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umm....im a 15 year old chick, i love to sing, id be more than happy to answer any questions on music that you may have. ill try to answer any questions that i can with as much help as i can possibly give you.
E-mail: maybe_someday333@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: massachusetts
Age: 15
Yahoo: mandikinz11091
Member Since: October 6, 2005
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Last Update: January 12, 2006
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Hello there. I was wondering if anyone knew any good christian songs? (link)
well, theres kj52 if you like rap (hes one of my favorites) and then zoegirl...i guess it depends on what KIND of christian music you like. i would ask some people at your church if you go. hope i helped ♥ mandi


Ok I am a 17 year old female from nova scotia, and there is this guy i work with and i kinda like but hes new to the business but hes really nice to me and we friendly flirt. Everythings great, but the problem is i think he may be 2 years younger then me (not 100% sure) haven't asked him lol, but is it weird that i like a younger guy? Is this wrong, kinda confuzed cause i just got crushed from this other guy i liked so i dunno what to think. Thanks, i rate all 5's (link)
i dont think that its weird. not in any way. i think that you should try to flirt as much as possible,and see how he reacts. hope i helped

♥ mandi


how do you get backgrounds,like with stars or hearts? something like that. I tried to do it but it didnt work and i dont know where to put it.Could anyone help me out? thank you!
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on.....? what? try createblog.com i guess, cuz that has almost everything. livejournal, myspace........it gives clear directions on what to do too

hope i helped you!!



is it ok if i dont know why i like the guy i like? i mean ok i know i like him but i dont have a clue why hes not hott and yea i guess hes kinda cute hes just average boring guy not really boring but you know what i mean just kinda there and i like him and i dont have a clue why i do! any ideas why i may like him and is it bad that i dont have a clue why i do? thankx (link)
of course its okay. my best friend is in the same situation, so i will tell you some of the stuff i told her.....i think its awesome that you like a guy for reasons other than his looks, cuz your going deeper, and thats awesome. its not bad that you dont know why. if you like him, you like him, and theres really nothing that you can do about it. trust me, its completely normal. :)



there's this guy. my parents know his parents through baseball and our brothers are friends through baseball too. weve never really talked to each other i guess becuase weve never seen each other in school and were in two different groups of people. i mean i think we're both on the same popularity level, but dont have the same friends. so hes in my english class this year and i try not to...but i cant help but stare at him the whole period. hes kinda shy around people he doesnt know but he seems sweet. how do i get to know him better without making it all awkward? (link)
just walk up to him and introduce yourself. ask him what hes into and all that. try to think of topics that would get him interested, or clued in that you like him. try other things like commenting on his shirt, or asking his opinion, or help in english, if he understands what you are going over. also try to see like what bands he likes, or ask him if he heard the latest nickelback song or something.

i hope i helped!!!



how do you put on cool backgrounds on Myspace? (link)
try createblog.com thats where i got mine. all you have to do is go to the uppper right hand corner under the title and click register. then you copy and paste the link into your about me. they have awesome backgrounds, no matter if you are a girl/boy. ;)

hope i helped you out,


me and my bfs one year anniversary is coming up really soon and here are some ideas i had for it..
- i ordered on line this personalized puzzle that says you complete me love always, sam
- im going to cut out big red heart and put all pictures of us on it and love quotes and such
- starting at 12 days before the day of our anniversary (to represent 12 months) i am going to put how many days there are left hershey kisses in his locker and a little note

are these good ideas and do you have any other good ideas about what i can do or give him? (link)
aww thats really cute. i love the first idea. i think hes gonna love all of them.

&hearts mandi


I like one of my best guy friends. His name is Justin. We became friends in the 7th grade and have been friends ever since. His ex keeps telling me that we should go out. I know he likes me and he knows I like him. I want him to be my bf really bad. We flirt all the time.Sometimes a little to much. I want to know if I should make the first move or wait for him. Please help me. (link)
make the first move most definately. if you already know that he likes you, dont hesitate! go for it! i know i know, guys are always sposed to make the first move, but i dont believe in that. if you want him that bad, go for it! best of luck!!

♥mandi*


I really like this kid and i don't really know him that well but my friends have told him that i like him and stuff so he knows i have his screen name and everything but im too shy to talk to him about liking him or anyhtingg help

i rate 5's !! (link)
im sotra in the same situation. my friends told my cruch i liked him too, and since then weve become closer. since you have his sn, see if your best friend, or a close friend even, would consider talking to him online for ya. it worked for me! but make sure you go into the situation with an open mind, okay with anything he has to say. hope i helped!



What are some good party ideas for a party in a basement in the winter. Food, decoration, game ideas? There is probably going to be around either 30 or 15 people whether i decide to invite some people. (link)
food, anything you like. id say something easy like pizza, cuz everyone likes it. (well....almost) otherwise, just watch a movie, or just let everyhting fall into place, and maybe some ppl will make new friends or something.


I tried out for a solo in chorus but I didnt get it. And now Im really mad because I ALWAYS win at singing and get solo's. Im not used to this. Plus, a girl I HATE got it. And she always says shes better than me.. And this just PROVES it. What do i do?..

-Saddddd (link)
ya...i know how that goes. ive been in the same situations many times. i saw it as that even though i consider myself a very talented singer, and the teacher may too (esp. if youve had solos b4) the teacher has to make it fair to everyone. i wouldnt be pissed, id just remember that you cant have everything you want all the time and be positive


Do pink and black go good together? (link)
omg yes! those are my two favorite colors to put together! try it! black goes with (almost) anything very well. especially pastels ive found



What is fasting all about, and how's it done?
I know loads of girls at school that are talking about fasts all the time (not that I'm thinking of starving myself or anything for the sake of being thin, I'm just curious)

I heard my friend tell her cousin she was gonna do a 5 day fast and her cousin asked her how she lasted so long on a fast so I'm guessing it's got to do with not eating.
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fasting usually refers to a religious starvation type of thing where instead of eating you pray. haha i just read your additional info...nvm that then. lol ummm...heres what dictionary.com had to say...

1. To abstain from food.
2. To eat very little or abstain from certain foods, especially as a religious discipline.

1. The act or practice of abstaining from or eating very little food.
2. A period of such abstention or self-denial.

hope i helped out!



ok... I Have A Boyfriend And Hes The Oppisite Color Of Me But I Dont Care About That!...But Everyone Says That I Should Date My Own Color...And I Think He Likes Another Girl..But HE SAYS HE DONT...Everyone Is Tellin Me That They Were Together At The Festival this Year But i Ingoure Them But What Do i Do Belive Him or Them??... (link)
i would believe him if i were you. maybe everyone just likes to spread gossip. maybe you should confront him about it and ask him to give you a completly honest answer.

hope i helped!



i use acnefree and when i put on the toner, i use a cotton ball and the toner goes right through the cotton ball so when i try to put it on my face it basically dried out ..if you know what i mean.. what can i do to prevent this? is it the type of cotton balls im useing because i used to try proactiv and it worked just fine for me? (link)
maybe its the product then. i use proactiv sometimes too and i agree it doesnt do that. i think that maybe acnefree is just a cheap version of proactiv? i dont know. hope i helped

~mandikinz


My friend is turning 16 next week and she just found out that shes pregnant.. her boy friend isnt tlaking to her right now and she thinks hes an asshole now. Her mom kinda has a feeling that she is btu doesnt exactly know. Shes coming over in a couple hours and i have no clue what to do how do i comfort her what do i do? please help... (link)
try not to even bring up the fact and try to have fun. i know thats probly gonna be hard....but comfort her and tell her its gonna be alright. i know that sounds lame, but it could work. dont come down hard on her tho...like saying "why didnt you use protection??" or something. just be there for her


In elementary school I was a straight-A student. Suddenly in the 7th grade, everything's different. I am soooooooo disorganized! I always get the format for the HW wrong or don't understand the assignment.

I just got a progress report:

English A-
Science B
Math F
History N/A
Spanish C

This is sooooo embarassing! An F! Isn't it awful? I failed a quiz, got a B+ on my exam, and failed all of my homework, usually because it isn't in the correct format (the progress report came out before I got my exam back). I feel so terrible---I go to a private school and everyone gets A's! Am I stupid or something because I'm so disorganized? How can I be more organized? About how much more of the 1st quarter do 7th graders have? 7th graders, could you give me an idea of when it ends???

thx

*Luna* (link)
middle school is so much harder, the same thing happened to me. the teachers get tougher and expect more out of you. i really dont think your stupid, and maybe you are a lil disorganized, but your still doing well. okay? just try your hardest, study and dont let all the other kids grades get you down. just do the best that you can, and be proud of it.

♥mandikinz


Ok so there is this girl on my bus named jessica. And were arent friends or anything. And she told the kid across from me that her stepfather beats her. So me and the other kid decided that we would tell the guideance counseler about it. Well the other kid goes to Vo-tech during the day so he wanted me to tell the office. So I did. Well somehow Jessica found out that I was the one who told and now shes mad at me. She is being really nasty to me what should i do? I mean I was only trying to help (link)
you so did the right thing, and dont let anyone tell you differently okay?


ok, why do people not understand that you cant get over a guy so fast! i mean all my friends tell me to get over this guy! but i cant! n thn they say im dumb! WTF?! (link)
i dont know, but appartenly theyve never been through it. guys are wierd tho. ;) i know how you feel tho. just take your time getting over him. eat ice cream or somethin


Lastnight ... when i was just walking in my house ... my knee buckled, popped(i heard it) and i just fell to the ground. For the first 10 minutes it burned, and i coodnt get off the ground. My dad helped me up ... and i coodnt put any weight on it. I got thru the night ... but still this morning, its not better. It just feels like theres a giant bruise on it ... and i cant put much weight on it at all. Im going to the doctors soon. Do yu know whats wrong? Am i gunna need crutches or something? (link)
most likely you dislocted your knee.




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