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Nevr made out
ok soo there is this guy i like ALOT...okay well he is more experienced n i really want to make out with him but im nervous when we get the chance to n i ive never mad out n i think i am ready i just dont know i really want to i mean i am goin on 14 n all my other friends have...n we had a chance at the talent show we were in the bak of the school ne he was about to kiss me but i turned my head n he freaked out n got all mad i mean i was crying n everything......is this a sign of sumthing am i lesbian...ahhhhhh PLZ HELP!!! email me if ya want tickl3_m3_pink1@yahoo.com
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TiCkL3m3PiNk!
13 f tx
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Hey! Just because u are nervous about your first kiss defentiley doesn't mean that you are lesbian. But you have to try. So if you want you should practice with one of your best friends.
Praying for u!
Tonie.
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Being nervous is normal. Its not necessarily a sign that you're a lesbian it probably just means you're not ready. Its normal to not be ready also.
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Just because you havnt kissed a guy yet doesnt mean your lez. Its just first time jitters. I had them to but they went away fast. My first boy friend was just like the boy your talking about. So experienced and the more experienced the better bc its more fun TRUST ME! But its ok to be scared. Some things to keep in mind are to stay calm I mean if you keep turning your head it will make him think you dont want to. And always remember to kiss him back meaning you have to put your tounge in his mouth too. And make sure he puts his tounge in your mouth so your not the only one kissing. Oh and dont slobber. Its good to kiss but just dont make it a lake and dont swallowhis lips and dont let him swallow yors! lol and like everyone else says keep your eys closed bc if you dont it seems as if your wantingto do soething else and it seem like you dont care your kissing. Sorry so long but I really hoepw I helped you
Bianca
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no it just probally means that you are nervous and making out isnt that difficult and its like kissing but using your tongue i guess its easy and you will catch on fast its ok youll be fine just dont go any further than you want to.
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Nooo, this is not a sign of being lesbian. The reason you probably turned your head and freaked out is because you are nervous, I really don't blame you, your first time is usually unexpected and if your with someone who`s more experienced it just makes you even more nervous. Think about it seriously, there really is no rush because there will be other guys, here`s some making out tips:
1. Try to relax a little bit, not too much though you don`t wanna be loose, but enough to be able to move but still have control of your mouth.
2. Don`t use too much tongue your first time, I`ve had bad experiences with other people who have used too much and it feels like being strangled with a wet slimey worm haha. (But don1t worry if you mess up, it`s your first time so cut yourself some slack.)
3. After your first couple of minutes you will soon become comfortable if you just follow the other person`s rythm and you will definetely get the hang of it.
4. And close your eyes, I personally HATE when people have their eyes opened.
5. Don`t force it either let it go naturally, it seems complicated but trust me it`s very easy and you will warm up to it.
Practice makes perfect, I hope I helped!
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No I don't think you are lez
here is a website on how to make out
http:/www.virtualkiss.com/kissingschool
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it doesnt mean your a lesbian..lol..it just means that you werent ready at the time and if he freaked just because you didnt kiss him forget about him
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ok you are so not a leasbian! if on the spur of the moment you just decided you didnt want to do it, that probly means you arent ready! even if you are ready, that doesnt mean you have to do it! im 15 and ive never made out. i think thats pathetic but then again i go to a private school and theres like 50 guys in my grade, which means only like 15 of them are hot. THATS OK! yea im ready and yea i want to, but im not freaking out. im just going to wait til the right guy comes along! you hear all these stories of peoples 1st kisses being bad because they wernt ready or it wasnt the right guy. just wait!!! and if he got mad at you for not wanting to kiss him, thats retarded and you should definately not go out/makeout with him. that just means he doesnt care about/resspect you. so just wait! theres no rush. youre a kid! enjoy life! and dont try to grow up too fast!!!
--cax
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Oh My God!!! FiRst of all.. if this Clown got ***MAD*** at you foR not wanting to kiss him.. you need to DROP THIS FUCKER LIKE A ROCK!!!!!!!!!!! That's a BIG sign that he's OBVIOUSLY WRONG foR you. Look at it like this: if he can't accept THAT.. something that means so much to you.. he can't Respect **YOU** as a whole, ya know??? And noooooo.. that absolutely does NOT make you a Lesbian!! So you haven't been kissed -- BIG DEAL!!! DEFINITELY NOT uncommon at youR age, Hun. I have many fRiends who aRe 16 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't kissed anyone!!! Honestly, theRe's NOOO Reason you should woRRie about this whatsoeveR. Just because SOMEONE else has done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You have PLENTY of time still. But be it 13, 17, oR 20... it's not as big of a deal as you might assume. I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have still neveR even HELD HANDS with someone; so yeah. A fiRst kiss is a beautiful thing, and all giRls pRay it will be one of the most Romantic moments they eveR encounteR. And since you will RemembeR it foR the Rest of youR life, this is only natuRal. Bottom line, you shouldn't eveR, eveR, eveR feel foRced to take paRts in acts which make you uncomfoRtable. Hopefully I've been at least SOME help heRe; I wish you the best!!! :)
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no your not lesbian. It is just that your scared. The next time this happends go for it! You might be better than you think!
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well you only no if your a lesbian..and from what you said your not a lesbian..its just that your nervous..and you shouildnt be nervous...if you really like him you shouild just kiss him..and he wil be happy...!!!!lol!!!well you might want to do it soon becuase he may loike you now but if he thinks that you dont want to kiss him then hell forget about you and find some one else who likes to kiss...and dont worry your not a lesbian..
hope i helped....
love always,
ilovepink101
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You're just nervous that you will mess up if you make out with him. But are you actually ready to make out with someone or do you just want to because all of your friends have? Think about it.. and if you really want to make out with him, go for it! Take the chance.. and just do it. If you want, tell him you haven't made out with anyone before. So he'll know. Otherwise, just go for it.. unless you're not ready yet.
Good luck..
:) -sweetgurl2352
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