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I need help... And quick
I love my boy friend so much! He is one of the best things that has happened to me in a LONG time. I just moved more than 30 minutes away from him. My parents almost never give me a ride over there and no one in his house will give him a ride unless we pay them money. I love him but I feel like we are just growing apart. Should I break up with him or just see how things go?
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you shoudl keep with him!!!!! is there a local bus which goes down to his area or cane he give you a lift???
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It is very hard to keep a long distance relationship, even if it is a little more than 30 minutes away. Right now I'm in a similar situation. I have the love of my life but we both live far away. It would take me about a day to get to his house. I love him though. The point I'm trying to make is that if you both really love eachother everything will work out. I guess the answer to your question would be just see how things go.
Good Luck
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Dont break up with him because you live 30 minutes away. If you love him, stay with him. Just try to explain to your parents that you really want to see him, or pay his parents.
-Brianna
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Just see how things go. if your relationship is going well why break up, save some coppers up and take the bus to somewhere near his house and take it in turns.
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This has happened to me before and you can still love someone and not be with them so if you think your growing apart maybe you should break it off and just stay really good friends. Shuree
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I think that if you feel that you are growing apart and never seeing each other that much then yes you should just break up w/ each other or take a breake from being together until you see each other. Then if you have problems gettin ova him then start to see other guys, even tho u might not lke him then you will be getting over him and the reason im telling you this is because my bf and i just broke up and i loved and still do love him w/ all my heart and it is still hard to get over him but i now am seeing another guy and it has helped alot
hope i helped xoxoxox
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Yeah... you guys are young. For now it may not work. I know... change rele stinks but I can promise you even if you avoid change, it will eventually come. So I will just make the change and get the pain over ASAP. Here's what you can do. Stay in touch!! Call eachother, IM/email, write letters if you have to!! Just make sure you stay in touch, always be really close friends. Tell him when you guys break up that you're still very fond of him you just know things cant work and you don't want it to be painful to have to not see him. So, hard as it may be, I think you should break up with him. If you stay good friends every so often you can see him... but as gf/bf you have this obligation to have to see eachother. You know ? If you stay good friends when you guys can drive, you can hang out more, and maybe one day go out again. It's a sticky situation, and it rele stinks. You might get really sad too. But remember there's every1 on advicenators to vent to, not to mention journal/diary ... poetry or just plain reading... doing whatever helps pass your time.
Good Luck hang in there-- lemme know how it goes.
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You do what seems right for you. Maybe you can get part time jobs and help pay for gas. Good luck :)
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IF you care about him and love as much as you say you do than I think you should stay together... See what happens see what the future holds for the both of you.
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I think if you two really love each other you should wait it out. sooner or later you will see each other. plus if might mean more when you see him, then if you saw him everyday. you should talk to your parents(if they dont care about you seeing him) and tell them that you miss being with your friend. i hope everything works ok. good luck.
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If you love him, then pay to see him!
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well, i think that you should stay with him because you should never break up true love.. and if you want to see him why dont you take a bus or another transportation. i hope i helped..
your friend,
Ms.Advice
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Well... have you talked to him about it? See how he feels if you wants to stick it out yall will find a away to see eachother....But if it is just not ment to be then leave it alone...everything happens for a reason!!
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