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im not alone. just lonely.
when i moved here in 5th grade i met my best friend. and i know i did the first day we talked. and through the years we were so close. like i could talk to this girl about everything and anything. i went through so much with her. in 7th grade her brother died. in 8th grade her parents got divorced. and so much more but i know both of those changed her a lot. last summer my best friend introduced me to her other best friend. lets say her name was ashely. during the summer me and ashely talked a lot and she was EXACTLY like me. and before you knew it me and ashely were together all the time. so the school year went by and me and my old best friend stopped hanging out. we were sitting in study one day.. ( me and my old best friend ) and i found a note to herself in her planner. she was writing how she was afraid she lost me to ashely and that she missed me a lot. i read it without her knowing and it made me feel like shit. i dont think i have ever been so sad. the thing is, ashely is moving in less than 3 weeks 700 miles away from here. and i wish i didnt lose my old best friend for this other girl whos leaving. i feel so alone and i just dont know what to do =/ the last time me and my old best friend hung out was at her party in april and when we were signing happy birthday i cried. cause it just brought back all the other years doing that. and i think i cried for a really long time. i miss her =/ and idk what to do. help me someone =/ <3 confused writier.
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Tell your old bf what you feel and explain your situation and apologize then invite her to hang out with you and "Ashley". That way you guys will all be able to hang out and when "Ashley" moves you and your old bf will be friends again and start hanging out a lot more.
Hope I helped, Good luck
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Call your old friend, and tell her all this. Tell her you are sorry you weren't there for her, and that you miss her. She'll probably welcome you back with open arms.
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o wow, im sory. well you should definately tell her how much you miss the old times nd tell her how sorry you are for almost losing her to this other friend. you need to keep the relationship with her bcs she was your bestfrend first! (sory if i sound so mean rite now!) you should also tell her you're not just crawling back to her like an old cat that lost it's owner bcs ashley moved. you need your friend to noe you really do want to be friends with her nd be close to her agen nd that you miss nd cherish the old times!
hhop i helped!
sory if i sounded mean!
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I think you should at least try to talk to your old best friend again, you never know you could hit it off and become good friends again. Maybe you should talk about becoming distanced from her and being sorry for it and tell her how you feel. You know some people can grow apart but become good friends again things change and people change. If not than you just need to start talking to new people and meeting new people.
Hope I helped
<3 Heather
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