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ok. i have this boyfriend who i really like. thing is other people dont like him. well some people do but most people just dont. and im sick and tired of hearing this people. and i just feel like punchin them sometimes because if a friends of mine had a boyfriend that i dont like i dont go around saying it. PLEASE help do something about this. im so confused :(
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Who cares what they say? If you like him, then nothing else should matter. The next time they tell you that they don't like your boyfriend, just say OK and move on with your life. Don't give them attention that they want. Eventually, they're just going to get bored that you aren't responding.
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Why is this even a problem?? Either suck it up and ignore these people, or tell them to shut their fat mouths before it catches my fist!!! It's YOUR decision, NOT THERE'S!! THEY'RE not even the ones that have to 'go out' with him, YOU ARE; THEREFORE, it's YOUR decision, NO ONE ELSES!!!! I understand how this would annoy and upset you, Hun, but HONESTLY.. are you ALWAYS going to live YOUR life for OTHER people??? Why do you care sooooo much about the opinions of the people who can sit there and flap their fucking gums talking down something that brings you happiness????? If this really bothers you THAT much, then SAY SOMETHING TO THEM!!! If *YOU* aren't willing to stand up for *YOURSELF* then NO ONE ELSE will!!!! Does your boyfriend even KNOW that "people don't like him"??? Maybe he doesn't even know. Or better yet, maybe he just doesn't CARE!! And if HE isn't bothered by it, YOU should not be bothered by it. You can't spend your whole life trying to impress others and meet everyone's approval - life just doesn't work like that!
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Well if they were really your friends dont you think that they would support you and your boyfriend's relationship and leave you to make your own choices? I think that you should ask them this, hope i helped.
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