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Question Posted Wednesday January 4 2006, 8:00 pm

okay. im 13 and theres a guy, named chad, whos 14. we went out for a while, almost 5 months. and then had this really strange period where he was acting really weird around me and when i confronted him about it. he said hed talk more. and i was like okay. the next day, though, he broke up with me. everybody that knows me and also him said he scrweed me over cause he knew id brake up with him. anyways, i went out with this guy named tyler after for only about 2 weeks, when we decided we were better friends. now chad keeps telling me he likes me again and i dont know whether to go out with him again or not. its complicated because i know hes a good boyfriend and all but its almost like he has 2 sides. like one side of him talks to me, and treats me like his girlfriend. [hugs, holding my hand, flirting like mad, etc.] and the other side of him is totally weird. he wont talk to me, he talks about girls he used to like, and walks away from me. im so confused because i like him a lot but it seems once we've been going out for a month or so turns in the bad side of like 5 of the 7 days of the week and i hate that. i apoligize for the length of this. and i hope someone has advice, experience, etc. thanks in advance.

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King answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 10:59 pm:
you're 13. if you find it THAT important to even HAVE a bf, then there's no reason why not. so he can be a little distant.. so what? you're not his wife. he doesnt answer to you.

and when he does get in a bad mood, stay on him. if he wants to break up with ya, dont let him, get mad. hit him, that sounds fun. he seems like a little chicken hearted puke to me who need someone to take control of him since he cant control himself.

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BeautyBaby800 answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 10:35 pm:
Ok well if you really like him alot than you need to talk to him about this problem you think he has. Well if you really wanna go out with him again than talk to him say "well I still like you too but I am afraid that you will break my heart again and I don't like when you act all weird around me and then break up with me the next day I comfront you of it". I am sure he will understand if he still likes you and I hope all goes well!! Hope I helped!!
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cougar123 answered Wednesday January 4 2006, 8:24 pm:
Dont fell bad. Its nothing you are doing. He is a 14 year old guy. They are all immature!! Guys are immature untill they are about 30 seriously. Dont worry soo much on having a serious relationship with him because honestly, you guys are too young. Just be boyfriend and girlfriend and just do what you all want to do. Okay? Live like a 13 year old girl! Love life and dont stress over guys untill you are atleast 35. lol.

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