Ok so i am going out with this boy and its been 7 months and 20 days and he is moving to virginia and im still in florida and theres this boy named Doug and i really really like him a lot and i dont kno what to do??? do u stay with my bf which i dont see anymore or do i go for doug which i see every day????
-13/f if that helps
HannahDoes answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 8:35 am: As heart breaking as it might be, I say it would be best if you and your boyfriend parted ways. You're only 13; you will have many many many ppl come and go throughout your lifetime, and 13 is too young to be tied down. Just be upfront and honest with him; there's no reason not to be..
Hope I helped!
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DrDavid answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 5:57 am: You are only 13....don't take dating so seriously. Before you get married you will have dated lots of boys. Date only those you would genuinely consider marrying. If you are dating just to have fun you will find the fun one day will run out and you will be left lonelier than before. Find someone who has the same interests and passions you have. If any of the boys want a physical relationship with you, you can know they are not interested in you as a person but what pleasure they can receive by using you. Don't lower your standards just to be popular or get a date. Your reputation is priceless and one of your most valuable assets.
Long distance relationships do not often work even in marriage so I doubt they will work in your situation.
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craazylau answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 4:24 am: Go for the one you feel the most for. However at 13 you probably don't want to get into a long distance relationship although that is a possibility. Also it doesn't seem a good idea for you to be with your boyfriend if you've got feelings for someone else. Therefore, it's probably better for you to call it a day with your boyfriend. However don't immediately start something with Doug as you don't want it to be a rebound thing! At the end of the day just goes for what makes you the happiest! [ craazylau's advice column | Ask craazylau A Question ]
Pixiemagic14 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 3:18 am: Thats an easy one. Long distance realtionships never work out.Go with doug. You'll see his ass every day!!!!!! instead of the boyfriend thats movin away. So i hope i helped :) [ Pixiemagic14's advice column | Ask Pixiemagic14 A Question ]
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