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Question Posted Friday May 20 2005, 11:27 am

ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and i really love him. he has only had sex with one girl. but many times. they broke up long be fore we got together. so just say i lost my virginity to him do you think he would have any kind of std from having sex with just that ONE other girl.?? like do u think theres a chance of him having an STD, from that one girl and then having sex with me and then all of a sudden i get it??? thanks i rate HIGHHH

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Teza answered Sunday May 22 2005, 11:23 pm:
There is a possibility. I think that you should ask him to get tested just to make sure. Hope nether of you have it. &hearts;

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sdog1205 answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:03 pm:
Ok first off if you should be using protection you could end up pregnant. And yes it is possible for him to have gotten something from that one girl. She could have had sex with other guys and gotten STDs from them then passed it to him. You should both go get tested if you are going to continue to have sex. Even if you're not you should get tested STDs can become very serious. Yes it is possible get tested and you should really not have unprotected sex.

Good luck and I hope I helped

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lucylou answered Sunday May 22 2005, 9:28 am:
any body could have it if they have had sex once so you could get it bt its unlikely

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dearmegan answered Sunday May 22 2005, 6:53 am:
you can never be too sure....id be cautious just in case

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OrionsFire answered Friday May 20 2005, 9:28 pm:
Yes, there is definitally a chance. Think about this, you have had sex with everyone your boyfriend has had sex with AND everyone THEY had sex with before your current boyfriend. So basically, you have ANYTHING from ANYONE that she touched. If you are having sex, always use protection and get yearly exams.

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silentkate answered Friday May 20 2005, 7:53 pm:
There is absolutely a chance! If that girl had sex with anyone before she had sex with him she could have contracted a STD and passed it to him, or if she had a STD passed down at birth such as HIV she could have passed it to him. Always use protection.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday May 20 2005, 7:48 pm:
Yes that is POSSIBLE.. but if he used a condom i dont think you have to really worry about it.. hun just tell him to get tested before having sex with him.. that way you have no worries and stress.. thats the best thing you can do.. much luv dez xoxo &hearts;

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mxpimpette26 answered Friday May 20 2005, 5:27 pm:
yeah probably! so what you need to do is go get tested...and then ask him to get tested too...go get tested together that might make it comfortable for both of yall...plus even though he has had sex w/ only one girl he coud have done other things w/ other girls and gotten it from that!! so either way! ya'll should go get tested just in case!!
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LiSaxOBaBii answered Friday May 20 2005, 5:16 pm:
It only takes one person to pass on an STD so no matter how many different people he did it with the chances are still high.If you are really concerned dont partake in any sexual activity or if you must a condom is your only protection against STD's
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xXxTHE-MANxXx answered Friday May 20 2005, 4:04 pm:
i wouldnt think so but theres still a chance and fi your really that scared why dont you go get yourself checked thats what id do if i were that scared

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orphans answered Friday May 20 2005, 4:04 pm:
she could have had an STD she might not have. take him to a doctor and find out.

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darkblair771 answered Friday May 20 2005, 3:19 pm:
well, i have a suggestion you can both go to the cdoctor and get tested together. i also doubt that he got and std with that ONE girl. he would have to have sex many times to get and std.

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xXxpinky615xXx answered Friday May 20 2005, 2:46 pm:
Well, depending on whether or not that girl was a virgin when she met your boyfriend would determine if she could have possibly contracted an STD from one of her former partners. If she was a virgin when she met your boyfriend, the chances are slim to none that he could have gotten anything from her. If she had multiple partners before your boyfriend, and one of them had an STD, there is a possibility that you could have gotten it. You need to find out if she had sex with anyone other than your boyfriend, if no, then you're fine, if yes, you might want to get checked out.

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exyweetee99 answered Friday May 20 2005, 2:05 pm:
ok well yes there is a very big chance he did get one...there is always a chance... people could have an STD and not even know it until....well a long time after they had sex..

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SiLenTxfAiRy answered Friday May 20 2005, 2:05 pm:
well.. he could have only gotten the std if she had it. and she could have gotten it if she had other sexual partners in the past. dont be afraid, just ask him about it..and mention about getting tested just in case.

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CCubb08 answered Friday May 20 2005, 2:04 pm:
My idea is that he has had sex and YES there IS a chance of getting an STD but a very small chance, but there is still one.If I was you, I would just be straight forward and ask him and if he says no then well ? And I would also ask people about that girl and find out if that was her first and if shes a whore or anything.I would definintley be cautious though.

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loser1028 answered Friday May 20 2005, 1:44 pm:
only if he had an std. ask him if he has one and if you really think you have one then make him or yourself go to a clinic. but it sounds like your already having signs of an std since your so worried. go to a clinic and find out!

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russianspy1234 answered Friday May 20 2005, 1:23 pm:
yes there is a chance. theres even a chance if you're both virginsyou can get STDs from needles and other stuff., this is why you're supposed to use a condom when you have sex it also prevents the worst STD of all KID. if you did use a condom then there's virtualy no chance

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