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Ok, last week my 3 friends and I got in a fight, them vs. me. It kinda sucked cause i was like, definatly on my own and no one coul dback me up on anything, so we arent talking, none of us. And I want to talk to them so bad I just cant because I dont think they even like me anymore. One of those 3 friends was like my friend since 3rd grade so I see her as a BFFFFFFF. And shes the one who doesnt even want to TRY to make it work again. She even told me that we should just give up and that we arent gonna be best friends again. Hmm. what do i DO?
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i'd just apologise for whatever you were arguing about and tell her how you feel
x megz x
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Give up and know you arent going to be best friends again.
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You probably should talk to her and you shouldn't stop for anything. Try saying," we've been friends for too long to let something like this destroy us. Our friendship was long enough to last us from 3rd grade, therefore meaning it's something worth fighting for. And, I am willing to fight for that because I'm really not ready to let that go without a fight."
Don't give up. Make her listen. If after all your other pursuits of trying to convince her to befriend you again fail, you might have to accept the possibility that the friendship wasn't meant to be. But IF it comes out to be this way, then you know something above all. You'll know that it was another hard lesson learned. I really do hope I was some sort of help and I wish you good luck. Have a nice day.
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Ok, - I agree wtiheveryones answers. You are here trying to solve everything and they arent putting an effort in, especially that one girl that was y our frind since 3rd grade. Im sorry hun, but best friends are not forever, only the friends who stick by your side and do everything in their power to stay your friend, are the ones who last forever
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I had the same exact problem with my friend we were friends for a good while. And we got into an argument over something said like bout money or something. Its pretty gay but girls can be that way. Its just how girls are, Like if you think about sports its kinda funny cause if you notice it girls they hold grudges and stuff on the field and the guys they just go and beat the shit outa each other on the field lol and they are kinda cool and then after the game they are all talkin and stuff. Girls just hold grudges she will get over it. If not do something sweet send her flowers and write what your friendship means to her. And im sure that will work. As for the other girls just write them letter to and send them to em or something or e-mail them but your best friend you should def. send flowers to an write and extremly nice and sweet letter exsplaingin yourself. Sorry Hun hope things get better!!!
-StephAnie-
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Well it does kinda depend on what the fight was about. try and talk to her , if that doesnt work give her time to chill , im sure she'll relize how much she misses you as friend. SOmetimes peopel say those things , but they end up forgiving you and misses each other. try a talk.
Im sure you to can rebuild a friendship , it may take sometime but im sure u can work through it. Even if u dont hun , its her loss , because people like that arent worth being friends with.
mDezzy--->
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