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i love this girl. But not in a love love way. as a friend, and i am a girl myself. but i love her alot. noo not as in girlfriend love dont get the wrong idea. but when i told her i loved her she thought i loved her as in more then a friend and she blocked me on aim. what should i do? i tried calling but she wont pick up
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UHM LEAVE HER A MESSAGE WHEN YO0 CALL NEXT TIME ADN EXPLAIN T0 HER THAT YO0 DIDNT MEAN IT IN A LESBIAN WAY! JUST EXLPAIN T0 HER THAT YO0 L0VE HER IN A FRIEND KINDA WAY LIKE A SISTER! SHE SH0ULD UNDERSTAND THEN.. IF SHE D0ESNT THEN IDK ♥//ALMA
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Okay, well maybe you can get on a old or make a new s/n for AIM and try Explaining to her what you meant! If she has caller i.d u can try blocking your number so that way she dont know its you calling b/c if she did see your number on the caller i.d she probably wouldnt pick up...you block the number out by *67 then the rest of the number..hope i helped!
...AshNicolex3
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Make a new sn.
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Do you no her email address or go to her house and explain what you ment i hope i helped good luck <3 AShlee
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I have BEEN there!
Try calling her. Press *67, then dial her number and it'll block it so she won't see your number on caller ID. Tell her that you're her BEST FRIEND and that's how you love her. You love her like a sister, but you love guys. You're not a lesbian. She's like your sister and you would practically die for her.
Then, maybe she'll get the point!
I tell my friend that I love her all the time! She tells me the same. That's because we have known each other for years and we love each other like sisters! I still have boyfriends and stuff. I love her the same way you love her. She's one of my BEST friends!
Your friend has to know the same. Tell her that you know her really well and you have always thought of her as a really cool sister and you love her IN THAT WAY! Not asin the way SHE thinks!
If she doesn't believe you, and she thinks you're trying to "cover it up", ignore her for a while and she'll start missing you, if you and her were really close.
Also, if you see her a lot, you can just tell her how you feel in person!
That would probably be better so she can actually SEE your facial expression!
Well, tell me how it goes. Email me at x_pink_x109@yahoo.com to tell me if it works and if she understands. If it doesn't work, I'll tell you what else you could do.
Or you can drop one in my inbox!
Best of luck!
Hope I helped!
♥ Kayla
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Well, thats kind of weird how she just blocked you. Girls to girls are supposed to say those kinds of things, theres nothing wrong with it. If your friend was a TRUE friend, she would have accepted it, and embraced it. I have no clue what you could do in this situation, because if she blocked you from AIM you obviously can't talk to her, and shes not picking up your phone calls.. hmm.. try talking to one of your other friends, tell them what happend, and let them talk to your friend for you. Take Care.
♥ Alli*
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Your friend should stop acting like a littel girl.She should have gave you time to explain what you meant.Try to go to her house and explain what you meant.And if she wont answer the door try writting her a note explaining what happend and leave it by her door.And she should have gave you the time to explain cause friends tell each other that all the time.
*Good luck*
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You should confront her in person. Explain to her.
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First of all, give her some time and a little breathing room. Takes time for people to get over things. Don't get me wrong, telling people you love them is awesome and i do it myself. (i too am a girl). When i tell my friends that i love them they know that i mean as friends and they can respond in the same way. After giving her some time, try calling again and simply explaining. Just be patient and it'll work out!!!
Disciple (plz rate me if i deserve it)
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okay what you should do is sometime go to her house and talk to her in person. if she was truly your friend she wouldn't take it the wrong way. you just have to let her know that you love her in a best friend or a sisterly way. i understand how you feel..me and my friend tell each other we love each other all the time and we know what we mean by it..just tell your friend that you're not trying to go lesbian on her or anything just tell her how you feel about your friendship, and how much of a good friend she is. hope i helped =)
good luck
<33 with love nickie
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Hey
I am sorry if what i am about to say will hurt you but it's the truth. If this girl was truly your bestfriend she would have understood what you meant. Or if she had doubts she would have talked to you about it without acting like a baby, and hiding from you. Because that's basically what she's doing. "HIDING"! But maybe she honestly thought you meant it the other way and feels very uncomfortable with the whole situation. In that case i understand why she might be hiding. But what i think you should do in this case is talk to her. If you really do care about her and want to save this friendship. If she won't let you talk then do whatever you can to get to her. Email her! Leave her a message on her cell phone. if she doesn't have one ask her mother to take a message for her. Try instant messaging her on another sn. But i honestly think the best way to get to her is writing her a letter and giving it to her mother to give to her. Make sure to write down all your feelings and explain what you meant.
If you ever need anything else or just need someone to talk to im here.
♥ maria ♥
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You're weird. Go emo.
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my advice to you is go by her house and tell her that you love her as a friend nothing more see i can relate i tell my bestfriend i love her and she says it back
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