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My BFF moved
Okay, I'm like SO sad because my best friend in the entire world moved! It's not just something I can get over, because she has been my bff since 1st grade, and we're in 9th now!=
She moved about an hour away. I know it's not THAT far, but it seems like it. I used to go to her house EVER night, and now we only see each other about 3 times a month. Not only that, I don't want us to grow apart from this. I couldn't stand to lose my bff to another person. Any advice? I rate 5's.
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Your relationship has changed. Whether it lasts is up to whether there's a mutual interest in seeing that it lasts. Initiate contact and communication, whether it's spending weekends with her, writing letters, or simply chatting on the phone. If you put in the effort, it's ultimately up to her whether it'll last.
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Since they're only an hour away, try to see if you can visit her on weekends. You can also try to call her every night or talk to her on an instant messanger. Although not seeing her in person won't be the same, it will help you so that you don't drift apart.
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This always happen to me and i always get depressed from this. You have to remember that she will always love you. Once in a while, set up something good like hanging out at the mall or sleepover.
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well it sounds like you and her are really close.the easiest way to keep in touch is over the phone, but sometimes its hard to find the time try talking your moms into taking turns driving you back and forth to each others house. hey its worth a try!
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The same thing happend to me but my friend moved from Massachusetts all the way to Texas....Thats 3 days away. Sence she moved i have only seen her once but we are still really good friend. You just have to keep in touch. I always call her and talk to her onlne and send her letters and all that stuff..so there are some good ideas....
hope i helped...
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that sux wicked bad! but i guess youve just gotta deal huh? do they have a sn? can u meet them 1/2 way? try stuff like that. hope i helped!!
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If you both do your part to keep the friendship alive, then nothing will change.
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it's always really really hard to have your bff move away like that.
i know how it feels because i had a bff too that moved 7 hours away (by plane), and i just couldn't stand it. i thought that maybe our friendship would grow apart, and then we would just forget about each other. but it didn't happen, because we were such good friends that we always kept in touch with each other, even though we could never see each other.
don't worry, i bet she's thinking the same thing as you, and just can't stand that she's moving away and not going to be able to see you as much now.
it just takes a while of getting used to. and if you 2 r really close, then your friendship won't grow apart.
because remember, you can always call each other whenever you want, and you can see each other on weekends. talk to each other on IM and stuff, and i'm sure that it'll work out fine and you two won't drift apart.
if you two really value the friendship that you have, then you'll stay bff. it might take a while of getting used to, but as time goes by, you'll get uesd to it.
just cherish every moment you're with her!!
*good luck!*
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I am sorry that your bff moved an hour away. I understand how you feel cause my bff lives about 45 minutes away and I don't get to see her as often as i used to. I used to see her every day just like you used to see your bff every day. Now I'm lucky if I get to see her twice a month. It sucks and I wish I could see her every day but I can't so I call her as much as I can, although it is kinda hard cause where she lives from my house is considered long distance, but we chat online when we get a chance. But call her and stay in touch with her and let her know how much you miss her and how much her friendship means to you and that you don't want to lose her. Good luck.
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that is really hard, i know i would die if i or my friend moved.
its good that you too can see eachother sometimes, and you can talk all the time. and since your in 9th grade, its only a few more years till you can move out and maybe get an apartment together =]
during the school year you get a lot of days off, so you can see eachother then.
just talk all the time, and true best friends really are forever, so im sure you wont grow apart.
i know its hard, but it'll get better. ♥
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