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pregnant girlfriend
im a 21 year old male and my girlfriend is 19 and 8 months pregnant.She's thinks i dont find her attractive anymore because it seems like ive lost my sex drive!!what should i do??
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just be patient with her she is feeling all kinds of emotions right now. try to remember the cgood luckhanges she is going through. im sure she misses the fact that it was once just you and her now she has to share her body and its a lilttle odd to a first time mom. she probaly has fears just like you...like whether you will still love her and such. as crazy as it might sound that is how most pregnant woman feel when delivery is coming near. just hang in there and be very interested in her pregnancy... or shall i say your pregnancy because you are BOTH pregnant so you both will go through alot of ups and downs but always remember the reward is great and its what life is all about.
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most likely she thinks that bcuz she believes that you caused her this pain of the baby and she wants to take some of her anger or whatever out on you so no worries just keep supporting her and GIVE IT MORE SEX DRIVE!
much love
x3 mari
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tell her you see more in her now because of what you two have made together just explain that the sex drive is put on hole because next month you two are going to expierience something in life more great than sex
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Awwww somehow I loved your question since it was so sweet that you want to reassure her. I feel that when I finally have a baby, my significant other might not find me as attractive too, and he always reassures me that that is not true, but I think it's a very common worry.
If you aren't interested in sex right now, replace it with other sexual activities. Set up a romantic night that is all about her.. candles, fluffy pillows, massage oils, etc. Just pay attention to her all evening.
At 8 months pregnant she is probably extra emotionally sensitive, so you probably will have to work a little harder than usual.
Good luck, and congratulations on the baby!
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Do sweet things for her, we love that stuff. Buy her flowers and cute cards and tell her she`s beautiful EVERYDAY & kiss her right after you say it. Hold her tight, cuddle with her & give her different compliments every day. I mean c`mon she`s pregnant so her hormones are raging, it`s not her fault so take it easy on her it`s hard work!
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you should propose to her that would have 2 meanings 1 you still find her attrative and 2 u kinda have to because yoiu got her pregnant oh yea and you should encourage her
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have more sex...keep tellin her u love her...and feed her breakfast in bed...an give her roses once in a while...or it could b a symptom of pregnancy
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Don't worry!!! a lot of guys experience this and have to reassure their partner that its not because they don't find them any less attractive. When a partner goes through pregnancy nobody realises that it actually affects the guys as well. Having sex at this stage of course is difficult because the whole time you will have to be getting into positions that are comfortable and making sure you don't pu pressure on the baby. You have to let her know this. do something like make her a candlelit meal with a massive bunch of flowers and write her a card telling her how much you love her and that you think she is the most beautiful person in the world - especially for the fact she is carrying your baby. Tell her the only reason you don't want to have sex is because you are worried about her and the baby and because you are worrying so much it means you can't concentrate properly! Hope this works a little
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That happens with all pregnant women. Their bodies are going through a LOT of changes, including changing hormone levels, and obviously, since there is a new baby coming she might think that you both will be paying too much attention to him or her to spend time with each other, which is kind of true for a while. Make sure you let her know that you think she is still beautiful and you will always love her. Maybe say that you've "lost your sex drive" because soon you will have a baby and you need to concentrate on that, and it's not all about sex. Besides, after the baby is born she won't be able to have sex for a while, and be prepared for depression on her part. Congratulations on the baby! =D
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set up something romantic...candles dinner..ect
or remember where you guys first met or your first date and take her there unless its a bar or something... lol..Just go on a date and give her alot of compliments
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hope i helped
LisaLeilani
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Alot of girls seem to think that when they get pregnant cause they get fat and stuff.. but just show her you do love her and everything.. kiss her every now and then cuddle with her.. do everyting you did before she got pregnant.. ♥ Nikki
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Your girlfriend is going through some massive changes in her body. You should literally do everything you can to make her feel good! And if it seems like you arent getting through to her, be patient! Her hormones are going off the wall!
Handle with care!
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Its the Hormon thing. She will get weird mood swings. Just hold on and do what ever you can to make her feel like you want her more than ever. Maybe you could thank her say "Our baby" and dont say anything that may come off as you saying it as easy. lol badddd idea! Just work with her and good luck with your baby!!!
♥ Meg hearts;
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Don't you guys have a doctor. If you asked the doctor this question he would tell you it's normal. It is normal for her to feel unattractive, and it is normal for your sex drive to be lower at this time. You are both anticipating the birth of this baby, and when you see it, you will believe in miracles. This should be the happiest time of you lives. You two should have waited until you were both older before you had a baby. Then you would both be more mature, and when these feelings came, while you would feel them, you would both be able to realize that is just the preganancy, the anticipation of the baby coming, that you are both nervous, and you would both realize that it is temporary. And by temporary, I mean a few months. She is going to feel that way for a few months after the baby is born, and so are you. You won't be able to have sex for a while. And by the way, don't think that because she is bleeding after the pregancy, that she cannot get pregnant, She can. So use birth control.
Good luck to both of you.
Michele
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hey .. keep telling her that she is beaitfuol and pretty and write love letters to her also get some movies to make you horny
hope i helped
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All women experience this kind of feeling during the pregnancy stages. You just have to be patient with her. Spoil her. Tell hoe beautiful you think she is both pregnant and not. Surprise her. Cook her favorite meal. Take her somewhere nice. Give her little kisses throughout the day. Buy her lingerie. Hug her. In essense, just give her tons and tons of your loving! Do something really romantic for her. Make it all about her for awhile. Explain to her that it isn't that you've lost your sex drive, you just want her to focus on getting ready to have a baby with her. When she's feeling back up to it though, y'all can and should make love again. Just be nice to her, that's all you can do. Things will improve. Good luck! :)
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