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Ok, I just learned that my boyfriend has had sex with ohter girls before we started to date. I dont want to do anything with him, but I just feel so disgusted. Im 14, and He's 15 and I cant believe he would do that. Im afraid of what he might try to do to me. He's hasnt ever tried anything before but I cant help to feel disgusted, my friend thinks I can do better than him and give him up since he lied to me so much, but I stil love him. Should I break up with him?
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No. "God put our eyes in the front of our heads so we could look ahead...and stop looking behind us" ...what's in the past is in the past. if he hasn't tried anything don't worry about it yet...
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hey babe-if a guy is leing to you whitch may seem like little things that just build up into more && more complex lies;; one of the first warning signs to a unsucessful realonship. my best advice is to talk to him about the lies & bring in the fact that you dont want to turn youre realonship into aything sexual. if he cant accept that then yes you can do better && i hope you can realize that. good luck
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Yes. If my boyfriend ever lies to me about having sex with other girls, I would brake up in a heartbeat. And, if does like rape you or something, i doubt you want to lose your virginity,(unless you already have) to that loser.
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i think you should talk to him. guys are different in every relationship. you dont know his reasoning for not telling you, you dont know his reasoning for having sex with these other girls. all you know is that it happpened and youre judging the complete situation before youve even talked ot him about it. TALK TO HIM. the reason he didnt ell you was probably so you wouldnt react lke this. in all honesty if he hasnt tried anything before, i dont think he cares about sex with you. he probably likes you too much as a person. but dont let someones past discourage you from being in their future. people change. and people are different in different relationships. you dont know. he could compltely regret what he did. you need to sit him down adn tll him how you feel, not neccisarrily that youre disugsted, but that youre scared and dont want to do anything with him. if he gives you alot of crap answsers that you dont like, then dump him. but ou really need to talk to him first. i fetl compelled to write this becaue everyone else told you to tak teh easy way out and just break up with him. bu tlike i said dont let somesones past chase you away, because if you do? youll have a HARD Time finding someone.
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If he disgusts you then I guess breaking up is what you do. However, if all this happened before you even started dating him I don't see what it matters. Doesn't mean you have to do anything with him. If you ever should a condom is an absolute must. If you love him, forget about it. Let him know you aren't ready for sex yet and forget what happened with him before you started going out with him. :)
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You shouldn't break up with him if you love him because if he really loved you he would wait tell you are ready to do anything what I would do is sit down and talk to him about it and tell him you are not ready and you would want to wait tell you am
I hope this helps
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Well if you don't feel comfertable around him I think you should break up with him. Hope I help!
~*Brianna*~
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you should break up with him.. of course you will still love him but you have to let him go.. he had been with other girls so that kind of means he has no respect for you and may try and do something to you.. so i would dump him... just to make sure and i would have lost trust in him when he did that... and if you dont' have trust you don't have anything... but i'm not you... it is your decision.. make a wise one.. good luck hunny!
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well, personally i would ask him about it, maybe your sources aren't even true and he's a virgin, after all, if he's 15 chances are pretty high its still a rumor. but if its true, and he's honest with you about it, then you need to tell him how you feel about it and the two of you will be able to realize what to do from there. if you're uncomfortable talking to him about any of the things i've mentioned...then you probably shouldn't be dating him in the first place. and if he did have sex, and failed to mention it to you...then there are probably better guys out there for you. hope i helped, let me know if there's anything else <3
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Ok well if you are really disgusted and to me it seems really really disgusting because he is only 15 and he had sex so this is my opinion though so im just telling you what i would do i would break up with him because as they say there is plenty more fish in the sea. That means youll find some other right guy just for you...well i hope this helps you!
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