If my boyfriend just touch my vagina with his panis and the liquid is fell into my cloths and on my thies than three should be any possibility of getting pragnent. He is only touch my vagina not pussing and his penis is not going inside me.
If he ejaculated and his penis was near the entrance to your vagina, then its possible the semen got inside. Its not likely, but it is possible.
Just to be safe, get the morning after pill (if it hasn't been longer than 5 days this happened).
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Okay to make this very long story short, my boyfriend of two months cheated on me. We were bestfriends at first for over a year and a half before we dated. I'm 17 btw. I've always cared so much and beileved in him when no else did, his reputation for being a man whore always bothered me. His phone had been "broken" for about two weeks and I get this text saying hey. I started to notice it wasn't him and whoever was on the phone was beating around the bush about what they were doing. So "kate" let's call her, starts saying that my bf is hot, that he wants her a whole bunch of bull that I simply ignored. Kate ends up sending me a text saying I I shouldn't be happy because Im not the one making out with him now. I broke down. Later on that night he admitted to what she said and showed some remorse. Then day at school I saw he had a HUGE hickey on his neck. I still didn't want to beileve it. So at lunch Kate sits at choking distance so now my friends torment her and I'm a well known person so now the whole cafe hates her. I'm still unhappy my bf and I still together we sat down and talked it out it was long but we thought about it alot i still couldn't believe he let her get a hold of his phone. I know I'm stupid for taking him back but I'm in love. /: I still depressed haven't eaten in 4 days and not really much sleep either.
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I don't mean to be rude, but the answer is pretty simple; You should leave him. Why would you wanna stay with a guy that could treat you that way? It shows insecurity on your part to stay in a relationship with a guy that cheats on you. I think you should work on that as well (self-confidence). If you love yourself enough, then you'd have no problem leaving that jack-ass and finding someone worthy of you. Or just being happy single for now. We can't be always have a boyfriend in our life, or we'll never have time to ourselves in order to explore who we are.
"Kate" is a slut and your boyfriend is a real jerk. I'm so sorry that he did that to you, and I think the most healthy solution is for you to separate yourself from him.
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i just need a little help to bring me up a bit so any and as much as possible help, to me on how to cope or just plainly to make myself happier is amazing. i struggle a lot to make it day by day but iv got hope, my boyfriend of a year and a half and sometimes my few friends make me happy as can be and forget all bad but i cant always have them with me. i have post traumatic stress disorder from attempted rapes, and schizoaffective/schizophreniform disorders. for a while i was going to a doctor everyday and i got alot better and they said if it ever came back id go to rehab, i cry when i think of it i even am now. i dont wana go and iv been back at it for over a month. i don't eat anymore and don't wana leave my room i just sit here and cry and paint or my friends or bf get me out. i don't want to bring it back up to anyone. i see myself as a worthless ugly sack of shit, only flaws. but i was a modle and have a boyfriend. im so confused and crushed. it's tearing me apart i'm only 15. any advice at all for me on what to do, or how to act, or be happy, quotes? anyything positive
Oh sweetheart, I'm so sorry to hear about all this pain. When things seem dark, its hard to see the good. Thats something that I understand very well and I hope with my past experiences I can give you some advice to help.
There are a couple quotes that I know right off the top of my head because they mean a lot to me and helped me during bad times.
"Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass. Its learning to dance in the rain."
"Sometimes you have to go through the pain to experience the joy."
"Rise about the storm clouds and you will find the rainbow."
Much of the time, there's nothing anbody can really say or do to make you feel better because it has to come from within yourself. Happiness is something you have to find inside your soul, usually by finding things you enjoy. I saw that you mentioned painting, and maybe this is something you can pursue. Sign up for an art class or show your family/friends your work. Paint whatever comes to your mind. Paint pictures that express how you are feeling. Sometimes art is a great way to release emotions.
If you modeled, then I'm sure you must be a very goregous young lady. And if you have friends and a boyfriend that care so much about you, then its hard for me to believe you're enitrely made of flaws. Everybody has beautiful qualities about them, sometimes it just takes time to find them in ourselves. You seem to really be suffering, and I hope that there is some way I can help.
Perhaps you might consider therapy as well? I know that when I was going through a dark period in my life, my family sent me to get help and in the end I'm greatful for it. I'm a stronger person now and happier than I've ever been. That's why I hope there is a way I can pass on my experience to you, so that you can heal and become stronger.
And I'm not sure if you are religious, but God plays a big role in my life as far as keeping my hope up. I'm not a super religious person, in fact I believe we should enjoy life while we are here. But the reason I believe so deeply in God is because He is someone that will always love each and every one of us, no matter what. He has a plan for you and wants to see you thrive with happiness. Durin the darkest times, that is when He is closest to your heart. He made you exactly how you're supposed to be and loves you for all of it, good and the bad. Finding God really helped me regain hope in my life, and maybe He can do the same for you.
Keep your chin up sweetheart. You're so young and the prime of life is at your fingertips. I really hope that you will heal and get better.
"It might be stormy now, but it can't rain forever."
I wish the best of luck and I'll be praying for you. Please feel free to email me with any questions, comments or even if you just want someone to talk with. My email is gonnabefamous53@gmail.com.
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Okay well im 14 going to be 15 in like 3 months. Me and my boyfriend make 6 months on the 4th of December so tomorrow. We have been talking about sex for that past few weeks now and I think im ready, but I still have this little voice in my head telling me im not. I know I really love him though and I know he won't do anything I wouldn't want to because he always caring of me. I really know I want him to be my first though, but the thing thats getting me is that im to young I think that's the only thing holding me back. What is your opinion on this and does it hurt your first time I really want to know pretty much everything please?
Listen to the voice in the back of your head. The reason you're this "little voice" is because secretly you are probably nervous about the idea of sex and underneath your love for this boy, you are not emotionally ready for sex. Its a large commitment, and even if you've been with somebody for a long time, it takes a certain amount of maturity. Personally, at the age of 14 or 15 I think you are too young.
Losing your virginity should be something special. What a few years and see if you and this boy are still together. But I think you should wait. Always remember to use protection though, in case you decide to anyways. Hopefully you will recognize the voice in your head is giving you good advice :)
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Hi i have habit of masturbating when see sex videos or when i read any sex stories.its continuing for the past 6 years i am 23 years old will it create any problem in my sexual life in my married life in future please reply me..how come i am able to stop it
No worries :)Masturbating is totally normal, almost everyone does it at all ages! (Including myself)It shouldn't cause any martial problems, as your future spouse probably masturbates too. Sometimes couples enjoy masturbating together or watching the other do it to add to the excitement of sex.
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I smoke a lot and lately my highs last less then an hour!
Why is this and how do I fix it and make them last longer
Hey, I know that you probably don't want to hear this. But my advice is to stop smoking. Really, please just consider it. Right now, the highs are great and everything. I totally understand how good it feels and stress-relieving. But later on down the road, you're going to feel the health affects of smoking.
I know first hand. As a teenager and young adult, my grandma thought it was just harmless fun. She smoked a crazy amount. Now, she's dying. Slowly, her lungs are breaking down. Its terrible for our family to watch her suffer this way. Getting out of bed everyday and doing normal tasks are a problem because she struggles just to breathe. The affects of smoking have severely limited her abilities.
I hope that you will consider this. Thank you.
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i'm in the hardest level classes i can find because i like to challenge myself. and i've always been on good terms with all my teachers like forever. this year though, i signed up for a class that i thought i wouldn't have much trouble with, and i don't have much trouble with it. the only problem is that the teacher hates me.
i've never before had such a problem with a teacher. i'm always polite, i don't make excuses when i mess up like forgetting my homework once and awhile. i treat his word as final law. i just don't understand why he hates me so much.
it's affecting my grade by now because i have an 89 in the class and he won't round it up. other kids, he does round it up but he won't because he hates me.
(and by the way, i happen to know for a fact that he doesn't like me because of specific things he does. it's not that stupid 'teen thing': "oh everyone's out to get me". so don't say like "oh i'm sure he doesn't hate you sweetie" , cuz i know he does.)
my question is what do i do? how do i deal with this teacher and still pull off an A that he won't give me?????? help!
I understand feeling like a teacher hates you. Everybody has that happen to them, and I don't doubt your reasoning for it. So I'm not going to tell you that he doesn't hate you, but teachers are people too and they aren't immune to being biased.
However, for me to see the situation more clearly I would really need specific examples of his behavior towards you.
The best advice I can give you right now, would be to talk to your parent or guardian about the situation. Or ask a friend in the class if they notice how this teacher treats you differently. Then approach the teacher himself with the situation. If you truly believe with all your heart that this man is being unfair to you, the option of going to the principal or administration of the school (a.k.a his boss) is always helpful. Every student has the right to feel safe and treated fairly at school, and its the administration's job to do everything in their power to make that environment possible for you.
I hope I helped!
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there is this guy i like but i dont know if he likes me, he somtimes has sweaty palms around me, he always gives me a hug, he jokes around with me like grabbing my side, i chatch him staring at me somtimes, he listens to me, he sometimes lets me listen to his ipod, and he asked out the last girl he liked (and got denied) so i dont know if he likes me but is hesitant, or doesnt like me.
Well, these signs aren't quite specific enough to know for sure. The joking around and grabbing your side playfully is usually a good hint that a boy is interested. But the other things could be that he just sees you as a friend. But there is always a possibility, however you have to be really sure before making a movie that could potentially break your heart. Good luck!
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im think im totally in luv wit this boyy. we went out in the summer and then he broke up wit me aftr we dated for lik two weeks. it was sad and i alwayz talk about how much he brok my heart. i think i fell in luv wit him! i only known him for two weeks but still the heart wnats what the heart wants.
my friend yelled at me the other dday cuz she says im not in luv, i just hav a crush. but i dont think so. im probably in luv with him but he doesnt luv me back. what do i do?
I can't tell you how much that sounds exactly like a situation that happened to me. Like, for a minute I thought this might be my friend playing a joke on me haha But I'm going to answer your question.
First, calm down. You're not in love. I thought I was in love with a boy too, after he broke up with me after a week or so. I never stopped talking about him and I convinced myself he would come back. But things got better, and time went on. The less I saw him, I was able to forget those feelings, so that when I did see him, it didn't hurt so much.
There is no "remedy" for a broken heart. And I truly understand how you feel right now. But the only thing that will help you get over him, is to look at other boys. Remind yourself that this guy broke up with you, and if he's stupid enough to do that then he doesn't deserve you. Start doing things with your friends, and listen to their problems too. Be happy for them when something good happens, because it eventually makes you happy when your friends are happy.
Basically, just limit the amount of time you have to see him. Don't seek him out, or try to win him back. If he wants you back, he will come. And if its just a stupid flirt like my ex, then he will flirt with you all the time and make you think he likes you again, so be very careful. Those types of guys are the hardest to get over. Just realize that he is a player, if this sounds like him.
Hope I helped! Feel better sweetie :)
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This guy i am seeing has this extra sack like thing by his testicles. He says hes had it for 3 years or so. It looks like an extra testicle but it is not connected to it. It is filled with fluid and he can push it back in (thats what he said, idk what that means) But he showed me, and its not hard at all, and he says sometimes it hurts when he sneezes. He refuses to go see a doctor.
any idea if this is serious or not? Or what it is?
Any pain in that particular area should be a signal something isn't quite right. I'm not a doctor, so I don't know for sure but it sounds like some sort of foreign growth or tumor? I highly recommend that your boyfriend gets it checked by a professional, because its better to be safe than sorry.
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So my freind and me are both into theater and acting and yay! :]
Okk but it makess me sad because i alwayz go to her shows all the time but she neverr comes to mine.e (we go to differnt schools) Its just so annoying because im there to support her but she never supports me.
we fought about it once or twice but like it didnt help anythingg.
Well, the most obvious thing to do would be approach her about this. But first, make a tally about exactly how many shows of hers you have seen, and how many of yours she has seen. Try and remember the reasons for ones she couldn't see of yours. Did she have rehearsal of her own? Did she have a performance of her own? Decide if the reasons were legitimate.
Next, casually and nicely as her if she would like to come see your next show. If she has an excuse not to, then you should let her know how you feel. "Well, I always try my hardest to go see yours shows, and it makes me sad you don't come see mine." If she still has excuses, then I think this girl honestly just doesn't care enough and thats not the kind of friend you want to have around. I'm sure she is nice and fun to be with, but don't you want a friend thats going to support you?
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One of my friends really wants to be an actress. The thing is though, she's really not that good.
I'm supportive of her, because that's what a good friend does. But it just gets really really annoying because she's also so self-centered. She'll go on and on about how she'd love to play a part in a famous movie like Twilight or something, and she says the only reason she can't is because she doesn't know where to audition. Seriously? Come on. I really want to sit her down and give her a reality check so I don't have to listen to this crap anymore.
I get sick of hanging around her because she just keeps talking about how easy it would be for her to get any role she wants. And I really wish I could just snap at her that she sucks and stop talking to me about it.
How do I handle this?
Well, first you should understand that it won't be healthy for the friendship if you were to just completely let your friend down. Because I am aspiring it to be an actress as well, I know how much it would hurt to have someone tell me I'm no good.
I think the best thing to do is next time this friend brings up the subject, say "Well, you should probably take some classes and get some real experience before you shoot for the big screen. That is how all the famous actors got there, is by years and years of work." She may not get the message, but at least she might honestly try to get some lessons.
And if she says it again, answer her politely, "You would be going up against a lot of experienced, serious actors at these auditions. Its not good to start off cocky." But don't seem rude about it, just like you're sharing a simple piece of information. Hopefully, she will see that you are pointing out how cocky she is.
Hope this helped!
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okay so im a sophmore in highschool and theres this guy who is a frehsman in college. we have known each other for over a year and we talk honestly, ALL the time. We talk about everything and anything, hes so easy to talk to and hes really fun. The only problem is he has a girlfriend and we never talk about anything having to do with relationships but it just seems like hes been very flirty lately. Example, we video chatted but his girlfriend was in the room so he didnt want to talk so she would know i guess? but i could talk to him (he would have ear phones).it made me a little uncomfortable and that is the first time something like that has happened. anyways my friend thinks he likes me since hes been flirty lately and since we always always talk. i know that i could easily like him, but i dont want to let myself like him because i know he has a girlfriend and i do not want to be that girl at all.
This smells like trouble to me. My friend was actually in a similar situation, so I know how badly it could end. Please keep an open mind.
If this boy is flirting with you behind his girlfriend's back, what does that say about him? Couldn't he just as easily do that to you?
Also, imagine being in his girlfriend's position. How would she feel? Would you want to cause her pain like that? In a very real sense, to her you could be "the other woman".
Consider your ages. You are a sophomore in high school, so probably 15 or 16 years old. He is a freshmen in college, about 18 or 19. Its a little risky in my opinion. When a lot of people go to college, they want to be single because they will meet so many new people! I know that this particular boy has a girlfriend, but having a relationship with someone in college is very risky, and has the potential for a lot of heart-break.
And also, I am curious how you met this boy? If you met him online, then I definitley think you should back away. He could pretend to be anyone! Even seeing him in video chat isn't the same. You never know how many other girls he talks to like that. I just thought I would throw this piece out here.
Overall, I think you not let yourself fall for him, and move on to someone more reasonable. Even if he does like you, this boy has a girlfriend and is a lot older than you. Protect your heart, hun.
Hope I helped!
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I unfortunately fell for someone who doesn't like me... in a relationship way.He told me were just friends... and I REALLY love him. I can't get him out of my mind!! I really need to get over him. I told him how I felt...he said he just likes me as a friend nothing more. So... I'm heart broken. I can't find anyone else... I really want someone special in my life. I can't find anyone who likes me . I don't understand why... can someone give me some tips on how to get over him? How can I find someone that likes me back?? Please... anyone give me some advice. Uh...I am 13...if that matters.
Thanks!!
Sweetie, you are only 13 years old. There are going to be so many other boys you will meet, and probably feel the same about, so don't worry! It happens to everyone and you will get over him soon. I remember when I was 13, the same thing happened to me. Its weird, because one day something just clicked inside my head, and I didn't obsess over him anymore. So just stay strong, because you are very young and I doubt it was love.
And don't go out searching for someone to like you, because that isn't the right way to get into a relationship. First, you need to find contentment in being single and just having your friends around for now. Eventually, you will find a special boy. But just a side note, relationships don't really work at your age. Most 13 year old boys are very immature, and girls are very emotionally vulnerable. Wait a few more years, once you are in high school. Just let fate take its course, and don't go looking for a relationship. It will eventually happen for you, I promise.
That is best boy advice I ever received, so now I am passing it on to. Hope it helps!
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What is a good age to let a kid date?
It really depends on the child. From personal experience, I remember being in middle school and wanting to go out with boys when I was only about 11 or 12 years old. Being in high school, I can now look back and see that I was too young.
However, I do believe that the younger children start dating, the more likely they are to have sex at a time when they aren't ready. I would say that when a situation presents itself, look at the child's maturity level and make sure that you and your child are on the same page about sex, and other things down that road. Also, look at the potential boyfriend/girlfriend. How did your child and this person meet? What do you know about them? Definitely do not get stalker-like, because that is so wrong and creepy.
But I would say that it mostly depends on the child, and your own beliefs as a parent (I'm assuming you are asking this question about your child hahah) Hope I could help!
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So there's this guy, I don't really like him. I think I will be soon though. The thing is that he acts like he is all bad and stuff. But he's actually really nice. When I first started talking to him was last semester. But he talked to me by teasing me. So he always jokes around with me and makes fun of me in a playful way. I just don't know where to go from here. I just think that if he is so cool and whatever that he would never like me. I'm not like you know, really down in the social status or whatever its just I'm one of the average girls. He talks to me alot though. He'll like call my name or something and say something really stupid. I don't know if I would ever have a chance with him or if he would even like me. Thanks for any help!
Well, the fact that he teases you and talks to you a lot is a positive sign. From what you have said here, I think that there is a good chance you likes you back. And just remember, that if a decent guy really does like you, he isn't going to care about social status. And if he does, then he's not a decent guy, and you shouldn't waste your time on him.
But to me, it seems like there's a good possibility he has feelings for you. For the next move, try the easiest thing: flirting! Wink at him across the room, or just ask him to go to a movie. If he's interested, he'll follow up and you'll be able to tell something's there.
Hope I could help! Good luck
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i smoked pot with my friend and one of her friends i didn't like it but we are gonna do it again. should i do it or not???
Honestly, just don't do it. Especially if you didn't like it. Pot is not only unhealthy, but its illegal! Why risk getting into trouble with your family and the law? Its just not worth it. And if you smoked pot because you were feeling depressed, my advice is to talk to a counselor of some sort and get help that way. Drugs are never the answer.
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