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I want a boyfriend who's a lot older than me.
So I'm 15. and I really want a boyfriend who's like, a senior in high school at least or older. I want an older boyfriend because older guys are much more mature and most of my friends are older than me anyway. And plus I want to be able to have a real relationship, not just one that will fall apart within a few months, like most high school relationships do. I want real love. And I know that most high school senior or college age guys like to have sex with their girlfriends. And I think if I'm in love I'm ready for that. But I need help trying to find a guy and I need a way I can get out of the house with him without telling my parents.
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If you're going to do it , you're going to so I'd say just talk to your older friends and meet they're older friends. Be mature but be yourself and hope for the best.
One thing though , I'm 14 and I'm going through my ex-friends with benifits who is now my good friend who is 21, being friends with benifits with my other friend whos also 14. And, I just had a miscarriage from beind pregnant with a guy who's 17. I've always been into older guys , but try to stay within like a year or two, that give you the ability to still be in their maturity range...
BTW , when you're in school theres a big diffrence with age groups, once you start chillin with people who dont go to school , [ which i do ] i chill with people from 13 to 25 , so in school its diffrent.
hope i helped :)
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as a 15 year old, the majority of senior guys will not want anything besides sex.. and you definitely don't want to get involved with college guys. once they get what they want.. they generally leave you. be careful. maybe find someone a little more your own age.
you'd be surprised that a lot of guys your age
are looking for a serious relationship too.
hope i helped :)
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Those guys will make you think they love you and make you love them then have sex with you then leave you.
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Guys that age do NOT want girls your age for anything more than sex. I agree 1000000% with the other girls and I HIGHLY advise that you stay away from older guys. Plus, aren't you aware of how your reputation would change once dating older guys? I don't respect girls that date people that much older than them. It is trashy and I GARAUNTEE you, people will call you a slut behind your back. I'm in college and have years of experience with peers like this.
Put yourself in their shoes. Would you want to date a 10 or 11 year old?
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I know at 15 those 18yo's driving cars, smoking, drinking, acting cocky and getting ready for college look really mature. Trust me, they aren't... and Sr.HS/College relationships fall apart in a few months just like Jr high relationships.
Sex doesn't make a relationship last longer, so even if you are truely ready for it, it isn't the answer to true love.
Plus, a real, mature relationship doesn't involve sneaking and hiding from your parents.
You sound a little like you are in love with the idea of being in love...
If you have problems you want to resolve - like bordom, loneliness, depression ... a relationship isn't going to fix those things, no matter how old the guy is.
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hii girl, im 15 too and i've dated a lot of older guys and ive experienced what your trying to achieve.
honestly, most of them will try to use you for sex, most seniors and college guys are looking for just fun and hookups, its the seniors last year of highschool and a lot probably arent looking for a committed reltationship.. but dont get me wrong there are lots of sweet older guys that are looking for a committment. you just have to find them. Hangout with your older friends more and ask them to introduce you to their older friends. But pleaseee wait a while and get to know the guy and find out what hes truly about before you have sex with him or decide he's the one. A lot of guys might just try to sweet talk you and make you head over heels so they can have sex with you and then thats it. It sounds mean but its like and they are guys...
well good luck and if you have any questionsss just ask me :)
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