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SO i have this friend let's just say her name will be Sara.
So Sara and my other friend (hhmmm...Kat) sometimes hangout like when saras parents go up to Nevada and trips.so saras mom asks kats mom if sara can stay at
her house...so then during the time when saras staying the weekend at kats i try to find fun things to do all together...like go to the movies,mall,the center...etc.
but when i ask them they say no because sara usually gets left out but we all try our hardest not to...anyways one day after alot of bugging them sara gives in to going to the mall...well unfortunatley on that day sara just happens to of had her period and is acting really quiet and shy and kranky(im not saying thats a bad thing because she cant help it but..) so when i try to think of sumthing to talk about she doesnt answer and kat does so she was like leaving herself out. so after we go home aand i ask sara so did we leave you out and she responds yes and i was like we cant help it ur really moody and kranky ( i was thinking this not saying)and so then Kat really wants to hangout agin besause she had alot of fun but sara doesnt( and because shes been stuck with her all weekend and is kinda getting annoyed)...so now whenever we all hangout sara says she cant handle all of us together and it always just reuins our plans....
whats a girl to do?...so that we can all have fun but no1 will be left out & hurt
---confused girl
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maybe sarah just feels that you and kat are closer of friends and she doesn't say anything and makes herself feel left out for attention. or she could just be getting left out because maybe you and kat talk about things a lot and sarah doesn't kno whats bewing said and feels left out. to try solving this problem i would hang out with kat by herself then hang out with sarah by herself then have kat and sarah hang out by themselves. by doing this you could each become closer and then when you all hang out things could be different...at times everyone will feel left out i kno that because it happens to me sometimes too. so just try getting along with eachother more and then see what happens
♥ Nikki
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