Hey, my name is Victoria but everyone calls me Tori. I'm fun, loving, energetic and love to help people!I wouldn't be able to live without make-up, shopping, dancing, friends, or beaches.. it's sad..but its true.. I hate fake things, people, objects and obsessions! I can't spell and you'll find that out sooner or later.. I'm trying this site out because some of my friends told me I give good advice at times.. and also I give sucky advice! And I love to help people so this should be fun for when I'm super bored..right?Anyway I hope I help with all your questions and believe me-- everyone, makes mistakes every once and a while!
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Location: Texas
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Member Since: June 13, 2005
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I`m a girl, and I`m 15. I really like this guy that`s like 3 or 4 years older than me, and he likes me too, or so I thought he did.. Before I never really thought I`d ever end up feeling this way about him but since I do, I can`t stop thinking about him. When he did like me, he said that he`d ask me out and everything but the only thing that stopped him was the age difference and his parents... I`m pretty sure he doesn`t like me anymore, but it doesn`t matter, cause I still feel the same, no matter how much or how bad he hurts me. I basically love him, but he can`t see that. It`s summer and I really wanna get over him, ya know? But I can`t.. He seems so perfect but so wrong at the same time, what do I do?! (link)
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i totally understand about the age difference girl! lol me and my man are 5 years apart.. it is hard but people got over it ... sometimes things like this you just have to wait it out.. sorry i cant really give much advice but from what you said hes just not that into the whole idea of goin out
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Gurl -- 13
k..theres this guy, & he flirts w/me constantly! cept when other gurls come around. & we txt each other all the time..& we chat in the halls..(when we still had school) ect. & last year he said he said we could go out..then someone else found out he said that & he denied everything. is he embarrassed cause imma year younger or what?? thanx! (link)
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dont waste your time with him! he sounds like a very selfish boy! sorry but try to move on you deserve better
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Okay. I like this girl, like alot. We've been out before and things just didnt go right. She kind of acts like she still likes me and flirts with me, but I am not so sure if its real. How do I know if she still has the same feelings for me. Should I give up on her and find someone else or should I wait and see what happens.
Im 16 and a Male. (link)
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Well sometimes we never realize what we have or had until we loose it... maybe she wants you to be a man and take the initiative... i would just hang out a little bt more to see how she acts then make your decition!
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okay.. i can't believe im even saying this.. but my mom has a 33 year old boyfriend.. my mom is 43! i've kinda been messing around with him for the past two months! now he wont even touch my mom! my mom would literally kick me out of the house and never talk to me forever! but i can't stop because i love him very much and hes told me that too!
what the hell do i do?????? help me please!!
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for one how old are you? if you are my age... then thats wrong! i thought me and my boyfriend were bad w/the 5 years difference but if its like 17 years or whatever then thats just not right... And are you sure its love? or are you just trying to get back at your mom for something she did in the past? And does she know that you are doing this? tell me how old you are and if she knows.... and i'll get back to you
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ok im a the lesbian from earlier and i think your really hott...what do i do to get you?
17 female (link)
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lol...... umm im not like that.. and i have a man!!! sorry
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ok well im a girl im 17 and i have this friend who is been my friend for a long time but recently shes been like really touchy feely on me and she always talks about making out with me...and she HATES my boyfriend and he does nothign wrong hes not mean to me or anything she just hates me....well we got really drunk the other night and she kissed me what do i do? (link)
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Hmm... maybe she has feelings for you... at this age its kinda hard to understand certain feelings... she MIGHT have a crush on you but she might also just feel like yall are really close... and she doesnt know how to handle it. If she does like you, i understand that thats really kinda freaky and might scare you but if it bothers you which i'm pretty sure it does then you need to talk to her about it... make sure that she really does have feelings for you before you make any HUGE decitions on yalls friendship... if you need anymore advice on this i got a new sn for people who need advice... its AFmoosie22... i'll help you out if you need anymore... and maybe she doesnt know how to tell you that shes lesbian... thats a hard thing for her to! so try to be understanding w/out bein rude! and she needs to be the same way
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how do i tell my friends im a lesbian? they've known me to be straight and i've had sex with a bunch of guys so no one expects it.
what do i do
i'm 17 and a female
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Um... i would say that your bi... i dont know exactly if you should tell them, and make sure that you really are lesbian first before you go and tell the world... maybe say something around them like "hey i met a girl and she was really sweet and shes lesbian" and see what there first reaction is and if its bad dont break the ice but if its not then go ahead and tell them... this is kinda a touchy subject.. because in a way if they dont accept you for who you are then they arent very good friends but then again this is really big so it might scare them cuz then they might worry if you have a crush or somethin on them... ya know? but yeah if you need to talk just i-m because it is a touchy subject... my advice sn is AFmoosie22 ...
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Hello im 16. I have a large dick and my girlfriend is scared to ya know.. um yea. I know she wants to but how do i get her not be so scared? (link)
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Um, theres not really a way to not be scared. And you really should wait for that. God says that sex is only for marriage... but if you do make sure your protected... other than that theres not really a way not to be scared.
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how do i get this girl taht goes to my school she like on the soccer team and has blonde hair and a big ass 2 go out with me (link)
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Um to start, girls dont usually like it whenever you say stuff about their ass publicly and talk to her.. you cant really MAKE someone like you... just start off as being nice and friends and she wants more then you'll know it.. just dont rush things!
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hey, im 13 and im a gurl. i have this friend (thats also a gurl) and i guess you could say that, she basically adores me. and i cant say that i feel the same. i mean shes cool and all but i dont really like her that much sometimes. like i dont mind being just friends but shes always hanging around me but if i dont talk to her about my problems and go to someone else or if i just hang out with someone else, she gets mad.. she tries not to show it but i know shes mad inside. how do i say that i dont want to be "best" friends but at least stay friends with her and not hurt her feelings at the same time? cause shes REALLY sensative! =\ (link)
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Wow.. this is a toughy... Um, sounds like she basically looks up to you or wants to be like you... i understand though.. Sometimes theres nothing you can do, whenever yall hang out take it as a compliment or just remember that she looks up to you and your like her role-model. Its kinda hard not to hurt her feelings if you tell her because thats just how it is... Okay, picture you and your like absolute BEST friend or who you think is your BEST friend, now think if she thought of you this way. how would you want her to tell you that she just wants to be friends but not BEST friends? it would be hard and you will get hurt... maybe w/time yall can become closer and you never know you might need her just make sure that you dont make the wrong decition in losin a friendship that you may need later on cuz she may not be there! Sorry i cant really help... but what i would do is talk to her, and maybe introducing her to some other people and maybe she'll bond better with them? im not sure... just an idea, sorry gurl!
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hey tori-
im a 16 year old female
heres my question :
I really like this guy.. but i know that he already has a gf....but i hooked up with him anyway. He already told me that he "loves" his gf and hes not going to leave her for me ... but he still wants to hook up with me .. what should i do ? (link)
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hey girl... this is really hard because you like him and he likes you but theres another girl... relationships at this age dont last very long... and a lot of people say that they love someone but they really just feel strong feelings.. not love. I wouldnt hook up with him if i were you. Put yourself in the other chics place for a second.. if you had this guy would you want him to tell you that he loves you but then go off w/ some other chic? If things dont work out w/him and her than yall can always get back together! He wants his cake and eat it to but it doesnt work that way.. tell him that he needs to make up his mind, the results may not end up the way you want them to but its okay because there are many other guys that im sure you can get! Make sure that hes not just using you... cuz guys can be (badwords) sometimes! You can do it girl!
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hey, im the 15 year old girl you answered awhile ago. and yeah it does take some time and i guess i should be a lil more outgoing so i can get him off my mind, but i havent told him how i felt, and the only reason is because it seems pretty obvious that i really like him and then its hard to tell him cause hes older and i guess im kinda afraid of what his reaction is gonna be. but it probably would be easier if i told him though right? the only main problem is that, im just not sure how to... (link)
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hay... things may be easier if you tell him... at least you wouldnt have to hide behind the truth or the obvious... if you tell him it'll be off your chest and his reaction can tell you alot about if you really liked him as much as you think. Who knows he might be feeling the exact same way! You only have one life to live... take chances! I'm not saying it'll work out because not all things work out... but you never know unless you try it
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hey well me and my really close friend use to hang out all the time but it seems like lately she wants nothing to do with me and i dont really know what i did wrong/ i mean she wont call and when i call shes always out hanging with everyone else. what should i do (link)
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First off i kinda need to know if this is a guy or a girl... If its a guy, then make sure your not sending signals to her that you like her more than just a "close" friend because sometimes that can scare girls away. You probably didnt do anything wrong, just give it time! Make sure you're there for her because if someone hurts her you can comfort her and it'll be like old times! Now if this is a girl... Make sure nothing is wrong between you, like if you got in a fight, she heard rumors that your talking bout her, boys... darn boys... haha umm just make sure everything is cool.. and if things are cool maybe shes just going through a phase.. its summer so she might be hanging out w/more people.. ya know? well... just call earlier so she like... has to hang out w/you! hehe if you need anymore help just ask.. and make sure you put your gender on here!
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I`m a girl, and I`m 15. I really like this guy that`s like 3 or 4 years older than me, and he likes me too, or so I thought he did.. Before I never really thought I`d ever end up feeling this way about him but since I do, I can`t stop thinking about him. When he did like me, he said that he`d ask me out and everything but the only thing that stopped him was the age difference and his parents... I`m pretty sure he doesn`t like me anymore, but it doesn`t matter, cause I still feel the same, no matter how much or how bad he hurts me. I basically love him, but he can`t see that. It`s summer and I really wanna get over him, ya know? But I can`t.. What do I do?! (link)
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Hey gurl... i totally understand you on the age difference thing... i think i got ya beat! ;) okay heres the deal, have you told him how you feel? And there are lots of things you can do to try to get over a guy.. i know it may seem hard but if hes really ment for you then it will happen in the end... just give it time... its going to be hard i know! but in a couple of years it wont matter, two or three years might seem like a really long time but it'll go by fast... just have fun and be outgoing... you dont want to make the mistake of trying to stay w/this guy and miss the man of your dreams! Hes out there and if this guy really is the GUY then he wont care about age difference and what other people think.. and the parent thing will get easier!
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Okay,im 16, and a girl... well theres this guy that my best friend really really really likes and i can tell she does... but the problem is that me and him had a relationship like a month ago and im not sure im completely over him but i know she really likes him... i want her to be happy but what about me? (link)
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Well, this ones hard... I understand how you feel because something similar happened to me like this... Theres two ways you can take care of this and i'm sure you know them already... you can either hurt your best friends feelings and steal the guy or you can just leave him w/her.... Girl friends will always be there for you! and you should never let a guy get between you 2! Since your asking me i would say stay w/ your best friend and things between them may not work out in the end... so at least you will still have your best friend instead of goint w/ the guy and then breaking up and not having your best friend there for you and no man! Up to you! if you need anymore help feel free to ask!
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