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So this Saturday is prom and I am going with the guy I like. What is some small ways I could let him know that I like him like what can I do? Thanks! (link)
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The best thing you can do is act like a lady. When he is talking to you look him in the eyes and don't forget to smile. Be interested in what he is interested in but if you are forcing yourself to do that he is not right for you. Dating should be enjoyable and not a chore. If you are stressed about having him like you if will never be right. Both you and he should be comfortable with each other and not having to work to make the other person like you.
If you make yourself beautiful from the inside out you will have plenty of chances to date those who are genuinely interested in you. Don't pursue a boy or a relationship.....if you grow beutiful from the inside out others will pursue you.
Don't let physical feelings interfere with emotional feelings. Boys have a high testostoral level...don't allow yourself to be used physically just because you want to please some boy.
DrDavid
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tha school yr is almost over and i wanna tell this guy how i feel before the end. but how do i tell him? i mean it's weird that i haven't told him yet, should i write him a letter? i mean, i really like this guy but im not so sure he likes me in that way. i know this sounds all 1st grade, but this is high school. i may never have the chance again and when it comes to expressing my feelings, i get scared. and i dont wanna seem all dorky for writing love letters and getting talked about. i dont want this guy to think im all emotional and sensitive. cause im not. i want him to know the truth and i wanna tell him in words that i would actually say to him. so how should i do this? (link)
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I don't think you should tell him directly but let him know indirectly by hanging around him when the time is appropriate. Watch his eyes when you talk to him because the eyes never lie. If he is interested in you he will show it.
Don't write him a letter because it is something he can use to ridicule you and keep and humiliate you if he is not interested.
Express your feelings face to face but first know whether you should confront him by the way he acts around you now.
DrDavid
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Ok so i am going out with this boy and its been 7 months and 20 days and he is moving to virginia and im still in florida and theres this boy named Doug and i really really like him a lot and i dont kno what to do??? do u stay with my bf which i dont see anymore or do i go for doug which i see every day????
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You are only 13....don't take dating so seriously. Before you get married you will have dated lots of boys. Date only those you would genuinely consider marrying. If you are dating just to have fun you will find the fun one day will run out and you will be left lonelier than before. Find someone who has the same interests and passions you have. If any of the boys want a physical relationship with you, you can know they are not interested in you as a person but what pleasure they can receive by using you. Don't lower your standards just to be popular or get a date. Your reputation is priceless and one of your most valuable assets.
Long distance relationships do not often work even in marriage so I doubt they will work in your situation.
DrDavid
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okay so im best friends with this girl. we always get into really stupid fights and stuff and she ALWAYS talks about me behind my back, or even when im looking straight at her. tons of people in the school hate her and always ask me why im best friends with her. she also treats me like crap, uses me, and walks all over me...everybody tells me that. except for some reason i keep making plans with her. ive never really said anything bad about her, except when we got in this huge fight last week. i was talking with her on the phone with her boy-toy (this guy who shes obsessed with whos just usuing her) and then i say brb and i set down the phone and when i come back i hear her saying to him "omg shes so annoying she acts like 2 different people like when shes with me shes like omg i love you bff and then when shes around the popular people shes like eww i hate you" (and ive never done that...and its not like theyre the popular people we're really good friends) and then i confronted her about it the next day and she denied it, then i told one of my good friends (who hates her) the whole story, so she bitched her out for me...then she comes like storming into our class and tries to bitch ME out...and we made this huge scene so then we didnt talk for 2 days and everyones like to me good job she treated u like shit dont make up with her (even tho when we get in fights like we make up the next day) so then she called me like the night after our fight (it lasted a few days) and she was sobbing and like asking for forgiveness so im like ill think about it...then she was talking shit about me more the next day and i was just watching her and she knew i was watching so it pissed me off..so we kinda made up but we dont talk anymore..should i just forget her completely or start hanging with her again? (link)
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What you need to do is to stop hanging out with people who are bringing stress and negativity into your life. Don't compare yourself or compete with others for friends. If you want to have genuine friends be a friend. Life is too short to go through it with those who are going to take you down. Find friends who love you in the good times and bad times and will be there when you need them.
If you try to become beautiful from the inside out you will have more friends than you can use and they will be genuine. Strive to grow as a person; plant roses and you will reap roses. Plant weeds and you will reap weeds.
DrDavid
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me and my boyfriend recently broke up and my other guy friend says that the best way to "get over" a relationship is to rebound date. personally i don't think that's right because its leading the other person on, making them think that you like them when all you are doing is making the ex jealous or making yourself think about the ex. then my other guy friend (the one from above) calls me up and asks if i want to do something this weekend, and i say yeah because he is my friend. but later on during our conversation, he suddenly whispers really fast that i should go for the rebound dating. i know what he wants, but do you think that rebound dating is the best way to "get over" a previous relationship? thanks in advance.
signed
weirded out and conflustered (link)
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Dear Weirded out and conflustered,
If you really had feelings for your boyfriend you should give it some time. Let the interim be a healing period when you can really evaluate what you want in dating and the type of guy you want to date. Don't just rebound but really ask yourself if this is someone who has the same interests,and passions, and someone you are genuinely attracted to. Just dating for dating sake is wasting everyone's time so wait for someone you really want to date and not just date anyone.
DrDavid
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