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hey everyone. first of all i am a 14 female. there is this girl, yes a girl, and she is 17 female. i have liked her ever since LAST august (2004). then, over christmas break i found out she was gay. hang on, let me go back. at the beginning of july(2004) is when i first met her. we started becoming friends around the end of august. so i would say i started liking her at the beginning of august. i play softball from july-the end of september with her. that is the only time i talk to her.. once softball was over last year, we werent friends anymore. well, we were but we never talked and i think she forgot about me. well, ever since softball has been over since last year, she is all i have thought about, and i mean every day i would think about her. every time i think about her i get nervous but happy. like, i dont no, i cant explain it. i dont think this is a crush either. i would do anything for this girl. i mean i would even take a bullet for her. but, now since softball has started, its gonna take a while for us to be friends again. meaning, she hasnt talked to me since softball has started this year. and i no once games start we will become friends. and, she is the only girl i feel like this for, i have never felt this way about ANYONE either. but, she also has other friends on our softball team that im sure she hooks up with. i mean when i see her, i dont no its just shes soo pretty and i cant help but stare. so, my question is, do you think this a crush, love, or obsession? one more question, does this mean i am straight, bisexual, or lesbian?
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Depends..if you like guys AND girls that means your bisexual.
You're obviously not straight since you seem to like this girl alot...no offense
If you don't like guys then yes your lesbian.
I think that you just are attracted to women the same way you are to guys, maybe you just have a crush on her, why dont you just try talking to her? Good luck with that.
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I think (2 answer your 1st question) that maybe you are confusing Love as a Dear Friend & Love as "Lovers". Love as a Dear Friend is like when you are best friends to someone and then they move away. There’s that emptiness inside. It is natural to feel that way. But Love as in “Lovers” is of course is a different kind of love, it is a bond between two people of the opposite sex, yes I said opposite (and I will say no more on that subject), where you become a different & complete person (if you like to know more on this subject ask me later).
Now on to the 2nd question; the only way one can be as you put it “straight, bisexual, or lesbian” is if they CHOOSE to be! There is little more I can say beyond that. So I will leave you this hope; that you will find yourself in the dark & murky mist of confusion that now is covering around you. may you find what you are searching for.
I hope this help (let me know if dose).
~Teen Guru~
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Wow. you would really take a bullet for her. Thatsz really deep.
But I think it's crush && your falling for her.
And not to be rude. But maybe your Lesbian.- Unless you think about guys this way too.
Good luck sweety*
*Soraa.
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Well for your first qustion i think its all i mean after all you would take a bult for her.And for your second qustion If you like boys and if you like that girl more then a friend it probaly means your bisexual.
*Good luck*
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