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Mackenzie
Ok, me and this girl have been talkin' 4 a while now (for like 6 months). We were just friends at first but I've always liked her. She's been in really bad relationships and thinks men are dogs and will treat her like dirt. I really like her though and I wouldn't do anything like that. I like her too much. Plus I'm not even that kinda guy. I wanna love her and show her trust, honesty, and loyalty. She's been so hurt that she can't see that I wouldn't do that to her. I wanna be with her; she is the most incredible girl I've ever met. On top of that I think I like her so much it might be turning into Love. I need some GOOD advice. Help!
P.S. I'll rate high. (link)
why dont you just tell her how u feel.....she can work out what she wants to do about it in her own time. girls like guys that can wait for them

hope this helps x megz x


hey! i have dark dark brown hairs (it almost looks like black hair) but i want to go a lighter color what color should i dye my hair??? (link)
i would just put highlights in your hair like blonde.......aurbon.....light brown.
My friend has had it done and it looks great!!!!

hope this helps x megz x


How do I let a guy know I want to kiss him? What kind of signs should I give him? And how do I approach this whole thing? Please give me any other advice or suggestions because im going for my first kiss soon! (link)
the best way is to hold his hand and be close to him.....if you or him are confident enough they will make their move......good luck!!!

x megz x


I am a 34 C cup size. Im really skinny though. I actually wear one of the smallest pant size like size 1. I dont know what do do about a bathing suit. Their all to small. (link)
try wearing a bikini..... that way you can buy the bottoms and the top separately!!!!

hope this helps x megz x


i have really light blonde hair and it is alittle past my shoulders. my hair looks best when it is shorter i am going to get it cut. it seems like i always get it cut with one layer to flip out and the top layer to curl in...but the problem is that it dosent really curl. my hair is naturally straight and it will not curl with a curlying iron or anything at all! so i was wondering if anyone knew any good short hair cuts that you think would look good?? it also must still be able to fit into a ponytail! sorry that its so long! i'll rate!!!! :) (link)
I think the best solution to straight hair is to have a really choppy hair cut that is still long enough to put up.....if u've got thick hair you could have it thinned out

x megz x


Ok, last week my 3 friends and I got in a fight, them vs. me. It kinda sucked cause i was like, definatly on my own and no one coul dback me up on anything, so we arent talking, none of us. And I want to talk to them so bad I just cant because I dont think they even like me anymore. One of those 3 friends was like my friend since 3rd grade so I see her as a BFFFFFFF. And shes the one who doesnt even want to TRY to make it work again. She even told me that we should just give up and that we arent gonna be best friends again. Hmm. what do i DO? (link)
i'd just apologise for whatever you were arguing about and tell her how you feel

x megz x


i have naturally curly hair. i always straighten it, but lately it's been a hassle and it's ruining my hair. the only thing i don't like about my hair being curly is it's always so frizzy and the curls are way to small and it makes me look like an idiot. i'd like to have big, SOFT, NON FRIZZY curls. how can i achieve this without damaging my hair more? (link)
try the "dream curls" by John Freida (i think)
i had my hair permed last summer and i needed the same sort of thing! After that you can either diffuse it with a hairdryer or scrunch it.
(this is after washing when your hair is wet!!!)

Hope this helps x Megz x


Hey... what are some really good ringtones for my cell phone. I just got a new one and am downloading some but i don't have any ideas. Please help... i'll rate! (link)
what about the crazy frog, nessy the dragon or sweety the chick.

(the crazy frogs no.1 in the charts!!!!)

x megz x


Ok. The other day I was downloading music onto my ipod. I already had about 200 songs on there and I got 30 more to import onto it. Well i connects it and hit import and the ipod said the thing on the screen when it says do not disconnect. Then when it got done, i was checking the songs and it deleted every song I had on there and didn't even copy the one a picked out to copy on. Does anyone know how or why this happened and is there anyway to get all the songs back, because I got a new computer and so the songs that were on it before were on my old computer. Any help please!!! (link)
the thing is every time you update your ipod it will have exactly the same amount of songs on there than on the itunes you're using so the best way to get the songs back is to convert them from your old computer to your new one!!!!!


Hope this helps! x megz x


i really need help. I want to break up with my boyfriend cuz im tired of him hurting me and feeling like he doesnt care about me. but... I dont want him to hurt himself / commit suicide. Im talking to him on AIM now and he says i should see all the blood and that it hurts and he doesnt want to live. I havent even told him that i want to break up with him but i think he figured it out.

i want to break up with him but i dont want him to hurt himself. But i think he already has =\. What can i do? I know i should tell somebody about him hurting himself, but i dont really know what to tell them...?? please help me! (link)
my friend is in exactly the same situation as you.... i no it might be really hard to handle but your gonna have to leave him alone and maybe tell someone about his depression.......yes depression........1/4 teenaged boys get it at some point and even more adults get it.....


hope this helps!!!!

:)b strong x megz x


Okay well, I'm going into 8th grade next year and I still haven't had a boyfriend! No guy even notices me! I'm not a dork, and people say it's just because I'm tall. Well, there are other girls in my grade that are tall and have boyfriends! I mean it's not just that though. I mean all of my friends have had their first kiss and everything but I haven't. So no one really understands what I'm talking about or how I feel. All my friends have had at least 3 boyfriends and have all been kissed. What could I do to get guys to notice me? PLEASE HELP ME!!!! (link)
u shouldnt b rushed to do something just bcos ur friends have.....u need to just wait until the right person comes along and then it will just work itself out

x megz x


My prom is June 27th and Im not really a good dancer I dont really know how to dance but I would like to know how or atleast be somewhat decent for my prom so besides taking classes and asking my friends to teach me what can i do to learn how to dance? (link)
dancing is mostly about following the music in your own way......if you move with the music then ull b fine

x megz x


My French final is tomarrow and I accidently already turned my text book it. I know my vocabulary pretty well but need a tune up on my future and conditional tenses. Does anyone know of a site that can help me with them? (link)
try bbc bitesize.....i dunno whether its got french but its worth a try!!!

hope this helps....x megz x















were can i find music for free besides launch.com? (link)
limewire is the best place u can always find what u need and its completely free!!!

x megz x


I'm doing an english project on Walt Disney and the impact he made on America. Anyways, I need to connect it to music. Is there any song out there that is about just Disney? Not any movie songs but it's just about the Disney Company. (link)
the closest i can think of is the theme song of walt disney world(its a small world) or the mickey mouse club song

x megz x


How can I get people to ask me for advice? (link)
u need 2 go onto the questions that people have asked and answer some of them.....if ur advice is good enough, then they will start asking you for advice

x megz x


ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH (link)
you can never be too sure....id be cautious just in case

x megz x


It's that time of year again. We're going to sign eachothers yearbooks. I'm sick of writing Cya in ___ (whater grade yor going in nxt year) and have a good summer. I was wondering what are some cool "quotes" to write in? (link)
u rock....dont ever change

hope next year is better than the last

had great fun

.....

x megz x


I am going to Australia in July 2006 to play soccer and represent the U.S. in the Youth Friendship Games. Unfortunately, the opportunity is ratehr expensive. about $6,000. I have a year to come up with the money, that means earning money, having fundraisers, and getting sponsers. I am 14 years old, female and live in a rather small town in southern Maine. Can you please give me ideas of companies who might sponser me, ideas of how to earn money, fundraiser ideas?
I REALLLY want to be able to go on this trip. PLEASE HELP!! If you want to know more about the program or want to talk to me more directly answer this and let me know and leave your email. That way I can email you. Thanks to anyone who answers!

~Cathy~ (link)
ive been saving up 2 go 2 colorado!!! i just had lots of car boot sales, summer fetes at school, car washing, extra jobs round the house....

x megz x


14/f
At like the middle of the school year, I noticed this guy who would always stare at me. I've totally fallen for him. He stares at me every day, and sometimes when I look back he has like a weird smile on his face. When ever I stand by him I can see him blushing. It's almost the end of school and I want to let him know that I like him. I'm really shy so if I could get my friends to help that would work out better. Any suggestions? (link)
maybe send him an email/letter/note or something.....its alwys easier to talk to people if they're not standing in front of you.

hope this helps....x megz x




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