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Hi, Im Andrea 15/f Ok, i've basically lost my best friends. I dont know what to do at all. I love them so much and I hate just not talking to them for a DAY so whats it gonna be like the rest of my life? And I mean, I just wish one of them would text me or IM me or try to talk to me because I feel like they don't even miss me. I don't know what to do, and right now I have NOONE to go to because i dont have any friends now. So how can I get them back? And what should I do? AAAA. This is ruining my life. I cry every 10 minutes and I've NEVER cried over friend problems before. I just dont wanna lose them, they mean so much to me. OMG. HELP!
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ok well if you go to church talk to yuor youth paster... they ALWAYS help!! or ask them why they are mad at you. but sometimes you just have to move on to other people and it's goin to be hard... i know but you have to do somethin and you can;t cry all the time even though i know it's hard not to. but talk to someone!! i hope i helped!!
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Everything that you're feeling is what you should express verbally when you meet them face to face.It would also be better to give reasons for this. But you should also accept the possibility of them not wanting you to be their friend anymore regardless of how you feel. If they don't want to do this, then I think it's time for you to consider the thought of getting new friends IF they don't want to be your friend anymore. Keep trying and don't give up something that means a lot . Keep fighting for it and don't stop , but accept the possibility . If you don't , you may well be in denial and that only deepens the pain. Cheer up. If they really are your friends, they'll understand and forgive. But not forget. Just try, okay. Have a nice day.
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aaaaw man. wow. thats kinda weird. anyways, um, yah, i think we are twin sisters having the same problems. forget your friends, or try to, i know its freakin the hardest thing you will ever do, but you have to, because obviously (since they havent made an effort to talk to you) they dont want to remain friends so why should you sit there and beg them? meet other people and hopefully one day you'll find a new best friend who cares about u enough to even talk to you during this hard time.......
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Hey Sweetie,
Hang in there it will be fine, I still remember my first day of highschool. I have lived over by the beaches since I was born and went to school there until 8th grade I had to leave. And it sucked really bad. I cryed my whole first day of school. But all you gotta do is talk to ppl and stuff if not try talking to your friends if you miss them that bad. I still keep in touch with my best/good friends because that shows how much they mean to you and care about you. I know how you feel Ill pray for you!! Best wishes hope its gets better!! :-'(!!
-StephAnie-
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aw im sorry all this is happening to you. I know it sucks to lose friends, especially when you care soo much about them and couldnt live withought them, believe me it shappened to me. But a true friend is someone who loves you no matter your flaws and will work as hard as they can to maek things work. And if your friends really care about YOU, then they will come back to you. IF they dont, its time to get some new friends. i hope you take my advice!
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