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okay well im 15/f, and i recently found out im pregnate. Before i found out my boyfriend broke up with me, we don't talk anymore, he ignores my calls and he won't read anything i send him...so is it useless to tell him??he's 15 to, and lives about 45 min. away. I think I'm gonna keep the baby too, I haven't told my parents yet. I'm a "goodygood" so noone would expect it...and i don't kno what to do...i tried to tell my best friend...but she didn't believe me...what do i do? how do i tell my ex. and get him to listen to me?
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i would get an abortion or put it up for adoption. if you do keep it, get the father involved. just call his parents. dont worry. he agreed to have sex too so they cant blame it on you. good luck
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well dont tell them until u are like 100% sure. Dont rely on just one test... take a few. but in the end if you are... you have to tell him. It's his damn his and his responsibility to take care of it. Just send him a message, i promise you just because he doesnt reply doesnt mean he doesnt read them. And if that doesnt work get one of his friends to tell him. Cuz i promise you when you tell your parents they are going to want to talk to him anyways.
Have fun mommy :-)
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ok...you need to leave him a message on the answering machine...personally go to his house...something! who cares if he will be willing to help out...the law will make him sacrifcice a percentage of his paycheck to child support...make his parents pay...or something. he helped make this babyy..so he will help take responsibility for the baby. he sounds like he might not always be there...but you should at least get child support from him...just tell your ex straight out..that youu foound out ur pregnant and your KEEPING the baby ..dont let him talk you into an abortion...lay down the line..see what he will contribute..who knwos? maybe he will really step up and bthere for the baby...if not ...at least you will get child support
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If he won`t talk to you, then you obviously can`t tell him. Unless, you`re willing to go to his house & tell him. That still doesn`t mean he`s really going to care though, so don`t get your hopes up.
& Also, I suggest you learn how to spell pregnant.
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I know how you feel.I was 15 when I found out I was pregnant too.However I was the one who broke up with him, after I found out I was pregnant. Somtimes, its hard to tell your parents, but trust me your'll feel better after you do. Just sit them down and tell them what had happened. It took me a whole month before I told my parents and I think they found out earlier, but just didn't tell me. My daugther is almost 7 months now and I'm doing great without her father.He doesn't even know about her.It took my parents a while to understand why I wanted to keep the baby, but now they enjoy watching her while I work.Believe me everything will be okay.
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dont listen to what some of these people are saying. Just because your pregnant at 15 doesnt meen your going to end up on the streets or anything. my sister got pregnant when she was 15 and kept the baby, she is doing very well right now and she has a job, im glad she doesnt believe in abortion because life would be so much diffrent with out my niece. I hope you do keep the child and that your parents let you, but if not then i hope you wont regret it forever. also this is a very important matter so you should sit your parents down and tell them and then have them drive you to the fathers house so you can talk with him and his parents. I wish you luck,
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If worse comes to worse find a way and show up to where he lives. He needs to take full responsiblity. In the mean time keep trying to call and send him letters or what not.
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When you tell your parents you can bet THEY will tell your ex and he (and his parents!) WILL believe you.
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turn up at his house tell him that you NEED to talk. and i can't blive that your friend doesn't belive you! you need to tell your parents you can't do this alone!
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first you should make sure your prgnant so you dont have this talk if your really not.you have to tell your ex. because he has to have some responsiblity for the baby to, not just you. you have to tell your parents too.just say something like "mom, dad i think i may be prgnant." something like that but you might have to think it over
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You don't need your ex to listen to you. He can't actually do anything anyway.
You need to talk to your parents. You are too young to be allowed a choice legally to keep your baby. Your parents are the ones who have to make that decision. If you're lucky, they'll listen to your wishes. They don't have to do that. You need to tell your ex-boyfriend's parents. He's too young to make a legal choice in this matter either. Neither of you can sign a legal document until you turn 18. Your parents or gardians are require by law to take any and all legal action for you. If you want child support, you'll be getting it from his parents. They are respocible for his actions until he turns 18. Russianspy is right your parents will need to arrange for a paternity test and sue you boyfriend's parents for a support order. I can also tell you that shake's answer is pretty dead on too. Only thing is, you won't be the one choosing abortion or adoption. You can't legaly choose either, only your parents can. This mess is one of the prime reasons NOT to have sex till you're ready and ABLE to deal with the consequences. I wish you and you child luck. I hope things work out for the best.
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omg! no way, you deffinately need to keep trying to contact your ex! bc if you dont a whole bunch of legal messes could come up! lol and i am sure that you dont want that! i think that it is your decision on whether or not you want to keep the baby, but remember all the hardships that will come wiht it... and jsut keep insisting to everyone what is true and call your boyfriends parents and ask to talk to him that way.
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You're screwed.
You're going to live on welfare because you cant finsih college. You'll have a shitty job and wont have a boyfriend. That 15 year old guy, yeah he isnt going to take responsiblility.
Your child will be born, and you'll have no boyfriends. They'll be scared because you have a kid.
You'll live in some ghetto shitty place and get your ass robbed. Your kid will grow up and a thug gangster and either get shot or hurt bad.
You've messed up.
Abort
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Adopt
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OMG TELL YOUR PARENTS.Then have your mommy call his mommy and have his mommy tell him so his mommy can kill him if your daddy doesnt first becuas since your a goodygood *cough* he will think your Xboyfriend presured you!
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well when you have the baby, have a paternity test, at that point he will have to pay child support. other than that there really isnt much you can do.
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