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should i go back to him
Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.
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OMG! he hit you?? HE HIT YOU??? hunny u cant go back to him if he HIT YOU!!!!!! trust me he did it once and he wont stop...guys are liars sometimes and no matter what they say u cant always believe them...i think its best to not go back out with him. things could get more serious and he could become more controlling
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I wouldnt go back out with him if I were you. This time its an 'I'm sorry, I love you...forgive me...' But that means nothing. He could do it again and again and again. I think you should just move on...you could do so much better than a boyfriend that is abusive.
hope this helped! Good luck, and ask me any more questions if you'd like. =D
dont let the LIGHTS FADE OUT
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No, you shouldn`t go back to him. That`s pretty much a given. And if you do, the next time he hits you, it will be YOUR fault also.
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MOVE ON GIRL!! There is no situation where you should take crap like that from guys you date or just any guy for that matter..Most of the guys I know down south know better than to do that stuff to girls...Guys who hit on girls have serious problems!!
xo tara
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I don't think that you should leave him, honestly. Hitting is no excuse for love. If he hurt you like that, regardless if it's the first time or the twentieth time, he shouldn't have done it. Just get out, and stay out. Find somebody who will treat you SO much better. Thanks, Hope I helped, email me if you need me... sahara_boyce@yahoo.com
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Move on. If he hit you, he has it in his blood to be able to hit women. So PLEASE don't go back out with him. Blieve me he will probably hit you again.♥
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Move On! Dont even think of giving him another chance. Is a guy that hits you really worth your time. Thats abuse. He may say hes sorry and maybe he even means it, but whats that to stop him next time. He probably has temper issuse or trouble with his emotions, and his strength gets the best of him. Him saying I love you, He may mean it or it could just be one of the im sorry I hit you but I love you, excuses to get you back. If he even possibly came close to loving you, He never would have hit you. Theres absolutely no excuse for hitting someone during an argument especially if you " love them " think about it, would you hit somebody you loved just because of an argument? He dug himself a hole that he cant get out of, he knows he hit you, he knows it was wrong, he says he loves you, but theres no reason or excuse for hitting you. Nobody should have to take that. I say just move on. If you take him back and maybe a month later you have another bigger argument, He might hit you harder and/or hurt you badly. Once it happens once, theres no telling if he wont do it again. So I hope I helped! I hope things get better soon! ♥
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I think that you should follow your heart if you really do love him go back to him even though he did hit you maybe he didnt mean to do it and maybe he is sorry and wont do it again. but if he does it again never go back to him. let him know that this is his last time.. Hope I helped rate me.
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i think you should just try one more time and if he does something like that, then tell him its over. but its all up to you
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it's your dicicion. if i where you i probly wouldn't go back out with him since he hit you. but if you want to then do. hope i helped!
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Move on. It doesn't matter what he said to make it up, no person should ever hit you. Honestly, you should call the cops. I don't care how much you loved each other you cannot take him back.
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I love the double standards. A woman can hit a man over nothing and there will be nothing coming out of it. But a man can have any reason in the world, it doesn't matter, if he strikes a woman generally he gets in a world of trouble and ridiculed as an unstable individual with no decency. Im not saying its okay for anyone to hit anyone, im saying its the complete opposite. And anyone that constantly hits anyone, deserves to get it back once in awhile, male or female.
As for your relationship.
Im not going to say anything about the age, but... You should be seeking a good relationship if anything. Don't turn into that woman who left college for this man who ends up taking the abuse from this man because she knows deep down he loves her. You don't want to be another lifetime special, because they won't even use you as an actor in the movie, and they will just whore off your predicament. Maybe put you in a womans shelter.
People make mistakes, if you want to forgive him thats fine, if you don't thats fine too. Don't let people on the internet make large decisions for you, its really something that you have to figure out on your own.
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I'd really like to believe in this sort of friend if I were in your position, but it's more of the fact that you have to truly have to see all the facts. I'd want to forgive him. and I see the predicament that you're in and I so do understand. If I were in your position, I think that I wouldn't take him back because once a violence such as that happens and a person gets away with it, they might have it in their head that they can do it again. Not an intentional thought, but it's a thought that might occur without that person's knowing. BUT, if I were in your position, I'd consider this person's history. If they are known to be violent, stressfull(stress contributing to violence), then I wouldn't take him back. When it comes to possibilities like this and when you think about love, you really need to forget about it. Your physical and mental well being is far more important than love: especially when you're in a non-marriage relationship. But if his past doesn't involve violence, then give him another chance. But there's a question that you have to ask yourself. The question is IF ARE YOU WILLING TO TAKE THE CHANCE FOR BEING HURT FOR A GUY AND FOR LOVE? IF you are then you know what to do, and if you don't then you'll know what you have to do. You also should think about what you want. I hope I was some help and goodluck with your decision. Use all the wit you can.
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No, your boyfriend is an idiot.
If he does it again. Reach down his pants, grab his nuts, and twist them.
Then while he is in agony and bent over, grab his head and shove it right into your knee.
That will drop him making him harmless if he decides to do so again.
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OMG dont even concider going back out with him!!! iF HE hits you once then he will probably do it again. No man or boy has the right to put his hands on you. You should definently move on he may say he loves you and look sorry. But actions speak louder then words. okay well i hope i helped!!!
,always Erica
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Forget about him. Move on with your life. If he hit you he definitely isn't worth it. He hit you once, he'll probably do it again! Hope my advice helped!
~Erika!
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move on honey! don't put up with that no matter what. there is never any excuse for hitting. don't totally ignore him but don't show any kind of romantic emotion towards him or anything.
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move on because if he does it once then he will do it again. its always "im sorry i didnt mean to" because there is always someone else who wont hit you and treat you good. and if he does it once he thinks he can do it again and everythings gonna be okay.
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Well if your scared that he'll hit you again i would move on. But if you think you really still love him then go for it! I personaly would move on because no girl should be getting hit by their man.
h.i.h. and good luck!
<3 simone
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You should move on. No guy should EVER strike a woman, no matter what. That just shows how much of a pussy he is. Most likely if you get back with him he will hit you again, or maybe do worse. Just move on, there are more fish in the sea.
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MOVE ON! If he did it once who says he wont do it again!? He willl probaly think its okay if he does it since you went back out with him
MOVE ON WOMEN YOU CAN FIND BETTER!HHHH
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Honestly if he does it once, hes probley sure enough to do it agian. Maybe you should suggest anger management classes , because u have to have a serious anger problem.I dont mean to be mean , but im going to tell you from friends experiences.
Just dont do anything you dont feel right doing though , its all up to you.
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Well its always like when the girl gets extremly mad and hits the boy. I think if you and him both love each other like you said he even told you he loved you. Then you should def. forgive him but if you feel and your mind is telling you it may/might happen again best thing to do is wait things out till you feel comfortable gettin back with him. Sorry hun! Always here for ya my aim screenname is MOMMYSLILBOO if ya wanna talk!
Always,
Stephanie
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