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he wants me back
I broke up with my bf about 3 weeks ago and within that time he started going out with a girl but she broke up with him. While he was with her he was being bitchy and plain out wrong with me but now that they have broken up he regrets everything he said and did and wants me back.When we broke up I cried and was hurt for a LONG while but now I am dealing with it.Well he wants me back and I don't know if I should give him a chance part of me says yes but the other says no. I don't know what I should do but sometimes I just feel like calling him just to hear his voice but then again I don't want to get hurt again. Pleace help me out!
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I would definitely not go back to him. If he can move on like that, then so should you. He sounds like jerk that doesn`t derserve a second chance. And like you said, you are beginning to move on, and he`s probably seeing that. Guys run back when they realize that the girl is moving on. Don`t fall for it.
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Well this is difficult. You are torn between being with him and not being with him. Either you can give him a chance, and risk getting hurt again, or not go out with him, and stay on the safe side. Just go with how you feel. Follow your intuition and your heart. If you think that being with him will only cause you more pain then it's time to let him go and move on. Especially since he quickly dismissed your guy's relationship and rebounded to the next girl so quickly. But one question.... You said you broke up with him... What happened there? Message me back if you want. Hope my advice helps. ~Sherah
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You need to ask him if he truly has feelings for you. Make sure he isn't using you for a girlfriend until someone better comes along. You've already been down that road and don't want to go through all that again. :)
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Ok, it soudns to me like this guy only asked you out BECAUSE that other girl broke up with him. You were just someone to fall back on. And, if I am right, then you don't need to be with him.
However, if I am wrong, and he truely is sorry and wants you back for all the RIGHT reasons then I would say that you may want to give it naother chance because you seem to like him a LOT!
Basically, I think that you need to use your own judgement and try to find out his TRUE motive for wanting you back and see if he is sincere. Then, make the decision from there. BEST OF LUCK!
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u said it yourself you dont want to be hurt again..
from your own advice i wouldnt go out with him again
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I think you should test if he's really sincere or not. Why not pretend saying no to him at first not only will you test his sincerity in this, you'll also get even with him. Why did he go out with a girl and being ill with you the whole time. Then now wants you back? Does he want to use you only? So maybe you can use this tactic to him. After saying no to him, he still persists for a long time and you really really think he's sincere and you still have feelings for him then go on. Let him promise to you not to hurt you again and let him explain why he was ill with you the whole time he was with the other girl. If you're acceptable with it then go on and say yes to him.
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