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hand job
well I was going with this guy and i had stayed after school and I had told my parents that I was staying for tutoring but I was really staying with him we made out but then all of a sudden he grabbed my hand stuck it in his pants I told him I didn't want to but then he let my hand go and then you know what happend I gave him a hand job I felt really bad I stil do cause you know I have parents what should I do
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Do you want to do what your doing to him or not? i think its really rude and disrespectful that he just made you do it and i dont think you should lie to your parents either so just if he tries to get you to do it again tell him that you don't want to and stick with it you dont have to say bc of your parents tell him you dont want to and hes not doing anything to change it bc he can't make you do things you dont want to if he gets mad about that then hes not a very good boyfriend and doesnt really want to be with you to be with you he prolly wants stuff if he gets mad over it and if he does you dont need him so theres my advice i hope it helps! tell me how it works out on here again!!
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Tell this guy that you don't feel comfortable dong things like that. If it happens again, tell him that you have to go and just walk away.
Hope I helped!
P.S: Don't lie to your parents becasue that won't help things either!
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You should never do anything you don't feel comfortable with. If it happens again, tell the guy that you're not comfortable doing it. If he really cares about you, he'll wait until you're ready for that. If he pushes the issue, talk to your parents, a teacher, or some other trusted adult. No one should be forced into something they're not ready for.
Good luck.
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jerk! he shouldnt do that if you dont want to. as for your parents..why do they need to know? "hey mom i was in the bathroom with this guy and i gave him a handjob" will lead to some interesting things. forgive yourself and promise yourself youll be stronger next time something like this happens. thats pretty much all you can do...you cant erase it. if your parents knew, they couldnt do anything either. <3
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Dahlin, parents will be parents. And we've all lied to our parents one time or another. And you will feel guilty. You can tell them to get that guilty feeling out of you, or realize what you did was wrong && promise youreself it wont happen again. And maybe if you talk to you're parents, they will let you have him over. And if you're parents are very strict about boys and wont leave you two to be alone. then maybe go see a movie. =) Im not saying to lie to you're parents but go to the movies with a group of friends and some guys. And have you're boyfriend go along. And then just tell you're praents that you're going to the movies with a group of guys and girls. That way you are honest, and can be alone with you're boy.
But, as far as im concerned.. its normal for the guy to take you're hand and put it in his pants. But if you dont want to do it, and you tell him that. he should NOT make you. And if he does, well hes not worth it.
Hope i helped. Goodluck!<33
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Its hard to forgive yourself sometimes because you felt it was wrong. But you cant change the past. But I suggest ou dont tell you parents if you ever want to be trusted again. But nextime if you dont want to do something dont feel pressured and dont do it.. Im sorry your feeling bad but you can aways talk to your friends to let out your feelings. I hope I helped you
Bianca
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Well you should stop worring because it is over and done with. If you still don't feel comfterable you can tell your parents but just think that they probably won't trust you again. I guess what they don't know can't hurt them?!!
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just go on through yuor life.. i mean theres nothing you can really do its over and done with and jsut dont tell your parents
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You should tell your parents, it will make you feel ALOT better even though it may be hard! They will probably never find out if you don't tell them though. As for the guy you either need to tell him not to do that and that you will put your hand where you want it, or break up with him! Good Luck! Make The RIGHT Choice!
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This guy seems like a real jerk, I don't know why you still go out with him! He's really immature, and I'm willing to bet that there were other instances in which he forced you to do something like that. Just break up with him, find a new guy, and forget that he ever existed.
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your pernst dont hve to know.. most children do this.. i snuck out of the house saying i was going out with a mate to make out with my bf.. but this is your life not your parents and they may never find out
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HeY hUn! omgawsh! i thought i was the only one who thought like that! the first time i had sex... i felt bad looking my parents in the eye... like i felt guilty or something because i was always their little girl! and i felt bad... kinda confused! but dont worry about it! theres NO way that they can find out! i'm sure you feel more guilty that you gave him a hand job.. which is totally normal! dont let him force you into doing That! but hey~ i'm not dissing you babe... believe me... i have definately been pressured into things! but no i've learned my lesson... if you dont want to... dOnt! remeber your parents were once yur age once 2! (hard to believe i know!) so i'm sure they went through the same things! if you want to talk to your mom about then do it! otherwise you always Have Me! haha... but dont feel 2 bad darling! experiencing sexual stuff is just part of being a teen! but remember babe.. dont let guys talk you into things! i hope all goes well! and i hope i helped! drop 1 in my box if you need further help!
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