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he doesnt get any pleasure.
my bf and i have only had sex twice, but we havent ever really gotten to finish. A) it takes him forever to get it in, and B) his family always calls him down to do chores and stuff even if im over there.
but thats not really the point...i lost my virginity on the 26th of last month and then we did it again today and both times he didnt seem to be getting any pleasure at ALL. i dont expect me to get any considering it just NOW got to where it doesnt hurt as much, but is there something wrong with me "down there"?? like, am i doing something wrong? i have no experience and neither does he, really but all im doing is laying there and i dont think he minds doing all the work. but i dont do oral sex or handjobs.
but like is there something i could do (besides the above) that would make the experience a little more pleasurable for him? is there some medication i can take or something?
or is it because we're kinda young? (we're both 15) or does it have something to do with your "soulmate" or whatever?
im confused and i need answers, so any advice is appreciated!! :)
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There is nothing wrong with you at all.
In order for sex to be pleasurable it
can't be rushed. You can't be in a
position where you could be caught
at any moment.
When you have a place you can be alone
with out him having to listen for
footsteps or worry about those things,
it will be pleasurable for you both.
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To me, it sounds like you're both just young & nervous. I highly doubt you're doing anything wrong, so please don't worry yourself over that.
Have you asked him if it feels good for him?
Are you two using lube? That can make things a lot easier and more pleasurable for both of you.
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Sometimes what you're going through is what happens soon after loosing you're verginity, one thing that sometime helps is taking you're time before you have sex, like kissing every where you can think of, what i am trying to get to you is get in a hot state before having sex,
HEALER
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Trust me, once you guys get the hang of it, he'll get a lot of pleasure. Since you guys are kinda new it takes some time to learn the ropes and how to move with eachother. It doesn't really have much to do with your soulmate, but if you guys really feel strongly for eachother it should be not only about the pleasure, but about being with eachother.
Sometimes it's easier if the girl is on top. Try different positions sometimes.
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