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PLeASE HELP is urgent
My friend is turning 16 next week and she just found out that shes pregnant.. her boy friend isnt tlaking to her right now and she thinks hes an asshole now. Her mom kinda has a feeling that she is btu doesnt exactly know. Shes coming over in a couple hours and i have no clue what to do how do i comfort her what do i do? please help...
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try not to even bring up the fact and try to have fun. i know thats probly gonna be hard....but comfort her and tell her its gonna be alright. i know that sounds lame, but it could work. dont come down hard on her tho...like saying "why didnt you use protection??" or something. just be there for her
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♥ MAKE HER FEEl G0OD.. TAlK TO HER AND COMFORT HER..
HEATHER<3
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ok look 1st of all she HAS to tell her mom, if she is thinking of abortion please tell her not to do it she can take care of the baby and her mom can help she can also call her bf and talk to him seriously or she can put the baby for adoption.
albania
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Breath . . . Tell her mom . . . Tell your mom . . . They'll take care of the rest . . .
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I know that you might have heard this in other answers but I think you should be very sensative and ask how she feels. Be gentle right now she could be feeling very weak.
AdviceAbby
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When she comes over just be there for her. Talk about her options. Then talk about how she will tell her mom. When she does you should be there so that way you see what her moms reaction is. If it's bad just take your friend out of the house for a while so that her mom can came down. Then have your friend call her mom to see if she has calmed down yet and if she is willing to talk to her about it without getting upset. I hope that I helped but you never know what will happen in situations like that. You can visit me at my column.
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Just be there for her and let her talk about what she feels like. If she is in her first few weeks of pregnancy, on top of being really scared and sad about her boyfriend, she may also feel really tired and not feel well. The best thing to do is to be a friend and not to judge whatever she decides to do. also, make sure that she gets the proper medical care whatever she decides to do, and if that means talking to a trusted adult, then that may have to be the case.
good luck to you and her and keep me posted.
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Just let her know that you will be there for her no matter what. And you should definitely support her, even tho she made a mistake (b/c getting pregnant at 15 is NOT something to be proud of!). Especially if her b/f is one of those guys who could care less about someone they "LOVED" the day before. She needs you. I also think that she should tell her mom, b/c she is going to need help and advice from her parents as well as her close friends! Good luck!
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Tell her everything is going to be ok even though it doesn't seem like it now. Her parents will try to help her through this they will be upset but I don't think they will do anything bad cause she really needs them right now. Anyway the boyfriend is an (you know what) She doesn't need him she will do fine with her family and all of her friends. Sorry if this doesn't help
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First thing she needs to do is tell her mom.
Then she needs to go see a doctor. You have to be a good friend and listen because she is going to have a lot of decisions to make and will need someone to talk to.
Been there done that myself, so if you or she have any other questions, drop me a note. :)
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my friend jus had a baby...and i had to go thro what u are...well i told my friend to tell her mom and see how her mom reacts because her mom will find out sooner or later...and she should tell her bf first..and most likely he wont believe her but prove it to him and she has to face it she cant run away from it
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Ask her about the names for the baby , ask her what does she think its going to be ( boy or a girl)Hope everything works out
Emai me about how it worked out BlondieBoo122@yahoo.com *Sarah*
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