My name is Nicole Powers but everyone calls me Nickie. I'm 14 years old. I love to play sports.. basketball, softball & soccer. I love to sing, dance, talk on the computer, watching movies, hanging out with my friends and reading. I also love to other things too. I'm devoted to my friends, my boyfriend & sports. My best friends mean everything to me & so does my mr. wonderful. I have the best boyfriend anyone could ask for. I have everything I could possibly want. I love my life & the people in it. I'm don't have the perfect life, but the way I live it is perfect enough for me.
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so does anyone know of any good HEART BROKEN songs. well this is what happend this guy and i were in love but then he was also a flirt and it hurt me so i broke up with him, not wanting to because im inlove with him and still am, and hes over me now. but music seems to help me get through. so any good songs that are like i love you but im not coming back type?
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Blake Shelton - She wouldn't be gone
(that song always gets me through the tough times)
Jessie James - I look so good (without you)
Taylor Swift - A perfectly good heart
Taylor Swift - You're not sorry
3 Doors Down - Let me be myself
Ashton Shepherd - Takin' off this pain
Beyonce - Single ladies
just a few of my favorites :)
hope they help!
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Ok, Im a sixteen year old male.
Me and my girl friend decided it would be romantic to lose our virginity on valentines day- I don't want any lectures about underage sex and what not. We did use a condom.
But she has been complaining about her chest and lower stomach hurting...I'm not wanting to think about it but could she be pregnant? There wasn't a break in the condom so I have no idea...
But I really hope not, I'm not saying that to be mean...But my parents told me if this happened I would be kicked out of my house...HELP.
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you shouldnt worry about it.
the same thing happened to me my first time.
i was so worried about it and stressing that
my period came about a week late and i had a lot of in my lower stomach.
try not to stress about it too much
and especially not around her.
that'll cause her to stress more and probably make the pains worse.
just relax.. i know easier said than done.
good luck! hope i helped!
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So I'm 15. and I really want a boyfriend who's like, a senior in high school at least or older. I want an older boyfriend because older guys are much more mature and most of my friends are older than me anyway. And plus I want to be able to have a real relationship, not just one that will fall apart within a few months, like most high school relationships do. I want real love. And I know that most high school senior or college age guys like to have sex with their girlfriends. And I think if I'm in love I'm ready for that. But I need help trying to find a guy and I need a way I can get out of the house with him without telling my parents. (link)
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as a 15 year old, the majority of senior guys will not want anything besides sex.. and you definitely don't want to get involved with college guys. once they get what they want.. they generally leave you. be careful. maybe find someone a little more your own age.
you'd be surprised that a lot of guys your age
are looking for a serious relationship too.
hope i helped :)
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im 17.f
i haven't popped my cherry yet because i don't use tampons & i haven't had sex yet. Say when i do have sex it could pop. Has this happen to anyonee? do you just like bleed while having sex? if you do, how embarrassing is thatt?
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when i lost my virginity my boyfriend was the one who suggested to lay a towel down. it's perfectly normal to bleed, although i did not bleed during the sex. i went to the bathroom shortly after and realized i was bleeding. it's basically just like spotting. nothing big at all. i went and told my boyfriend right after. nothing to be embarassed about, especially if you're close with your partner.
hope i helped! :)
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16/f....i want to do amazing things for my boyfriend...like things to show him that i care
this might sound bad but honestly, he doesn't do any amazing things for me ...like whenever we hang out we just go see a movie or whatever, don't get me wrong, i love him with all my heart but i want that relationship where we do amazing things for each other if you get what i mean...it could be anything to make him happy and know that i really care =) (link)
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i have little surprises for my boyfriend all the time and he loves them.
i've a dozen chocolate chip cookies from scratch and with the leftover dough i used it to make a gigantic heart shaped cookie. i made him a cd of all the songs that reminded me of him and i created a front & back cover for the cd case of two different pictures of us. everytime i get into his car he's always playing it. i bought him his favorite movie and he watched it several times a day for a couple weeks. i framed a picture of us. and i took a stack of post it notes and wrote on the first note why i'm in love with you, and on each post it i wrote a reason why i'm in love with him. and the very last post it said something to the affect of because you'll love me forever. i'll randomly buy him his favorite drink or some sort of food he likes. just recently my biggest surprise was he drove into my driveway and spray painted in the snow i wrote i love you. he loved it and later that night told me that he loved all the little things that i do for him.
hope i helped! :D
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(17/f) i wanted to make my boyfriend a cd for valentines day with cute relationship songs but nothing too lovey dovey. any suggestions would be appreciated! (link)
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i did this for my boyfriend for christmas and he loved it!
he listens to it everytime he's in his car.
classic songs are great, such as aerosmith - i dont wanna miss a thing, edwin mccain- i'll be, tim mcgraw - my best friend..
songs like that. if there's a song that comes on the radio and you instantly think of him, put that on there. even if he doesnt know the song he'll listen to it enough to learn it. trust me.
ask him what some of his favorite songs are without letting him know what's going on. he'll appreciate it if you put some his favorites on it too :).
hope i helped. good luck!
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ok so i had sex with my boyfriend a couple of times now but last time we did my "cherry popped" and i'm still bleeding a little after 3 days. is this a problem? (link)
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noo, that's normal.
i had sex with my boyfriend for a couple weeks and i bled. stopped for a week or so when my period came, then yesterday it was the first time we had had sex in a week or two.. and i bled again.
it's normal.
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I'm 16. I'm sexually active. I've been with 3 guys. I understand that I'm young, but thats not the point here.
I'm a chubby girl. I'm not exactly fat, but I do have a lot of pudge in my stomach area. Every other area of my body is fine except for my stomach, in my opinion.
When I'm having sex, I get really self conscious about my weight. That's why I refuse to be on top. I want the courage to be on top and to take control without being self conscious about my weight.
Besides losing weight, what are some things that I can do to feel more comfortable? (link)
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i was the same exact way. i have all the fat on my tummy.. but my boyfriend reminds me that he loves me and he loves my body. if the guy that you're having sex with respectsyou enough, he won't judge your body. he'll accept you for who you are and make you feel beautiful, even when you don't think you are.
if you want to be on top, try it with your shirt on. i had to at first. gradually take baby steps. it may take a little while, but you need to be comfortable with yourself first.
you are beautiful, no matter what. belly fat or not.
hope i helped!
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Hey, I know the subject is what every guy dreams of, but I need to learn how to get along with girls. I'm 14 year old male. I have some girl friends but I'm not very close to them. The reason is because I moved around so much I'm afraid to make friends because I may have to seperate from them. Because of this, I'm a loner and I sit at home and do nothing all day. Can you PLEASE give me some advice on how to become more people-friendly and get out there and make friends. Please I'm begging you. (link)
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Alright, I can't quite say that I have the same problem but I am a 14 year old girl and what I look for in guy friends is I just want someone who can make me laugh. Sometime at school just get up the courage to go talk to a girl. If you even have just one friend then ask them to help you get to know more people and when you're bored.. don't just sit home and do nothing, call up one of your friends and ask them to get a group of people together to doing something. be open to knew things and have courage to talk to people. nothing bad will come out of it. if they don't accept you for who you are, then they can't be a very good friend. hope i helped. if you have anymore questions just e-mail me or IM me.♥
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Alright I'm 15 and I'm a male. My girlfriends birthday is comming up really soon & she won't tell me what she wants for her birthday. I have no idea what I should get her. She's going to be 14. If anyone can give me some ideas it'd be greatly appreciated. I'll rate you on it too. I really need some help. Thanks (link)
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Well being a 14 year old girl, I'd want something like a necklace or a bracelet or just something that will really mean something to her & something that comes from the heart. Good luck. Hope I helped.♥
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I used to be able to sing "okay" But then I became a cheerleader for 7 years and now I sound like a man when I sing. I'm afraid to sing in the car to the radio or when I'm goofing off with my friends because I hate my voice and no one else likes to hear it. Is there anyway to make my voice any better? I love singing but I hate my voice! (link)
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I love to sing but sometimes when I'm not happy with the way my voice is sounding.. I drink a little bit of lemon juice. It works for me.. but whatever you do before you have to start singing for cheering don't drink milk, soda & possibly even water. It doesn't help your voice but sometimes makes it worse. Hope I helped.
Nickie♥
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This sounds like a really childish question but is it normal to not know what feelings you have about someone?
I know this guy and everytime I see him or think about him I get butterflies (cheesy much?) but when I think about it, I don't know him enough to LIKE him so..yeah.
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okay, i know what you're feeling. i knew this guy for about a month and i broke up with his friend because i liked him..and well i didn't even know him. i started talking to him on the computer then the phone and before i knew it we were going out and i was going to his town to hang out with him and he was coming to my town. yes i got those "butterflies" and i still do. it's normal to not know how you're really feeling..because 5 months later we've dated off and on..sometimes when i feel like i'm over him i hear his name and i get those stupid "butterflies" again and it makes me wonder how i really feel about him. maybe you should get to know him a little better before you rushed into anything because well we rushed into things and it hurt our boyfriend girlfriend relationship in the long run. hope i helped.
Nickie♥
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Ok...how can i get him back if hes the one who broke up with me??He told me he wanted me to find someone better than him but there is no one better than him.So what can i say or do to get him back?? (link)
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okay, the same thing has happened to me..my x boyfriend has broken up with me and we got back together. if it's truly meant to be it will work. just sit him down, call him, or e-mail him or something and tell him how you truly feel. tell him that just want another chance to prove that yes you may deserve better but you'd rather just have him. you'll feel better about doing so and at that point if he doesn't realize what he's missing out on..then that must tell you there's something out there that's better for you then he is. hope i helped.
♥Nickie
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i love this girl. But not in a love love way. as a friend, and i am a girl myself. but i love her alot. noo not as in girlfriend love dont get the wrong idea. but when i told her i loved her she thought i loved her as in more then a friend and she blocked me on aim. what should i do? i tried calling but she wont pick up (link)
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okay what you should do is sometime go to her house and talk to her in person. if she was truly your friend she wouldn't take it the wrong way. you just have to let her know that you love her in a best friend or a sisterly way. i understand how you feel..me and my friend tell each other we love each other all the time and we know what we mean by it..just tell your friend that you're not trying to go lesbian on her or anything just tell her how you feel about your friendship, and how much of a good friend she is. hope i helped =)
good luck
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Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high. (link)
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OKAY! someone who i can really help. well this girl..reminds me of myself. i've been hurt very badly in relationships before..and well there's been this one guy who was incredible..and sweet..and he reminds me of the way you are (or the way you say you are)..well i turned him down..because i don't want to get hurt..i think this is what your friend might be doing. i think she may be afraid of making a commitment to another guy..cause she's afraid that every person she starts to like is going to break her heart and let her down. do something for her to really prove how much you really like her. do something for her (actions speak louder than words)..just hang around her more often..don't try to rush into things cause that may make it worse..but just try to slowly ease your way into the relationship..make her fall for you as you fell for her..but the thing i really want to tell you is..if your going to say that you won't break her heart or let her down..if you really are this kind of guy..don't hurt her..and make her realize that there really is that one special guy out there for every girl. make her realize that guys aren't "dogs" and will treat her like dirt. make her start to trust guys more..but the key to a relationship..is to make her trust YOU. good luck. hope i helped. follow your heart
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you see iv liked this girl for a few weeks and she means the world to me..she knows i like her A LOT but i mean iv never felt this way about someone but the problem is like i dont really think we EVER have a chance going out because shes like more a friend and she doesnt like me anymore than a friend can someone tell me what to do ? (link)
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i have a friend that i'm like that with..i think you 2 should just stay friends..even if she does end up feeling the same way about you as you feel about her..just like you said you're friends..and chances are you don't want to ruin the friendship you have..trust me..i've been there done that..and it hurts your friendship for a long time..maybe even forever..but i think that you should just be friends and move on and find another girl out there..good luck..follow your heart. hope i helped
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OK so there's thig guy I like. I've liked him for like3 or 4 years. Now he met this girl whos like completley gorgeous and they make out and stuff like all the time. I think he might like her. I think he knows I like him, but what do I do? (link)
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i know how you're feeling. i liked this guy for about 2 or 3 years..and he went through a few girlfriends and sadly i was never one of them..cause i was to young..well..eventually after you relize that you may not be able to be with this guy since he has a girlfriend..you'll slowly pick up the pieces and move on. you may not think you'll be able to at first but trust me..it's hard but you can..you eventually get tired of not being the first thing on his mind and you just think "is it really worth it to wait around for him when i know it may never be" and you'll move on..just follow your heart. hope i helped
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I just want to make clear that me and the person involved have NO blood relation. And I am still a virgin.
August of 2004 my 2nd step cousin (adam) and his cousin on the other side of the family (cal) came to visit my family for 5 months. They stayed at our house. At that time I was 13. Then in October Adam, Cal, me and my sister (19) went to the city (New York City). After that we went to dinner. I was next to cal. And then out of no where he just grabbed my hand. So we were holding hands the entire time. We ordered like 5 bottles of wine. When we got up to leave we all felt tipsy at the same time. So we were walking back to the train station and in the middle of no where Cal tries to kiss me and we were walkin behind my sister and Adam so he pushes me agains a building and leans on me and kisses me. But I pushed him off. I did want to kiss him but for some reason I was scared too. He kept trying to kiss me the entire night. On the train on the way home he started asking me why i wouldn't kiss him. And you know how people say they are telling the truth when they are drunk.. Well he kept saying how much he liked me and other stuff. They were staying in our basement so that night me and my sister stayed with them. So I went to get drinks. Cal followed me behind and pushed me into another room and we started making out. Then I felt him get hard on me so i decided to give him a handjob. Then after that night everytime we were alone we would cuddle and kiss. We didnt tell anybody about us cause we were scared of what they would think since he was 19 and I was 13. After my birthday in Nov when I turned 14 he fingered me only once, but I have him head ... alot, and I gave him handjobs. We dryhumped like 4 times. I even gave him head in the shower. He wanted me to have sex with hime but I said no. cause I was a virgin. I knew that this "relationship" wouldnt go anywhere so I didnt want to lose it to him. And I knew that I would end up getting hurt but I still wanted to be with him. I almost got caught by my mother giving him head. So she was always suspicious of me. Then Cal and Adam left in December. Now I am goin to go visit him and idont know how to act. should i act like nothing happened? I'm a bit confused because I think now I am ready to lose my virginity to him but I dont know if he still has feelings for me. Now he is 20. But also for some reason after he left I have had the sudden urge to want to fuck somebody. I'm a virgin and I want to wait but damn...its hard. And I have particularly have given a liking to giving head. This wasn't really a question but I hope someone could give me advice anyways or help me. sorry its long. (link)
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really all i can tell you do is..do what you think is right..if your 14 or 15 you may not be ready to lose your virginity..especially to a guy that you probably don't "love"..but if you think you should or have to do it..do it..you may regret it in the end..but hey if it's what you want..follow your heart and do what YOU think is right..not ANYBODY else.
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what is there to do like between making out and sex(anykind)(i dont want to do it, but i want to do more than just make out)???
and if you want to tell me how,(ive never really done anything) that would be more than helpful if you explain what it is
5s if you answer it (link)
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what you can do to a girl eat her out, or finger her. and to a guy you can give him head or give him a hand job. hope i helped =) good luck
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About six months ago i met a guy called james and after seeing him once we had arleady hugged and the second time i could tell at the sleepover he tryed to lie next to me.. like if i moved nearer the TV he would follow which i found well cute and we went to sleep loking into others eyes.. just after seing each other twice! i loved him and he sed he fancied me and everything seemed perfect like we weremeant to be together and we kissed in spin the bottle and i was well happy. so when i was in Holland with my school hockey team i asked him out by phone. But the thing was i never saw him and like i only saw him once every two months so after a week he emailed me saying that it wasnt going to work and we should just be good friends and then wait a while when he isnt so busy and see what hapens. but a month later a girl hes been at school with for three years dumped her boyfriend to be with James , i was well upset buti acepted it and moved on, and ive had crishes and ive been flirting then before another party that we would both be at he text me sayin " are u gon to the party i am and i can play spin the bottle oz i broke up with Rosie see u der" and i was obviously well happy .. but iz he just falling back on me? at the party he was obviously flirting just not as much as he used to.. i dont know if this is because he is trying to be slow... he sed he ants to meet up with me but i dont know if he truley does like me or just wants to fall back and use me as im second best or something? im confused please help i rate very highly and im confused (link)
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i understand where he's coming from. i've been in the same situation..maybe he is falling back on you yet..when he was going out with "rosie" he still really liked you and is now afraid that after he was with her you don't feel the same way about him. maybe you should hang out sometime before you rush into anything big again because even though you may really like him you don't want to rush things and ruin them..i'm sure he's just scared because him and his other girlfriend just got over a relationship and maybe he's afraid if he moves to fast he's going to lose something or someone he really loves. don't give up hope on him though. and don't think you're second best because i think you're far from it. follow your heart and everything will be okay. hope i helped.
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