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embaressed to dance..


Question Posted Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:07 pm

Ok I'm a sophomore and I've never been to a dance before..why? I'm embaressed and scared to dance...I don't know how! I have no butt so what's there to shake..(aha seriously!) When I move my sides, I look retarded...I don't know what to do with my hands, head, etc..very embaressing..I look so stupid..can someone teach me how to dance naturally without looking like I'm trying to hump something..ahh..thanks!

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MusicMuse008 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:20 am:
Going to a dance is about more than just dancing. It's a chance to hang out with people and chat. If you do want to dance, the only way I know of is to practice. I started to go to dances in 6th grade, and I'll tell you what: I was awful! A lot of people were! Nobody cared though. Dancing is a way to express yourself and have fun. If you can walk you can dance! So get your minimal booty out there and groove girl! Move with the music and on the off chance people laugh, laugh with them!

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TakeThisToYourGrave answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 1:19 am:
You dont have to go to a dance and actually dance lol, i go to them all the time and just "hang out"

Good luck!

feel free to drop one in my inbox if you still need help!

x3Teresa

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LongLostHeart answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 11:16 pm:
Hm...heres a trick:

Stand with your legs right below your shoulders then just swivel your hips in small figure eights over and and over.You can rock your rest of the body to your music and keep your hands down our hold them at waist height.

You could also ask your friends to teach you to dance.And also practive in your room infront of a mirror,see what looks good and what dosn't...and try dancing to different types of music using different ways.


Hope I've Helped,
~Long Lost <3

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ballerina04 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:28 pm:
Try to go out with a group of friends on the dance floor and watch what they're doing. Don't try and do anything crazy; just move to the music. I know; I would never dance at dances. Then I just watched others and realized I could do that too. You just need to relax and don't think about it too much. Good luck.

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cookierat123 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:16 pm:
you dont have to go crazy when you dance, it could just be nice and steady. just kind of sway back and forth snaping your fingers and kind of roll your belly. just try to make it look like you know how to dance. good luck in the future

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ari02 answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:13 pm:
hahah heyy well i say you just go to the dance and dont worry too much just have fun and follow the beat of the music do anything that comes to mind and take a risk if you end up lo0king retarded just ask one of your friends to help you because thats what friends are for riight? well go0d luck!

*ariana*

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x_mystery answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 9:12 pm:
Just get out there, and kind of move to the music. Go with your friends, too, so you can talk while you're dancing and not just look like a moron. Dancing in a crowd, like at a prom or whatever, isn't like choreographed dancing. You just move. Thats about all the advice I can offer, its not really a think I can write down, you just need to go to a dance and try it!

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