone. i tell him, they are only friends, but he feels uncomfortable with me talking to them. should i give in, and not talk to my friends or should i continue being friends with my male friends? besides i dont understand why he's uncomfortable anyways.

How would you feel if talked to other gils on the phone.

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how can i brake a bone a mean break it not sprain it ireally want to know and plese only comment back if you are going to help me i rate high for advice that is useful dont give me advice like why would you want to do it i need something that is garenteed to work.

i appreticate it

it could be any bone but fingers

Well..... to brake your arm, fall out of a tree and land on it.

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does anyone have any ideas about what to name my puppy? hes a black lab and hes so cuddly, and hea boy...and fluffy..i rate high!thnx bub byez

benji, jerky, peewee, simba, samy, jessen

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There are somedays where I will not eat all day and not be hungry. The smell, sight, or thought of food makes me sick to my stomache. Then there are other days where I have a huge appetite and overeat, especially around midnight. I know my eating habits cant be healthy, but its out of control now. How do I get back to eating 3 meals a day, like I used to a couple years ago? I've tried to eat when I wasn't hungry (so I wouldnt be THAT hungry the next day), but I always get sick and throw up. It's almost like my body wont let me eat every other day or so. Any ideas of what could be wrong with me?

You may be inerexsic or however you spell it.

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Ok, I just learned that my boyfriend has had sex with ohter girls before we started to date. I dont want to do anything with him, but I just feel so disgusted. Im 14, and He's 15 and I cant believe he would do that. Im afraid of what he might try to do to me. He's hasnt ever tried anything before but I cant help to feel disgusted, my friend thinks I can do better than him and give him up since he lied to me so much, but I stil love him. Should I break up with him?

Yes. If my boyfriend ever lies to me about having sex with other girls, I would brake up in a heartbeat. And, if does like rape you or something, i doubt you want to lose your virginity,(unless you already have) to that loser.

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i've been playing softball since i was about 4 (T-ball then) and now im 13. i recently tried out for a travel team, but didnt make it. i've always been a great athlete and great softball player. im totally upset i didnt make it. what can i do to make me get over the fact that i didnt make it? .. ps - im gonna go to mostly all the games because my twin sister made it. please help. its kinda stupid but ive always been told not to cry about little things like this :-/

God has something special planned out for everybody and scince you didn't make he has something else planned for you. :)

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I'm moving schools this summer. I went to visit my new school, and very few ppl were nice to me. Everyone else knows that i just came from a privite school, so they hate me and treat me like garbage. I no that all privite school students are different, and i know that i am! I really don't care what other ppl think, but i really want to make friends at my new school. How can i show them that i'm a normal person and not a snobby rich student they think i am? I really want to make friends their, but it's so hard when they don't know the real me. How can i show them?

Try hanging out with diffrent types of people and find which people you click with. :)

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how do i get all the guys to like me and all the gurls to like me again cuz all the gurls hate me and some of the guys like me how do i get a really hot guy to like me???

1. Don't get fat.
2. Shower every night.
3. Be yourself.

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Im going to Warped Tour and it'll be my first time going to a concert like this (my parents finally let me go!) Anyways, I was just wonder if you've been in a mosh pit before. Whats it like? And like what happends. Will I get hurt? Just like full detail and everything about! Thanks in advance!

No I have never been in a mosh pit because yes you are most likely to get hurt. They are dangerous.

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I was just putting a tampon in for the first time. I was supposed to go swimming today but I just got it. It's light for now. I followed the directions on the box but it hurt sooooo bad!! I did it a second time and it was the same. It even hurt to pull it out. The directions said if it feels uncomfortable it's not in far enough. It was in far as it could go though. I relaxed when I did it but it still hurt really really bad. It hurts awhile after I take it out. I want to go swimming but I don't think I can. I used the Lites/Junior if you're wondering. Is there something wrong with me?? =(

Well, your downstairs may be to small.

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Dear advicenators,

Age:13
grade:7th going into 8th
I have a father that abuses me but i really don't know what to do i've tried being sucidal but it didn't help at all i also know if i consult the police he will deny it and he will abuse me even more so what should i do?

It depends. If your mom knows, you should go and stay a week or 2 w/ a good friend of yours. Being suicidal just makes things worse. Call DHR and they will come and investigate.

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I get mad really easily, and people notice. How do I control my temper before it gets way out of hand?

Eat lots of twinkies and get fat.

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whats the best hair color dying stuff and which one lasts longest???

I suggest Loreal, but you need to find a good base color or it won't turn out the way you want it. Hope I helped :)

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hola everybody i have been doing dance since i was 3 and until now thats the only thing i have been doing for activities and i have been really concentrating on it to become good at it and make it into company but i realized i wanted to take up cheerleading i do dance three days a week but cheering is also 3 days a week too they interfere sometimes and im afraid that if i do cheerlaeding i wont be able to concentrate on dance so should i just stick to dance or do both please help !!

I have done dance scince I was three also. I love dance but i got interested in cheerleading. I did cheerleading for a year but it wasn't as fun as dance. So I quit cheerleading and now im on the dance team at my school. God has something planned for everybody, and if dance is what you love to do, you should stick with dance.

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yo right my SUPOSE to be BESTFRIEND i think is hiding from me that she goes out with one of my ex boyfriends and im really pissed....like me and the boy and me were REAL serious and it would hurt me to see her with him...I think this cause she be walkin wit him in the hallway he be over her house and they be on the phone and she said she wont tell me who she go wit..oh and plz dont say no lil smart comments cause its not cute people come on here for advice not smart comments well thanx in advance i rate high

Girls can be big biotches. Get used to it.

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