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Question Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 9:50 pm

you see iv liked this girl for a few weeks and she means the world to me..she knows i like her A LOT but i mean iv never felt this way about someone but the problem is like i dont really think we EVER have a chance going out because shes like more a friend and she doesnt like me anymore than a friend can someone tell me what to do ?

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Itz_your_luckee_day answered Friday July 22 2005, 12:24 am:
I know someone who was best friends with this girl for 4 years.. now they are dating and never thought they would ever go out with each other. So trust me this is possible.

These things take time. If you've never felt this way before then trust me, the feeling wont go away. To be completely honest this girl doesnt like you and waiting is going to hurt. So you need to find the 2nd greatest girl. Just find another girl that you would like to date, this will get your mind off your friend and plus it will make her jealous..(shhh i didn't say that ; ) keep your friendship strong but don't give her as much attention as your new girlfriend. This will all take time but if your relationship with this new girlfriend fails then you'll either already be over your friend or she'll be dying to date you.


ps: when i'm talking about this 2nd best girl it should really be someone you like to be around, don't just use her to get the other girl.

hope i helped and GOOD LUCK.

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xdinGyxbaBex answered Thursday July 21 2005, 9:27 pm:
i'm pretty sure that at one point she might like you but look for other grls !!

kaitlyn jO*

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salemwolf answered Thursday July 21 2005, 6:51 pm:
just let her know how you feel. let her know if that she doesnt feel the same way that you'll still care for her no matter what.

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nickieeldorado24 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 10:57 pm:
i have a friend that i'm like that with..i think you 2 should just stay friends..even if she does end up feeling the same way about you as you feel about her..just like you said you're friends..and chances are you don't want to ruin the friendship you have..trust me..i've been there done that..and it hurts your friendship for a long time..maybe even forever..but i think that you should just be friends and move on and find another girl out there..good luck..follow your heart. hope i helped

<33 with love nickie

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CFWLOVESYOU answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 5:19 pm:
ur time will come<3

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XoLoVeYaXo435 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:49 pm:
spend time with her and she might get to like you...thats what i do with guys

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VixenDark answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 8:02 am:
Talk to her! Maybe she will develop feelings for you?

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ncblondie answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 12:46 am:
I'm sorry to say there's not much you can do. Continue being a good friend and hope her feelings change down the road. Sometimes it takes people a while to realize that what they were looking for was right in front of them in plain sight then entire time.

Don't wait around forever though. You may miss out on a great person because you were busy wishing for the wrong girl.

Good luck and best wishes.

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Ashley9391 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 12:24 am:
I think its great that you told her that you like her this much, but you cant really do anything to change the way she feels towards you. All you pretty much can do is so her how much you really do care and tell her all the time how great she is, girls love hearing that stuff. But whatever you do, don't pressure her into liking you because you don't want to end up with a fake relationship.

If you need more advice feel free to IM me at Ashley9391.


hope i helped

<3 ash

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anne_givings answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 10:33 pm:
i think its sweet that you asked for advice! you oughta tell her because even though she might not LIKE you like you she wont stop talking to you or start acting weird, only if you do. i would be so flattered if a guy said he liked me, but i wouldnt be rude to him or anything. most girls would love to hear that from a guy. if you tell her and nothing happens, just become a better friend because best friends learn to love eachother anyway!
hope i helped!
<3<3 anne givings

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