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my dad
ok my dad is always drunk. and when he is i always get mad at him and this time it got really bad he called me all these things that i no he didnt mean and it really made me hurt i love him to death we get along so good when hes not drunk and i no he didnt mean what he called me but it made me soo hurt i cant even explain and when i try talking to him when he is drunk so he wont remember. i love my dad !! please help !!
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Try to stay out of his way when he's drunk and when he's sober you should tell him how his drinking is affecting you and try to persuade him either not to drink or not to drink around you if he can help it.
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I have been through something like this, so hopefully I can help you. Ok, when he is sober, (the first chance you get) you need to tell him how you feel about his drinking. You can also include the name calling. Suggest that he tries to lessen it a bit or stop. When you talk to him, you need to make it clear that it isn't okay to be drunk all the time. This may be hard to do, but in the end, it should help you out. If this doesn't work, then try to stay out of the way when he is drunk, or go to a close friend or relative's house.
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Sometime, when he is not drunk talk to him and tell him. Also, talk to a relative about this. It could be serious, like child abuse in some way. I don't want you to get taken away from your dad or anything, so just tell someone you trust so you can let it out. When your dad gets drunk, stay in your room and hide. Be quiet when you do too! You need to convince him to stop drinking too. Try your hardest!
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