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Confused
Hi,
Ok, so this guy has asked me out for the longest time. about 5 minutes ago he ask me out again and i turned him down, again, and he was like 'well if we cant go out can we be friends with benifits? like blow jobs, fingering, etcetera... ' and ive noticed myself feeling more attraction to him lately just not enough to be in a relationship with him. but there is that need for sexual attention from an attractive guy, you know? so i dont know what to do?? help please!!
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I dont think you should be his "friend with benifits" because then guys will see you ass a whore and that your easy and that is why every guy would want to be with you. You need a guy that will treat you good and wants you for you.Dont put your self out there like that .Hope I helped.
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Well, it all depends. You said you have a physical attraction for this guy, but not enough to actually go out with him? Ask him if he would really be okay with the just 'friends with benefits idea' and ask yourself too, and if you're both okay with it then I say go ahead, but don't let it take over any other relationships with guys you may have.
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No other guys will ask you out if they think you are having a relationship with this bozo.
If he doesn't care enough about you to date you, why on earth are you going to let him use you to get his rocks off? Tell him to use his hand and leave you alone. :)
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ya no what that guy just wants to get some from u
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i dont see anything wrong with no strings attached sex as long as you safe and your both at an understanding thats theres no strings attached!!
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If you wouldn't like him to go out with him, why would you have sex with him? Sexual needs....how about bad reputation. Friends with benefits, and the guy gets all the benefits. Think I'm old fashioned? Well I am, and I wish that things have changed for women but they haven't changed in 100's of years. When you meet that special guy who wants to marry you, he is going to ask you........how many?
And you'll want to say none or a very low number. The best part about sex is being in love. Otherwise it is just a bodily function.
Michele
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If your comfortable with being friends with benefits then thats okay.. just do what your comfortable with and what makes you happy.. ♥ Nikki
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