..what's up guys? well, I'm Tara for those of you who don't know me but anyways if anyone needs advice about ANYTHING at all, I don't care what it is I will be there for anyone 100%! All topics are welcome
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my boyfriend asked me to have sex with him and i dont want to but i dont know how to let him down easily.. what do u suggest i tell him ? (link)
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One thing in a relationship that is a MUST is to be OPEN with your partner. If he doesn't respect you and your belifes or your wants then he isn't right for you. You need somoene who loves you and isn't going to want you just for sex because that is stupid anyways. You need the LOVE, sex is nice but a relationship shouldn't revolve around sex by any means!
..hope this helps!
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hey I really like this guy sooooo MUCH! its like scary lol we talk on the fone A LOT and stuff, but he is not that handsom he is kinda fat and im really skinny, wen i saw him i was lke ewwww and so was every1 else. He is tall and I am short but he is really nice and sweat. I dont know if i shuld go with him or not! he is really nice! if it helps im 13/f PLEASE I WILL RATE HIGH!!! (link)
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looks aren't everything babe!
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This guy I know has asked me some times to have sex, give him "head", and sexual stuff like this. I am only 13 & I really do want to do it, but I'm scared of my reputation and getting pregnant. I know to use a condom, but I'm stil scared. I have a strong sex push, and get these urges a lot. But I still don't know what to do. Any advice you have is greatly appreciated. (link)
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..wow! hmm, okay first of all you are only 13 years old and sex shouldn't even be something you are worried about or be "pushed" to do. I don't want to sound like a parent or anything but you are going to do what your heart tells you to do. I don't know how old this guy friend of yours is so I'm not EXACTLY sure of what you could say to him if you are not up to doing this stuff with him but I do know from past expirence you should be open to the guy you like/love about sex and your relationship...seriously! Sit down and talk to him about how you are scared and how you don't want your rep. ruined because of sex...most likely he is going to understand you and if he REALLY likes you for you then there won't be anything different betweent the two of you but if you're heart is tellin' you to do this stuff he is wanting you to do with him and you, yourself make the decision to go through with this then always use protection and think about it long and hard before you get into any situation that might even tempt you the least little bit! I hope this helps..if you need anymore advice then please IM me on aol..sexayshawtii88 is my screen name!
-much love-
tara
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Ok well... this girl that I really like & love to hang out w/ is boy CRAZY! She is outrageously all the time thinkin about boys & that seems to be the only thing on her mind. Also, she smokes weed & takes pills like vikadin. *however u spell that pain reliever* What should I do. Should I stay friends w/ her & maybe talk to her about her drug problem, or should I drop her & move on so I don't follow in her footsteps?
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..sure I have friends who smoke weed but I am still friends with them and sure I have friends that I know of that "pop pills" or whatever but I am still friends with them so do NOT drop her amd move on at all!! Seriously you need to talk to her about her problems because weed and pills are only going to lead into worse things!! If your friend needs help with getting off of these things have her come to your house or plan get togethers with groups of friends that do not do that stuff! Hope this helps!
&hearts tara
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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.
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MOVE ON GIRL!! There is no situation where you should take crap like that from guys you date or just any guy for that matter..Most of the guys I know down south know better than to do that stuff to girls...Guys who hit on girls have serious problems!!
xo tara
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