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help!
ok, why do people not understand that you cant get over a guy so fast! i mean all my friends tell me to get over this guy! but i cant! n thn they say im dumb! WTF?!
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If friends tell you to get over a guy, it takes time to get over a guy. Give it time and it'll happen. Hope I helped!
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omg i feel your pain. it really sucks if you like or love someone and all that your friends say is. "its not a big deal its just some guy, get over it" dont worry, you liked him and that broke your heart, if youre friends think your dumb for liking someone, then maybe theyre not friends. let them know that its not dumb to be heartbroken. if they still think your dumb, i wouldnt hang around with them
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i dont know, but appartenly theyve never been through it. guys are wierd tho. ;) i know how you feel tho. just take your time getting over him. eat ice cream or somethin
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OMg what kind of friends are there! If you love someone that much and you have broke up with him of course it will take a while! If your friends are going to be like that then stuff them find some more friends.
roxie
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It depends on how "long" long is. If it's like two weeks, then no that's not long enough. If it's like six months, then yeah I'd say get over it too.
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♥ Your not dumb! Guys take take to get over! It takes time for your heart to heal, especially if it was serious & you really liked the guy. I mean if your relationship with him was just realt simple like a hug & you barely speak to eachother and it lasted for like a week, then I could see why your friends may question, but they have no right to call you dumb unless they were just kidding.
After awhile I am sure he will be in the past you then you can focus on things you normally do. If you need any other questions about the relationship be sure to ask me! GO0D LUCK BABE ! ♥ ALWAYS-LAUREN
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Not every1s heart works the same way. Youre friends wont understand unless theyve been there.
Just try to tune them out. Youre not dumb, you only had true feelings for that guy. Try and not dwell on the past, look ahead, there will be brighter days!
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look, they're right. why don't you join the army like i did and have your spouse send you pictures of said spouse cheating on you. then it would be ok to grieve this long. don't let it get to you kid, it wasn't gonna work out anyways. try to find some nice dude who thinks you're cool and hook up with him.
-a cavalry scout named gunner
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Ahh, been there. Some people do understand that but mainly the reason your friends tell you that is because they don't want to see you hurt. Getting over a guy is hard, expesilly if you liked him soo much. It took me over 6 months, and to tell you the truth I don't think I'm really over that one guy. Anywho, don't listen to them. Even though they are your friends, they might not understand how you feel right now. Take as long as you need babe and good luck.
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People get over people at many different speeds. Don't listen to them they just don't want to hear you talking about this guy still or something related to that. It's frustrating yes I know. Take a look at the other coices around you and maybe you'll find a guy that'll make you get over the other like I did.
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The healing process after a break up takes time and how long it takes is different depending on the person, the relationship and how long it lasted.
Your friends should be understanding about that and realize that it isn't an easy thing to get over someone you generally care about, unless they haven't had that deep of a relationship themselves.
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They will think different when its them in that situation.
You do have to move on but it isn't going to happen overnight.
Here is a site you might like to check out. It may have something useful to help you get over things. :)
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