I have this friend that i really dont like and i really didnt want to be her friend in the first place..she pretty much took my BEST friend away from me in the first place..! i really cant explain why i hung out with her .. but i really need to end our " friendship " and i really dont know how! Please help i rate high!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Crystal_Lake answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 4:20 pm: am i supposed to help you?
bc no one on this site even cares about the questions, it is just something to do when you are boredd....
hmmm
wow...just wow...
if you really dont like her than DONT BE FRIENDS WITH HER
you are like my friends, you make a big deal out of the littlest things.
uhhhh....why cant you just look at the task at hand and then focus on that problem instead of caring of other people, when you should be ur #1 priority.
There...now did i help?
it may have been a reality check, but i think it is about time people started getting them...
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neonxspork answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 4:15 pm: Okay, first off if someone is really your 'bestfriend' nobody else can take them away. I guess your friendship wasnt that strong in the first place. Anyways, just dont hang out with this girl anymore. Its normal, people go their seperate ways all the time. If she insists on hanging out or keeps talking to you just explain to her that your gonna try to hang out with some new people. Im sure she'll understand.
zapreth answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 4:14 pm: It would be stupid to completely cut yourself off. This doesn't mean you can't just drop her like a dirty dish rag. Hang with other people. Turn down any invites you get from her. Don't ask her to go anywhere with you. It's pretty simple. If she cares enough she'll ask you why you're not being a friend anymore. Take it from there. If you have a backbone and really hate the girl you'll come up with something and she'll leave you alone. [ zapreth's advice column | Ask zapreth A Question ]
sshelbyy answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 3:51 pm: That's a little harsh. Yeah, i understand that you are mad that she took your best frined, but before you blow up and get rid of her, you have to think of the reasons WHY you dont like her. Did she ever do anything to you that bothered you? You can't just dump her beacuse you dont like her. You COULD just let the friendship fade away. Like, dont invite her ANYWHERE from now on and if she invites you places, say your grounded or something and eventually yall will stop hanging out and talking and stuff. But DO NOT be rude to her because then you miht lose your BESTFRIEND if you havent lost her already. :D goodluck [ sshelbyy's advice column | Ask sshelbyy A Question ]
Avocodo answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 3:49 pm: Just dont come out and say "I hate you" becuase you know that will help her. try to hang out with her AND other people, that way maybe both of you can find new people. tyr to hang out with new people, but always include her. hope i helped, good luck. [ Avocodo's advice column | Ask Avocodo A Question ]
shake answered Tuesday June 7 2005, 3:14 pm: She took your best friend away? Whats wrong with that. Maybe YOUR best friend thought she was cooler.
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