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difference between miss, ms, and mz?

Miss= young girl not married.
Ms.= young women not married.
Mrs.= Married.
Mz= nothing.

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i wanna get my tongue pierced. not anything major, like 3 piercings in a row, just one in the middle.

dont ask why i want it, i just do, and i have for 3 years now. anyway.

my dad is so close to caving, but he needs a little convincing. hes worried about my enamel because he read somewhere that the ball on the piercing bangs against teeth all the time and it chips the enamel, and makes it a lot easier to get cavities...and we dont have dental insurance anymore.

so is there any way i could get a piercing and not destroy my teeth? like i was thinking i could get a regular piercing, but instead of a metal ball, just get a plastic one or something...or maybe marble, which i think is lighter than metal. not sure.

also, i smoke. and what would happen if i smoked while my tongue was still healing? is it ok to smoke while its healing, as long as i rinse real well? it is ok to smoke AFTER its done healing?

thank you to anybody who answers these :)

Hey, I haave my tongue pierced and it really doesn't band against your teeth or anything I've had it for almost a year now and everything is fine.

as for smoking I was smoking and drinking the night I had it done and everything was fine, it never got infected or anything.
just be sure to use mouth wash regularly! well more than regularly, like after every meal would be best.

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I really want to go to bording school. My mom and dad think I'm really mean and I am, but it's beacause of my school. I hate it. The people are mean and bring out the worst in me which make me come home and be mean to my family. I really want to go into acting when I'm older. So what are some bording high schools in the U.S that are really good for not only school, but for theater. Thanks!

I don't know if its good for theater but I hear Blair is a really good school.

Just don't go to Hyde.
It's in connecticut and I go there.
literally everyone who goes there dislikes it.

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this might sound stupid but ive never kissed a guy and i just got a boyfriend and i dont know where to put my hands when we kiss can anyone help me or give me any kissing tips? thankss

I know you'll hate this answer but It's not really something you can be told.
When it happens you'll forget everything you were told.
You just gotta not worry about cause otherwise you'll psyc(sp)yourself out.
When it does happen it just a natural thing that you will react too.

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What's the name of these piercings

http://i211.photobucket.com/albums/bb28/sarahmhmm/IIIPIERCINGS.jpg

spiderbites and a nose piercing.

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does anyone know electronica/screamo/trance bands?

like for example sorry youre not a winner by enter shikari.

Breathe carolina
they're pretty good. and have screamo in their songs.
I don't think these one really have screamo but they're good electronica bands.
Hypercrush
Kill Paradise
Let's get it
Owl City
motorcycle
A rocket to the moon
Mercy Mercedes
and Karate High School.

My favorites are the first 4 and breathe carolina.

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If anyone has seen the movie "Thirteen"
Its about a teen girl where pressures surround her, encouraging her to grow up too fast, leading her down a road of drugs, sex and more.
Does anyone know any movies that have the same plot line?
I've searched about the related movies.
SO
I've already seen:
Mini's first time
Havoc 1 & 2
The Quiet
Any movies you would recommend?
Thanks

theres this movie called "Kids"
It's messed up like the movie "thirteen" but kinda in a different way
here's the plot the makers wrote:
An amoral, HIV-positive skateboarder sets out to deflower as many virgins as possible while a local girl who contracted his disease tries to save his next target from her same fate.

It was made in 1995 but still a good movie.

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I am going on a trip to Atlanta, GA and I want to bring a small bowl and a little bit of pot with me. If I put them inside a small zip lock baggy and insert them into my umm yea would I be okay?

okay so I definitly would not recomend bring budd with you over an airplane.
If you get caught with it, it won't be fun.
But they don't care if you bring your bowl.
I brought mine in my bag through security and they didn't say anything.
so you can bring your bowl in your bag they don't care but I wouldn't risk bringing the budd.

And I'm assuming you meant bringing it over an airplane.

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What are some good bands that are like Simple Plan and Relient K but without all the love song?

Tickle Me Pink.
They're a really great band, they just got signed and I think that they're pretty great.
Their from Fort Collins Colorado.
:]

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what yoga dvd would you recommend?

I actually don't recommend yoga DvD's. Going to a yoga session is much better and it doesn't matter what level you are. I exspecially recommend bikrems yoga. That's what I do. Look it up. :]

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Does anyone know any good teen book series?? I'm into these generes-

- mystery
-fashion/girly
-adventure
-comedy like

so any good TEEN book series that fit those descriptions? I've heard of the Clique series, and I would also like opinions on those. Thank you all very much

Gossip Girl- those are pretty good.

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does anyone know a ood store/web site where i can et really nice (but cheap) punk/emo style clothes, but mostly hoodies...

but someone that is in the U.S and not hot topic

Zumies.com

I think that they are more Skater than what your looking for but it doesn't hurt to look.
:]]

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How do i show my girlfriend that i care about her a lot?

Just tell her. We, as girls, don't need fancy stuff to show that our bf's care about us. I would really just love it if my boyfriend came up to me and told me.

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why are some people making a big deal about tomorrow.... whats tomorrow?

pot smoking day, 420=marawana or however you spell it xD so yea 4-20=420

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ok so i joined track yesterday and im not all that bad, but im ot all that good either haha. well, i dont know if i should do sprinting or distance. i cant run too fast and i dont think sprinting would be for me. but im not sure about distance either. does anyone with track experience know what would be easier, distance or sprinting?

It all depends on how your body is built. I myself prefer long distance it's much easier on me and it gives me time to think so I find it relaxing yet exilerating. ^^

When I try and do sprints I'm just not as fast the other people. It doesn't fit me. Or the way I have trained. Though others who have trained specifically for sprinting will most definitly say that sprints are much easier than long distance and they will groan when they have to run the mile while long distance runners see that as no big deal.

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I dont have any real friends. I have joined clubs, but it hasnt worked out. Im a friendly, decent, nice , respectful person.

The people I talk to claim to be my "friend" but yet they never want to hang out with me and one is rude to me. She told me that Im no fun, that I have an eating disorder, and said "Why would ANYONE call YOU?!" But, i dont want to be associated with her, but its all I have right now.

I used to be close with this other girl but she wanted to boss me around, so I stood up for myself and lets say we arent talking and some other people arent talking to me either.

Joined clubs and talked to some people, but sometimes I would add something to the conversation and they would just look at me and ignore me. A few would talk to me though.

The thing is, I dont know what Im doing wrong. It seems like everyone has a group of friends, or even a best friend. Someone to hang out with.

This is really affecting me, I feel sad, lonely, basicly depressed, and yes I have talked to my mom about it and she doesnt know why either.

Well, kinda the same thing happend to my brother when he was younger. This is kinda derastic (sp) but he changed school an loved it. If it is a possibility that you have I would suggest a private school.

And the 'friend' you have now, drop her. She not nice and doesn't seem to like you. All will work out!

ox me!

p.s. remember its kinda derastic(sp)

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I was going to run for student counsel. Everyone was excited and the president encoruaged me. So I did and I found out I didnt sign up. EVEN THOUGH I DID ALOT OF WORK AND GOT OVER 100 SIGNATURES. The advisor was like "Talk to the president we are going to have an open space." So I did. She didnt even want to talk to me and told me "Sorry, Kelsey already asked me so yea."

I was really upset and my mom called the advisor and she told my mom that rules are rules. Then my mom asked her "why does someone get appointed when they dont get signatures, thats not following the rules" and the advisor advoided the question. I talked to several relatives and they said that its unfair and that the advisor needs to be more in charge.

I understand why she would appoint her friend BUT I DID ALL THAT WORK FOR NOTHING! I actually felt good about myself and some people will be like "I told you were a loser...you couldnt get enough signatures!" (she also asked me why i was wearing Hollister, cuz losers shouldnt wear hco a few yrs. back.)

Theres nothing I can do, Im just really upset.

Well, I don't really see what your question is but I suggest you go to the principal. If he or she says talk to *blah blah blah* and you already have and say I did but she didn't help or really answer my question. Remember be polite. If you are you have a better chance of getting your question answered and she will take you more seriously.

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I playfully punched my guy friend on the cheek. Now he keeps saying it hurts, and I should kiss it. Thing is, I really like him, but Ii'm super nervous to kiss it, even though he keeps telling me to. I want to, I'm just nervous. How can I work myself up to do it?!

Well, I think you should just do it!

But, if you are too shy too then give him a little blow kiss.

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everyone thinks that im dum. im not. they think it just becaws im blond. its stupid. what can i do to make them think that im NO DUM BLOND.
thanks.
oh and by the way people
who do think that im dum
are ussaully juss jelose
of my smarts and looks .
yeah. so agane advice !!
please.!!!!!!!!!!!!1.?!!

Maybe because you can't spell or anything. That may be why they say you're dumb. So learn how to spell. And get smart.

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i got new brown pants and i was just wondering what color shirts would match nice and what kind of shirt (sweatshirt, jacket, blouse, t-shirt etcetc.) would look good with the pants. thank you :]

A cream color, Earth tones. Dark navy blues. Stuff like that.

Or white.

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