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i pierced my belly button yesterday with a sewing needle.. and right now only an earring is in the hole.. i have 2 questions.. 1. what should i clean the piercing with and 2. how can i make the hole bigger so i can fit a belly button ring in?

You`re supposed to clean them with H20cean cleaner, but you did it yourself, so it will more than likely become infected anyways. You should just take it out.

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I rele wanna get my belly button pierced but my mom won't let me, I just wanna see what it looks like adn how it feels. Can I peirce it myself, leave it in for 2 weeks, and then take out the piercing will my belly button close? thx

You should not pierce it yourself. It will become infected. Just wait.

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Ok...so i have braces and I just got chain put on them...and for those of you who know what that is you probbly know how bad that hurts!! Please tell me what to do for the pain! It is killing me!

I had those. Take some Advil for the pain. & Next time before you go, take something for pain. That way, it will already be kicking in by the time you are getting it done. & Other than that, I tried to sleep it off.

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im 19 m and my gf is 18 and 7 months pregnant..shes emotional as hell and cries all the time..even when im with her..im away alot cus i play baseball and thats what i do for a living and she understands..waht can i do to makes her happy? please help me..thanks

It isn`t the she isn`t happy, she`s PREGNANT. & those emotions come with pregnancy. Just make things as easy as possible for her & I hope you`re going to the appointments with her & everything.

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Me and my boyfriend had a massive argument and he hit me. he has never done that before and he was really sorry and said he loves me i broke up with him and he wants me back should i go back to him or move on.

16 f

No, you shouldn`t go back to him. That`s pretty much a given. And if you do, the next time he hits you, it will be YOUR fault also.

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well today is my bf's birthday so we are going to lunch at a nice (in other words, expensive) resturant with another couple. i invited him, so does that mean i have to pay for him? its a pretty expensive place and im 14 and he's turning 15. thanks!

If it was my situation, I would pay. You did invite him, so I think you should pay.

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okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me?

If he won`t talk to you, then you obviously can`t tell him. Unless, you`re willing to go to his house & tell him. That still doesn`t mean he`s really going to care though, so don`t get your hopes up.

& Also, I suggest you learn how to spell pregnant.

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ok, i was just wondering if being fingered by a guy feels much different then if u finger your self ill rate thanx

I think it feels much different. I don`t get pleasure out of doing it myself, that may just be me. But, I`d rather have my boyfriend do it any day.

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I broke up with my bf about 3 weeks ago and within that time he started going out with a girl but she broke up with him. While he was with her he was being bitchy and plain out wrong with me but now that they have broken up he regrets everything he said and did and wants me back.When we broke up I cried and was hurt for a LONG while but now I am dealing with it.Well he wants me back and I don't know if I should give him a chance part of me says yes but the other says no. I don't know what I should do but sometimes I just feel like calling him just to hear his voice but then again I don't want to get hurt again. Pleace help me out!

I would definitely not go back to him. If he can move on like that, then so should you. He sounds like jerk that doesn`t derserve a second chance. And like you said, you are beginning to move on, and he`s probably seeing that. Guys run back when they realize that the girl is moving on. Don`t fall for it.

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This guy who's friends with my ex really likes me. I told him I just think of him as a friend. He calls all the damn time and whenever i do pick up, he tells me, "Hey i was going to come over to your house today." Practically inviting himself over...i thought...wow..so i have no say in it at all
I told him i was stepping out and hung up.
But later on he called 8 times and the next day he showed up at my house, looking for me (so my brother tells me) while i wasn't home.
This has been going on for a week now.
The constant calling and coming over to see me and leaving me messages on the machine about wanting to "spend time with me" and "date me"
IT NEVER ENDS!!! I was wondering what anyone else thinks i can do. Anything that means he'll go away!!!

Tell him, bluntly, that he has no chance what so ever, and you don`t want to spend time with him. If he won`t leave you alone, ask you parents to speak with him. If that also does nothing, go to the cops and explain that he`s harassing you. ♥

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