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Usually I'm not in the mood to do it a lot. My boyfriend and I had sex a few times this month though. Now I'm 4 days late on my period and I feel really, really horny all the time. I've been having this turned on feeling for the past week now. My boyfriend said it's no big deal and keeps saying there's no way I can be pregnant since he always pulled out. I read in one place that pregnant women can be really turned on because of hormone changes. Am I pregnant? I just turned 17 and he's 16, almost 17, and we've only been together for 3 months so this is kind of scary. (link)
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Here's what I would do in your situation:
I would go and buy a two-pack of pregnancy tests. I've bought them from walmart without being 18, but state laws differ so you might want to check on that. You should also look into a Planned Parenthood, if asking your parents to allow you to have birth control isn't an option. They have pregnancy tests and they can give out birth control without having to notify your parents (at least, they do in Arizona. You might want to look it up). It might be a little pricey if you don't have a job and they don't have Title X, but it's a lot cheaper than a baby. If you can't do that, use condoms. They might not feel as good, but it's safer than pulling out.
Just my personal opinion. I'm not a doctor or anything, but it's an idea.
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Hello i went off birth control about 2 or 3 months ago, and my period came regular after getting off it. I was suppose to start my period this past monday and still nothing. I've had cramp-like symptoms like i'm going to start my period but then they go away a little while later. I dont know whats going on. My husband and i have had unprotected sex since i've been off birth control. I was wondering if i could be pregnant? Or should i wait until next week to take a test? I dont have any symptoms like i could be pregnant so maybe the birth control is still working its way out of my system? Thanks in advance!! (link)
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It's very possible that you could be pregnant; however, I have switched from being on birth control for over a year to being off of it and missed my period completely and wasn't pregnant. I'm not a doctor or anything, but from my experience and from what I've read on the internet, sometimes women with regular periods miss them because of stress, illness, losing a lot of weight, or hormonal imbalances.
I would buy a two-pack of tests (I usually use First response), use one this week, and then use the other next week to confirm the reading. If both are negative and you still don't show any signs of being pregnant, you probably aren't. Either way, if you are really concerned, getting tested by a doctor is the way to go.
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I took in my sisters cat about a month ago and have realized that he goes to the bathroom WAY to much. I have had ALOT of cats in my time believe me and he pees as much as 3 cats would probably. I started with changing the catpan out twice a week and realized that was definitely not enough and have started doing it every other day realizing that even after two days the catpan needs changed and cannot be scooped.
Another thing that appeared odd to me is that he freaks out when water is turned on. He will get up and dart over to the sink to get a drink even though he has a full water dish that is filled fresh everyday. and recently has taken on meowing until we turn a facet on low for him to drink from. For some reason my sister thought he was just an unusual cat...but there hasn't been a time in my life where i haven't had at least 3 cats in my home until now where i only have this cat and he eats, drinks, and goes to the bathroom like i have 2-3 cats in the house.
I looked online and found that this could be Diabetes and since he is a male and has been neutered he is at higher risk of getting it. I have yet to go to the vet since i have a lack of money for this but am hoping with enough responses on this toward what it could be or if its nothing it will give me the courage to take him and use my money to help the poor thing.
Any input on this will help me greatly if i don't here anything back i will be taking him into the vet within the next week or two and even with responses do the same i would just like input before i do this... or ideas on what it could be rather than just jumping to conclusions with something terrible like diabetes.
Thanks :) (link)
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I'm not an expert on cats, but I did watch an episode of cats 101 where there was a diabetic cat. He was male, overweight, and neutered. Also, common symptoms of diabetes do include drinking a lot of water, increased urination, and increased appetite.
Hope this helps :)
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Okay to make this very long story short, my boyfriend of two months cheated on me. We were bestfriends at first for over a year and a half before we dated. I'm 17 btw. I've always cared so much and beileved in him when no else did, his reputation for being a man whore always bothered me. His phone had been "broken" for about two weeks and I get this text saying hey. I started to notice it wasn't him and whoever was on the phone was beating around the bush about what they were doing. So "kate" let's call her, starts saying that my bf is hot, that he wants her a whole bunch of bull that I simply ignored. Kate ends up sending me a text saying I I shouldn't be happy because Im not the one making out with him now. I broke down. Later on that night he admitted to what she said and showed some remorse. Then day at school I saw he had a HUGE hickey on his neck. I still didn't want to beileve it. So at lunch Kate sits at choking distance so now my friends torment her and I'm a well known person so now the whole cafe hates her. I'm still unhappy my bf and I still together we sat down and talked it out it was long but we thought about it alot i still couldn't believe he let her get a hold of his phone. I know I'm stupid for taking him back but I'm in love. /: I still depressed haven't eaten in 4 days and not really much sleep either.
- signed
the fool (link)
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I'm sure someone has told you this before, but there WILL be other guys. I've had the same thing happen to me before, and I took the guy back. It was the most unhealthy relationship I have ever been in. It will be hard to let him go, but honestly, staying with him is a downhill slope. Also, he has a hickey from another girl. It's pretty easy to tell someone to stop in order to avoid one of those, so it seems like he did it and wanted people to know it happened. He doesn't deserve to be with anybody right now.
Trust me, there are a great deal of other men more worthy of your time than this guy.
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ok i've been rele horny lately.. and i've been having sex with my boyfriend aggressively i mean i don't think he minds but i don't like it..how do i stop becoming as horny all the time? i mean i dont watch porno and im as average as average can get? i dont get it? (link)
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I took a psychology class last year, and sometimes people can substitute exercise for sexual activity. Also, some birth control pills can lower your sex drive.
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I know this is probably gross, but I have a serious question. My period is usually extremely heavy, soo bad that I use a SUPER PLUS tampon AND a long, overnight pad. And within an hour - hour and a half, it's everywhere (even going off the pad.) It's usually like that for 4-5 days. I hate going to school because I am constantly paranoid and worried that I'm leaking. Well I finally went to the gynecologist, and they got me on the pill. (I can't start it till the Sunday AFTER my period starts..which is already 2 months late.) Well I am scared I'll start at school. Everytime that happens, I get so nervous and I end up having a panic attack all day because its just sooo much blood. So my question is, is there anything else I can do to make sure that I won't leak everywhere? (Like I said, i already use the highest absorbancy tampon *and* pad together.) (link)
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I've heard that exercise can help make a period more bearable, although I'm not sure if it will have much of an effect on such heavy bleeding. It's worth a shot though.
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my boyfriend and i have TRIED to have sex 3 times.
see, the first time was about a month ago. he got it in, but we were interrupted. then we tried again about a week ago, and he didnt even get it in before got interrupted. and today we tried again and it went well for a while. and THEN we got interrupted. AGAIN.
any suggestions on where we might be able to go where we WONT be interrupted by his friends or his family or my family? (link)
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tunnels, shady places by the wall in a park. Be creative, be sneaky lol. Most people woouldn't want to do anything outside but if you live in a place where a lot of ppeople don't hang aaround it works oout pretty well.
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my bf and i have only had sex twice, but we havent ever really gotten to finish. A) it takes him forever to get it in, and B) his family always calls him down to do chores and stuff even if im over there.
but thats not really the point...i lost my virginity on the 26th of last month and then we did it again today and both times he didnt seem to be getting any pleasure at ALL. i dont expect me to get any considering it just NOW got to where it doesnt hurt as much, but is there something wrong with me "down there"?? like, am i doing something wrong? i have no experience and neither does he, really but all im doing is laying there and i dont think he minds doing all the work. but i dont do oral sex or handjobs.
but like is there something i could do (besides the above) that would make the experience a little more pleasurable for him? is there some medication i can take or something?
or is it because we're kinda young? (we're both 15) or does it have something to do with your "soulmate" or whatever?
im confused and i need answers, so any advice is appreciated!! :) (link)
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Trust me, once you guys get the hang of it, he'll get a lot of pleasure. Since you guys are kinda new it takes some time to learn the ropes and how to move with eachother. It doesn't really have much to do with your soulmate, but if you guys really feel strongly for eachother it should be not only about the pleasure, but about being with eachother.
Sometimes it's easier if the girl is on top. Try different positions sometimes.
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Sorry if its long...
14/f 9th grade
ok so ever since like 5th grade i was SOO excited to go to higschool and well now that im in it, its like NOTHING like i expected it to be and well i hate it. I guess you could say i'm kind of like a floater...i dont really fit into a crowd really and well it sucks, and i'm almost failing all my classes because all the homework and classwork is so overwhelming and i'm not used to it. But will it get better? Because i dont want to be floating around highschool all four years. And how was your first year of highschool? (link)
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Highschool is never anything anyone expects it to be. Don't worry much about whether or not you fit in, because eventually you'll be sucked into some group of people as long as you're social. As far as the failing classes goes, you should try writing down your assignments and setting out a time period where you'll do them. It'll get better, trust me.
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ok my dad is always drunk. and when he is i always get mad at him and this time it got really bad he called me all these things that i no he didnt mean and it really made me hurt i love him to death we get along so good when hes not drunk and i no he didnt mean what he called me but it made me soo hurt i cant even explain and when i try talking to him when he is drunk so he wont remember. i love my dad !! please help !! (link)
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I have been through something like this, so hopefully I can help you. Ok, when he is sober, (the first chance you get) you need to tell him how you feel about his drinking. You can also include the name calling. Suggest that he tries to lessen it a bit or stop. When you talk to him, you need to make it clear that it isn't okay to be drunk all the time. This may be hard to do, but in the end, it should help you out. If this doesn't work, then try to stay out of the way when he is drunk, or go to a close friend or relative's house.
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I hate my friend!he has been annoying me so much lately and not just me but every one else!today he was messing around and was trying to trip me up but i just didn't take any notice and didn't look at him but then he kicked me really hard and i hit my leg off the corner of the table!and instead of appologising he just laughed in my face!so i just turned around to him and said "you fucking prick!" i thought he was getting the idea that i didn't like him any more but now he's annoying me even more!!what should i do??? (link)
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You should really try to seperate yourself from him by just putting some distance between you guys. If he talks to you, don't be extremely responsive. If this doesn't work, you should ask him why he's acting like he is.
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hey one of my best friends recently told me that he liked me and i like him too and we always tell each other evrything and we always stay up talking so anyways he told me he liked me and i like him too! but he is my best friends boyfriend and he told me before he told me he liked me that he was gonna breakup with her and now he's telling me he wants to go out with me and so do i but i mean if we go out my best friend will hate me! what should i do?? (link)
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You might want t see if it's ok with your friend. Just ask her permission, to see if she's alright with you going out with him. If she says no, then you should probably wait a while and ask again, if you still like him.
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Okay, I'm like SO sad because my best friend in the entire world moved! It's not just something I can get over, because she has been my bff since 1st grade, and we're in 9th now!=
She moved about an hour away. I know it's not THAT far, but it seems like it. I used to go to her house EVER night, and now we only see each other about 3 times a month. Not only that, I don't want us to grow apart from this. I couldn't stand to lose my bff to another person. Any advice? I rate 5's. (link)
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Since they're only an hour away, try to see if you can visit her on weekends. You can also try to call her every night or talk to her on an instant messanger. Although not seeing her in person won't be the same, it will help you so that you don't drift apart.
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Okay, I'll be honest here: I'm so jealous of a friend of mine. She has something that makes everybody like her in SOME way.
All the guys like her, which is one of the prime reasons I'm jealous. A guy I like always hangs around her and I think that he likes her (She knows I like him; She doesn't like him like that).
It's so frustrating, because I'll be hanging around her and then everyone will swarm around her and ignore me. It makes me feel so inferior to her, and it's come to the point where it's hard for me to hang around her anymore. What can I do? Thanks! (link)
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No offense, but your friend sounds like a conformist. Nobody can be liked by EVERYBODY. When you feel like you're being ignored, try to find some other person to talk to until the swarm of people leaves her.
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One of my best friends thinks she fat when she's really not and she says she on a diet. When I asked her though if she was on a starvation diet, she said "Next subject please." That tells me she needs help. I don't know what I should do though. I'm really worried about her. Should I tell someone even though she made me promise not to?
Thanks! I rate high! =]
Love, Brittany (link)
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Don't tell anyone until you are completely sure of your suspicions. Do some research before you accuse her of this, because it probably will make her mad.
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okay I need some help, there is this guy who I went out with twice. The first time we went out I was in the tenth grade and he was a senior, well we broke up for a very stupid reason. Anyways, we started going out again in like 2003, which was afer i had gone to college for two years. We ended up breaking up because his parents kept trying to control our relationship and stuff like that. So needless to say, we didn't talk much after we broke up. But he works at the mall which I go to alot and I always found myself staring at him and I caught him staring at me a few times. We have hung out a few times and I can't seem to get him out of my head. I know he likes me still but he has a girlfriend and she is extremely controlling. He wants to do stuff with me and although I really want to, I won't because he has a girlfriend and I know how it feels to be cheated on. So, my question is, how do I get him to dump his gf and come back to me? I love him so much. please help, any advice is great. (link)
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Have you tried talking to him about it? If he's uncomfortable in his current relationship, there is a possibility that he may be wanting to dump her, but is hesitant because he isn't aware that you have feelings for him.
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