im a girl and im 16. my ex boyfriend and i are pratically going out again, as my 2nd chance. but theres this other guy. ive known him longer, and ive hooked up with him a few times. even tho its summer, i wanna hang out and see him, but i dont want to make my bf mad. i almost feel like i like this other kid, as i love my boyfriend. i have feelings that make me want to go out with this other kid, but i have a boyfriend that i love. what should i do?
Trevor-Wolf answered Tuesday June 28 2005, 11:32 pm: Well, you have to follow what your heart tells you. Also, I wouldn't feel bad and think you will make your b/f mad if you hang out with this other kid over the summer. I mean it sounds like your belong to him, which you don't. If he does get mad over the situation with you hanging out with your other guy friend, then he isn't the one for you. A b/f should be supportive of his g/f's actions and always there for them, not getting mad @ them because they are hanging out with some friends. But, back to the liking both of them, thats a tough situation. You need to sort out the pro's and con's of both guys. Then you need to decide which one you think is the better guy based on personality, and kindness...and which one you like more, and can have fun with and be yourself. Not by looks...because then it will make it harder than ever. If you do this, it should be much easier for you to decide. Hope I helped! If you need anymore help, ask, or IM me @ AskTrevorWolf on AIM. Rate!
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