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sry this is really long but I rate really high!!
well i really fell for this guy over the summer and hes been away at summer camp for like 6 weeks and I was wondering weather or not i should tell him because i dont know if he likes me back and hes rarely online so if i do i have to tell him when hes actually online because i cant call him and then I have another problem, I'm not really allowed to have anything to do with boys both my parents think its crazy to have boyfriends at this age!! im 13/f by the way so i cant be with him if he likes me back, I've had a boyfriend before but i had to sneak calls on my cell phone with him and we never actually went out on a date and i cant talk to my parents about it, i mean my mom is ok but my dad would TOTALLY freak out even if i mentioned boys hes so overprotective in that way!! well I'm really sorry this is so long but i need advice!!
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actually i know someone that is having the same type of problem, when she was 13 she was not allowed to date either and yes she did sneak a bf or 2, but now her parents are actually letting her call boys and do more things with them. some things you could do is for one prove to your parents that you are trustworthy b.c trust is the best key. also respect their wishes sooner or later they'll give in a little bit. hope i helped- x0x Jen
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well, ur parents just really care about you and thats why they make upp that rule but sometimes rules are ment to be broken..tell this guy how you feel and maby ask him out..never be afriad to show ur emotions...(pLeAsE rAtE)
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well you should deffinantly find out if he likes you back or this is oging to be eating you alive forever...and if he does just bring it out in the open be daring and say "mom i have a boyfriend and nothing you say is going to stop me, i appreciate that you want me to be safe but i can handle myself" then you guys will most likely go through the sex talk...i know it sucks but you'll get over it...and then she will realize you are growing up give you a chance that night she will probably talk to you dad about it and make him stay out of it...that is usually and most probably what your parental units will do...well i hope i helped!!
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Hm.. yeah that does suck that your parents won't let you have boyfriends, but they are right. 13 is way to young, it seems like people want to grow up way too fast. Once you start getting into relationships, the more risk of heartbreak, and other things that you probably won't be ready for, for at least a couple of years. My advise to you would be to just get to know this boy. Be his best friend and get really close. And in a couple of years, you'll know everything about this kid and like him just the same. See where it goes from there, after all, best friends do make the best lovers
... hope I helped.
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i have a friend that is in that situation. i think you should tell him how you feel. or if your nervous to tell him yourself then have a friend tell him for you. it works for me. and if he likes you back and if he asks you to be his gf then go for it sista. i mean, i know its wrong to lie to your parents but if you dont start living life then your really going to miss out. your only young once right? ok, if he asks you out on a date then dubble with friends. just tell your dad your going with your friend to the movies or something. that way he will think that you and your friend thats a girl are the only ones going. i hope it works out for you bc if i was in that situation i would do the same thing. good luck and feel free to ask any thing else...O and tell me how it works out.
&heart;s leah
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Well when he comes online IM him and talk tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same then try n get togetha...wat daddy don't know don't hurt em'! so0o0o yea do wat u want just TRY not to get caught and if you wanna chill wid him be like I'm goin to the mall wid my friends then invite him to go then just hang wid him that's wat i do! and it works so0o0o yea! good luck...need anything ask*
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If you only talk to him online right now that I don't think you should even tell him you like him. If you can't tell him face to face, then I think its not that good of an idea. Also, your parents think you're too young, so it's going to be all too hard to keep up a relationship with them breathing down your neck.
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i think you should tell the guy how you feel. if he likes you back then just be really close friends with him. are you allowed to have guy friends? when you see him go on group dates so your dad wont think anything of it.
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