Here's the deal.
I have been single for about a month now, and it really sucks, I don't feel lonely so much, but at the same time, I am really lonely. I just need help meeting guys and getting them to like me and everything, something I've done before, I just don't know what to look for anymore. I guess I just need help finding a good guy, someone better than my past relationships. I have to get back into the single life I guess you could say. 14/f.
heatherifa2 answered Saturday April 16 2005, 9:29 pm: Calm down. when it stops mattering to you so much, and you start relaxing, boys will start to like you more. Also, don't be afraid to make the first move. Guys are just as shy about asking people out as girls are, and if you aren't willing to take a risk, you shouldn't expect a boy to be. [ heatherifa2's advice column | Ask heatherifa2 A Question ]
LostAngel answered Saturday April 16 2005, 9:02 pm: Hun, your 14...you don't need a bf right now, you don't need a guy around your life now...all you need right now @ 14 are you girls and a few credit cards lol...trust me, you don't need a relationship @ 14 now when you have your whole life ahead of you to date. I know I feel alone sometimes too and wish I had a guy who would hold me in his arms and make me feel happy, because im 15 and all my friends do are talking about their BF's and how much they love them and crap. So just give it some time and Mr. Right will soon to be at your door.
Avocodo answered Saturday April 16 2005, 8:51 pm: Hey im 14 too, but lately i realised that at our age we really dont need to be in a relationship. sure we miss it, but we have to realise that there are many more things in life than having a guy. if you realise that you really will be a lot happier. and if you still would like to be with someone, just look for someone you can see being your friend. good luck. [ Avocodo's advice column | Ask Avocodo A Question ]
hello_there_x0 answered Saturday April 16 2005, 8:37 pm: Did you make a typo when you said 'I have to get back into the single life I guess you could say.'?! Lol! But, anyway, I think that having a boyfriend is a wonderful feeling, and when it's gone, you feel you need to find another love asap. But, I'm sorry b/c you prob heard this a lot, I am speaking the truth; The right one will come along soon. Or maybe not soon. Maybe in 5 years. Just be patient.
kriddle06 answered Saturday April 16 2005, 7:51 pm: hey you and me both my friend i've been single since the summer but just keep on lookin it might not even easy it will be fun ask out some guys have some fun [ kriddle06's advice column | Ask kriddle06 A Question ]
duckyfernanda answered Saturday April 16 2005, 6:54 pm: To be honest some of the sweetest guys at your school are probably the ones that you call nerds. But a lot of people dont date them because they are the social outcasts. It is possible that in the future the geeks now may be the one that you call hot in high school and that you didnt want to notice them when they werent cute. Everybody changes. If you have a type of guy that you usually date, go for one a little bit different. Like instead of dating a "preppy" boy...try a skateboarder or a rebel. Open yourself up to a new variety. If it doesnt work out they hey...you made a friend. [ duckyfernanda's advice column | Ask duckyfernanda A Question ]
ur_MY_weakness answered Saturday April 16 2005, 6:08 pm: try becomeing friend with more boys...what you need in a guys is trust, honsty, etc.((very important)) i just broke up with my bf and i was broken into pieces! but yea you try and become more social to the boys once your friends with them keep it that way flirt when its the right time you know? [ ur_MY_weakness's advice column | Ask ur_MY_weakness A Question ]
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