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Girls can be evil
Okay to make this very long story short, my boyfriend of two months cheated on me. We were bestfriends at first for over a year and a half before we dated. I'm 17 btw. I've always cared so much and beileved in him when no else did, his reputation for being a man whore always bothered me. His phone had been "broken" for about two weeks and I get this text saying hey. I started to notice it wasn't him and whoever was on the phone was beating around the bush about what they were doing. So "kate" let's call her, starts saying that my bf is hot, that he wants her a whole bunch of bull that I simply ignored. Kate ends up sending me a text saying I I shouldn't be happy because Im not the one making out with him now. I broke down. Later on that night he admitted to what she said and showed some remorse. Then day at school I saw he had a HUGE hickey on his neck. I still didn't want to beileve it. So at lunch Kate sits at choking distance so now my friends torment her and I'm a well known person so now the whole cafe hates her. I'm still unhappy my bf and I still together we sat down and talked it out it was long but we thought about it alot i still couldn't believe he let her get a hold of his phone. I know I'm stupid for taking him back but I'm in love. /: I still depressed haven't eaten in 4 days and not really much sleep either.
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I'm sorry but I'm sure you were hoping that you would be the one who was going to be able to tame this bad boy but obviously you didn't and in a very short time and let me repeat very short time he did you wrong. Don't waste your time being depressed over a loser and a big loser at that. There will be someone who will love you and you will love them back.
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You do realise what you're doing is just hurting you more and it is most definitely not healthy.
You guys have been dating for two months only so you should be grateful that it isn't a year. You can get over it, and will get over him sooner or later.
You simply fell for the wrong guy, but you aren't the first. There is people out there who went through cheating but the world doesn't end there. You have to believe you deserve better and not lower yourself to a point of just letting him talk you out of breaking up.
You have to also care about your diginity, your own boyfriend was making out with a girl who cursed you with his own phone and he let it happen.
He did it once then he can do it again. You can't love someone you can't trust. And you can't stay in this relationship either.
Good Luck =]
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I'm sure someone has told you this before, but there WILL be other guys. I've had the same thing happen to me before, and I took the guy back. It was the most unhealthy relationship I have ever been in. It will be hard to let him go, but honestly, staying with him is a downhill slope. Also, he has a hickey from another girl. It's pretty easy to tell someone to stop in order to avoid one of those, so it seems like he did it and wanted people to know it happened. He doesn't deserve to be with anybody right now.
Trust me, there are a great deal of other men more worthy of your time than this guy.
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I agree. (With Gonnabefamous)
Have some self respect. Remorse or not, forgiveness or not, that should not be forgotten and it should be a dealbreaker.
I know you care. Move on anyway. You already said he was a manwhore. I was a manwhore too, spent alot of time with alot of different girls in high school and college. Never once cheated. Not ever. The two are unrelated.
Cheating is a result of three things.
- His personal standards(his lack of, to be specific)
- His selfishness
- The fact that he does not respect you (or anyone he dates) in any real sense.
It's not too late. Break it off. Do not take him back for at least three years. You heard me. Enough time for you to legitimately get over him and be interested in other people. If you think he's changed after that, maybe give him a second chance (assuming you still care in the slightest).
If he does it again, make sure to kick him in the balls before you leave. I'm a guy and I still say cheating twice deserves it.
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I don't mean to be rude, but the answer is pretty simple; You should leave him. Why would you wanna stay with a guy that could treat you that way? It shows insecurity on your part to stay in a relationship with a guy that cheats on you. I think you should work on that as well (self-confidence). If you love yourself enough, then you'd have no problem leaving that jack-ass and finding someone worthy of you. Or just being happy single for now. We can't be always have a boyfriend in our life, or we'll never have time to ourselves in order to explore who we are.
"Kate" is a slut and your boyfriend is a real jerk. I'm so sorry that he did that to you, and I think the most healthy solution is for you to separate yourself from him.
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I hate that you have to go through this. I know how much stuff like that hurts, trust me. But depriving yourself of food and sleep is only going to make it worse. That girl is a horrible person, and no offense, but your boyfriend isn't much better. It's your decision on what to do with your relationship, but if you want my advice, past experience has taught me to run away from guys like that because there's a big chance he'll do it again. But some guys can change. You really need to step back and evaluate your relationship. I know you love him, and I know it's hard, but do you think you can ever fully trust him after this? Trust is extremely important for a relationship to work, and if you're anything like me, worrying about whether or not he's doing these things again is going to drive you insane. Really think about what you want to do, and if you decide you want to try to stay with him, talk to him and try to see if he really is sincere about his apology. If things don't work out, it'll hurt, but I promise it's not the end of the world and you will find someone who knows how to treat you right.
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