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friends or not?
ok well me and this girl...lets call her cindy...are friends i guess but if we're around certain people she ignores me and acts like i'm not even there but if its just us then shes nice to me and we act like friends....so i don't get it are me and cindy friends or not?
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nah. a real friend doesn't ditch you for other ppl.
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Maybe she's sending different signals or maybe she gets along with others differently. Give it time. Good luck! Hope I helped!
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I think you and Cindy should be the judges of that. Talk to her and ask her what the deal is. It seems to me like she's only using you as a fallback -- someone to hang out with when there's no one else. If you feel that way too, then tell her that. Find out why she acts differently toward you when you're with other people. Make sure she knows that you'd like to be her friend (if that's true) but you're not going to stay in the situation if you're being used.
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i would try talking to her about why she does this to you. maybe there is something embarring that you do and she doesn't like it. a true friend would never do this to you so you might wanna drop her and stay with people that wouldn't do this to you
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No, she is not really your true friend. A true friend would never act like that. If my so called friend did that to me I would not hang out with her anymore. You deserve better than that, try talking and hanging out with other people and im sure you will find a "true" friend. hope I helped! -Katlyn
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Thats not a real friend.She is only your friend when she needs you to be her friend,once she doesnt need you anymore, she will drop you and make you feel terrible. So drop her. Cuz that is exactly what she fears and make it so there is nothing she can do to win you back.=)
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She is treating you like dirt! Don't let her do that! I hate it when people walk over nice people like yourself just because you're nice. She is an idiot. Find a new friend. Don't let her walk all over you! Well, if I were you, I would do the same thing to her. When you get around your friends, don't talk to her. She doesn't deserve you. Believe me. I hope you take my advice and end your relationship with that snob.
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hey sweetheart whats up!
look you should ask that question to yourself first you ask so are we really friends im saying NO!!!
why cause you said she ignores you while shes with her friend which is so not cool and RUDE!!!
and second reread your question hun it says she ACTS like your not there but if its just us then shes nice to me and WE ACT LIKE FRIENDS!!! acting is not a good thing friends dont act hunny just find some really friends and youll have a better time hangout and not acting wit each other hope i helped!
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I think that you should try talking to her about it & if the problem continues, maybe she isn't a real friend because real friends don't treat their friends like that. I hope everything works out!
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Tell her how you feel. If she doesn't want to hang around you with others, but she does when you're alone, maybe she really does want to be friends. But you have to tell her you wanna be friends around other people, too, or there's no point.
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i have a friend like that but it*s opposite infront of people she*s like CHELSEA OMG I LOVE YOU!! then when it*s me n her she ignores me.. weird i no. I consider her mi friend but she annoys me lol, i think you should tell "cindy" bout your concern and see what she says!! hope i helped!! xoxo, chelsea
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Ya you are friend..i know alot of people like cindy..ya'll are friends but not true friends..if you get what I'm saying..you get along with eachother but around other people Cindy acts likek you don't exist...I'll just tell you this dont confide in her and dont completely trust her! x0x hope i helped ♥ caitie ♥
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your not really friends because you don't ignore each other when certain people are around. you never ignore your friends especially when people are around.
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Have you tried talking to her? If not you should. Maybe you do something that embarasses her you never know until you ask.
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Confront her and ask. If you aren't sure, then you need to talk to her. If she makes excuses or won't answer you, then you need to find friends who will treat you better.
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