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Heyyy
I'm Kirsty
I live in Glasgow, which is a pretty awesome place.
Appling for Strathclyde Uni soon :)
I like living on the edge, so lets party hardcore! :P

I love music too much:
Mayday parade, ymas, cute is what we aim for, brand new, motion city, enter shikari.

(L) Best mates, apple sourz, partying, my horses, Glasgow city centre, new people, marlboro red, summer, France, scrubs, long lies, hugs, new places :)

Gender: Female
Location: Glasgow, Scotland
Age: 17
Member Since: March 7, 2009
Answers: 20
Last Update: June 2, 2009
Visitors: 1978


I really need to know how to repel mosquitoes from myself. I heard there were some natural ways involving some sort of vitamins or garlic but I am not exactly sure what the correct information is.

My mom said they made some stuff to spray on you that repels bugs but I don't know what it is called or anything.

Can someone help me? These bugs are eating me alive already and I don't want to get West Nile Virus!!! How do I protect myself from the West Nile Virus when these mosquitoes don't stop biting?! (link)
Skin So Soft by Avon is the best one by far. My mom and I used to go camping a lot and she reacts badly to bites so she always uses this one and it's very effective. It also smells quite nice, unlike most bug repellents =]

http://www.alternativeinsectrepellent.co.uk/


ok so i wasnt on my period before all this happen ive had multiple little periods this whole month of may because i was on birthcontrol so a couple days ago i was like i dont want to be on it any more im done i hate HATE having my period and im not having it anymore so i got off it after a while month of being on it so it was two days i havnt been on it and i had sex with my boyfriend with a condom!!!! so ya im good. but hey right before he comes we hear a snap ya and then he cumed oh ya right after the snap now we are the people who go people who say condoms break are a load of bull we use a certain kind all the time but he was out so we used his friends where he got at a local clinic and there crap becuase we always like stretch condoms and they NEVER break like so when it broke we were like oh my god no it didnt we laughed actually i cant beleive it broke and i just JUST got off the birthcontrol now we tried getting the abortion pilll but mind you its a friday like 5 and planed parenthood was free but by the time we got there it was closed and they are closed on weekends so great we are trying to get the pill on monday hopingly. but any way later that night i started bleeding and it just ended now he might have knicked something but it could be because i just got off the pill idont know but i was just wondering if theres a chance of me still getting prego. any thing will help just answer!!!!! (link)
I'd say totally ignore when you have your period, this does not mean that you're not pregnant.

There's a chance that you will still be protected by the pill but you need the emergency contraceptive pill deffos. You can just go buy it at a pharmacy don't wait till the clinics open back up.
You need to take it within 72 hours remember and it's monday now obviously so unless you've taken it by now there's a pretty big chance you're pregnant. Take a preganancy test asap. Poor you btw, if you just stayed on the pill after the 1st month all the multiple periods stop and then it's pretty good.


There's this girl... I met her at a party a long time ago and we instantly clicked (I never thought that could happen before then!). I mean instantly! Like within an hour she was really flirting with me, and i was really starting to like her back.

However, due to some bad judgment and choices, I waited to long to tell her I liked her (and officially hear she liked me back) and nothing happened. About a week or two later, she messaged me on myspace (due to some provocation) and we addressed it. I told her how i felt. She said she was "kinda" unavailable. That was a Wednesday. Come Friday, she was fully unavailable with her new bf. And get this, I still never fully got to know if she liked me...

well... a couple weeks later, her new relationship was over (as high school will have it). We still talk and stuff, and we can be pretty casual and friendly with eachother, but i really don't know what's going on.

I can't get her out of my head either! I lie and lie to myself that its over and I'm done with it but I'm really not! She is just so amazing and to think I got so close!

We were both at a party tonight, and I over heard somethings that might have indicated I have a chance, but i don't know. Help? Any experience with this kind of stuff? Btw, 15,M (link)
The advice you received from Darby sounds really good so think about that.

I'd say she does like you based on everything you've said, I've been in a similar situation where I was this girl you're talking about and I think the best thing to do is ask her out, just casually to hang out.

If she says yes then you get to spend more time together and you'll find out if she likes you. This could also lead you into a situation that you could ask her to go out with you, if she seems to like you enough.

Hope this was helpfull (:


I'm bored and I just got my Ipod nano a few days ago. I already got 118, i want more tho lol.
Anyways do anyone of you know some songs i might like.

I like pop,
a bit of rap and Hip Hop,
i also like heavey metal, rock.

I would like some slow songs and some songs that I can just go crazy and dance.
(do not put Lady GaGa or Britneay spears, tired of there songs repeating on the tv) (link)
Slow songs:
Question- The old 97's
Death Cab for Cutie
Boys like girls- Thunder
Mayday Parade- Miserable at best

And for "go crazy and dance"
this is the only rave song I like
Pretty rave girl- I am Xray

I kinda skipped the other genres cause I don't really listen to them and rock is a bit general, but hope this is a start :)



heyy you answered my question about song lyrics..you listen to the same bands as me! haha but do you have any other lyrics that you like? I'm trying to make a good list of a bunch..thanks! (link)
Damn I've got shit loads of lyrics I like. I cover every notebook and folder I have with them :P

And well done for liking good music.
Okay here's some more:

"Your voice was the soundtrack of my summer"

"Kisses under starry night skies, talked about in song, we play along"

"This hurts me more than I can stand to say in just one sitting"

"Play me a song, it's been too long since I've heard you sing"

"Sure it's a lot I just can't handle this, I lost myself inside a drunken kiss and all that I wanted was to walk you home- save a sad song for the sing along"

"Your hazel eyes paralyse my senses cut me down to size, defenseless"

"I'm terribly sorry man, is this your girlfriend clinging to my hand? Oh no, what will become of me in the backyard of that party?"

"Back down bitch, you're fucking done"

"Go ahead and cry yourself to sleep"

"I had the notion that you'd make me forget the world, but your undecisive mind shows me that you are just another girl"

"Let's get drunk and drive around, make peace with an empty town"

"Is it too soon to say 'perfect'?"

"You've got me down on my knees and I proclaim- All hail the heartbreaker"

"I like simple songs with pretty words, tried poetry but it's just no good. The pages get lost, besides I'd much rather sing to you"

"I am the headline that's gonna make front page news, I am the fashion that you're all into"

"They play the soundtrack to my falling tears, soundtrack to this wasted year"

"I am the curse on your girlfriend's hips"

"I'll never be a liar, but you'll always be two-faced"

"Stay seventeen, the party scene has got the best of me"

"Wrapeed up in lies like the sheets of another one night stand. You know you left the girl with nothing"

"Back in school they never told us what we needed to know, like how to deal with despair, or someone braking your heart"

"You are calm and reposed, let your beauty unfold. Pale white, like the skin stretched over your bones. Spring keeps you ever close. You are second hand smoke. You are so fragile and thin. Standing trial for your sins. Holding onto yourself the best you can. You are the smell before rain. You are the blood in my veins."

"So who's keeping score on who is a whore?"

"Keeping tempos with or without our clothes. And I'm telling you as fast as I can I'm a trend, a trend. Cuz I don't break hearts, I just dent them"

"And if you think you're alive then you're better off fucking dead"

"Armed with an eye for contradictions she sees completely through me"

"You are metaphors I can't create so comprehend this curse that I call love"

"every drawing that I drew was never, ever as cute as you"

"states to keep us far apart, turn down the beating of my heart"

"Consider this as a gift as you taste him on your lips"

"She'll be a secret you can keep. Keep me, keep me"

"The stars aren't as big and bright as you make them out to be"

"You're impossible to find"

Oh god, that's so many. Sorry if there's typos btw, and I have a few hundred more if you ever want them (:


is there a place to put your music playlist up and get recommendations of similar artists you might like? (link)
Try last FM if you want you can make a profile and see similar bands, make friends and see what similar music they like. It works off your itunes/Windows media player/Spotify to make a music library according to what you've been listening to.


15/f

So theres this boy i've been off and on with having a crush this whole year. We went to one school dance together and it was amazing and we'd both probably agree it was the best dance together of the year. He's been through alot this year and i've always been there for him and he appreciates it alot. He feels as if i'm the only one he can talk to about anything and were just really close in some aspects. We text just about everyday about anything and everything and we talk at our lockers every hour.

He told one of my friends he really wanted to "get to know me more" after the dance. and now that were getting closer and all where does this lead to?

Anyways i've really fallen for him and i'm really starting to like him, what can I do? To find out, to get him to like me, to get closer to him i've never wanted a relationship more than this one. (link)
He'll ask you out when he wants to, and it sounds like that'll be fairly soon but you have to just wait and you don't need to "get him to like you" he already does so just keep being yourself cause that's the person he likes.
Good luck =]


hey i know it feels good for a girl when you perform orally on them but does it feel good to them if you stick your tounge inside. why or whynot? (link)
Yeah the other answer is right, all girls like different things. So try stuff and ask if she likes it, but I'm pretty sure she will. 17/f


what are good quotes from song lyrics? about anything; friends, love, partying, figthing, lost love..anything! what're your favorites?? thanks! (link)
"Keep your hands to yourself these lips belong to someone else. And you know that you, you’ll never get one in."

"Tell me once again That you'll love me to the death
And should I die, you swear that you will come for me"

"I am heaven sent don't you dare forget"

"I want to run but only far enough to make you miss me"

"I need to start to be myself cause I'm sick of everybody else"



I've just started taking TriNessa and I'm still getting used to taking it at exactly 9:00 every night. I've been on it for about 10 days now and a few of those nights I would forget to take it at exactly 9:00, but I would remember around 9:15 or 9:30. Will it still be effective if I take it just 15-30 minutes late. (I obviously will try to take it at exactly 9.)

Also, I was wondering when it will be safe for me to have sex without using a condom?

Thanks! (link)
It will be safe to have sex w/o a condom after one week and as long as you take it within the hour you'll be fine =]


I would like to make a picture video for youtube with music. Do I need a special program? How do I do it? Thank you. (link)
You may have windows movie maker already on your computer if it's Vista.
It's sooo easy to use.


hey im looking for some good unknown bands like cocoon or singers like sufjan stevens. male preferably . thanks! (link)
The Rocket Summer,
The Old 97's,
The Spill Canvas,
Secondhand Serenade,
Rhett Miller,
Joshua Radin,
Death Cab for Cutie,
Jimmy Eat world (work acoustic),
The fray,
Cute is what we aim for,
Mayday Parade.

Hope you like them (:


to: anyone.
i'm looking into music, i'm wanting some new songs. i pratically listen to ever genre. i prefery want rap, r&b, rock, pop, metal, and alternative. also anything discreit, bands, etc.
also if you're able, send me a playlist.
krystal_ily@hotmail.com
thankyou :D (link)
Most of these are pretty unheard of bands but i think they're pretty amazing:

Mayday Parade-rock/alternative/emo
[my favourite all time band]

Motion City Soundtrack- they're random but good, some nice acoustic stuff.

Forever the sickest Kids- awesomeness listen to Hey Brittany

Brand New- rock/pop mainly
Chiodos- rock/screamo
Youmeatsix- power pop/punk/rock
The Rocket Summer- pop kind of
Funeral for a friend- rock
Cute is what we aim for- pop/rock [incredibly good]
Enter Shikari- rock/screamo [sorry you're not a winner; good track]
The Spill Canvas- acoustic, rock [the tide, sunsets and carcrashes- good songs]

hope you actually like these :P


my boyfriend and i were having sex friday night night (around 4 am) and we had sex about about an hour before we went for a second round. so, we were having sex for the second time. it was lasting 1000x longer then he usually does (probably because he cummed in the last hour). we were having sex. and i felt the condom break. so he thrusted ONCE. RIGHT AWAY, i got up and told him it broke. he took it off and we saw the hole at the top. so we stopped. we were done for the night. i have been freaking out ever since, unable to stop thinking about it.

some things:
well, i have been peeing ALOT today. but i think thats because i drank alot of fluids today haha.

here are some questions:
do you think i could be pregnant? (i know it is still possible to get pregnant even if you did use a condom. but, in this case since it broke and i noticed RIGHT away..)
should i get EC?

(ps; this wasnt our first time having sex, we have had it many times before this haha) (link)
Difinately get the morning after pill it can work up to 72hours after you had sex, cause no-one can say for sure if you will be pregnant or not just by reading that so it's best to be safe rather than ending up with a baby.

Good luck btw :)


so my boyfriend of almsot two years and i just broke up last week. i was insanely hurt, still kinda am, but im making it. i want to put a line from a song on my myspace status, but i cant think of any specific ones. obviously it cant be very long, but i basically want it to state that, yeah im hurt and it sucks, but im living my life and getting through the days just fine. or something to make him regret giving me up. haha i know that's bad but it helps.

can anyone think of any specific lines or songs that i could choose from?
i mainly listen to rock and country. (link)
okay, i have too many lyrics in my head, so here's a variety:

"And we could sit around and cry but frankly your not worth it anymore"- mayday parade

"cuts on paper hearts they can be awful deep"
-mayday parade

"I've got no place in my heart for a criminal like you"- all time low

"Cause each broken heart will eventually mend"
-Death cab for cutie

"Boys like you are a dime a dozen"
- Taking back sunday

I hope at least one of these helps (:


I know this guy from liverpool (england) and i'm from the united states. instead of 'bye' he says 'pee'. maybe it's not instead of bye, but it IS at the end of every time we talk. What could he be mistaking it for? (link)
what the hell, that's weird. I'm not from there, I live in Scotland but I'd think I'd know if there was some weird colloquial thing like that, so it doesn't make much sense.

I'd say just ask him or forget about it.


I met this really nice guy (lets call him warren) almost 5 days ago. We met at a bowling alley and I actually kinda liked his friend (Luke)- however when I found out that I was 4 years older than Luke, I knew that wouldnt ever happen because it would be illegal because he was 14 and im 18... so thats a negative. Well, Warren, Luke's friend, ended up letting me stay at his house for the night because it was too late for me to get back to my house. Warren hit on me, and then we started kissing, and well, one thing led to another. THEN, after that happened we were just talking and I found out he is my best friends cousin. I told her about me and warren hanging out and when i did she was like "Please tell me you arent messing with him." I told her i wasnt, but that i was becoming pretty close to him (which is true). I dont know what it is about him though. We are complete opposites. Im more of a voluptous girl, while he is skinny, im in high school, he is graduated, he is country, and I am proper. However the connection we have is hard to ignore; physically and emotionally. He said to me, "I bet you $100.00 that you will fall in love with me." and of course I denied it. I cant tell if by saying that he is wanting to start dating me or not. But based on the situation do you think that I should pursue the relationship or let it diminish? I just wanted an honest opinion.
madison
(I rate high for good/well-thought out answers!) (link)
Firstly find out why your best friend said "Please tell me you arent messing with him" mayby she knows something you don't. However, I don't see a problem with you guyes being totally different, y'know what they say opposites attract.

If you feel like you have an emotinal and physical connecion with this guy I think you should go for it, even if it does end in tears you could have an amazing relationship and it may last.
Also judging by him saying "I bet you $100.00 that you will fall in love with me." I think he really likes you and wants you to fall in love, and be in a relationship with him. I hope I helped even a little. Good Luck!!! :)


16/F. I just got together with my boyfriend yesterday. We've been off and on for years, though it seems dumb considering we're so young. Anyway, my last boyfriend and I broke up like a month and a half ago. Current boyfriend and his ex broke up about two weeks ago.

We hung out yesterday and he's so excited about us being together. I am too. The only thing that makes me feel a little uncomfortable is that he wanted to do a ton of kissing and stuff (he wasn't pressuring me into anything). I think he's used to being so far with his ex, that he's just kind of picking that stuff up with me. Is it normal for me to feel weird? That, and I think I'm making myself feel weird somehow. Usually I'm very aggressive with that stuff, but I was very shy, while he wasn't. Like, obviously we're not in love yet, but is that okay that I need time? I know it takes time, I guess I'm just used to my ex a little, too.

Maybe this is adding to my situation too.. We have to be secret for like, another week. Considering he and his girlfriend just broke up, it'd look a little bad if we got together right away. So having to sneak around might be changing my outlook, too.

I really want this to be perfect for us. Just trying to figure out how to go about with starting that :P
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I think it's fine for you to need a little time if he's getting a bit ahead of himself, just let him know that you want to take it slow. He should be fine with it.

And you shouldn't feel that you have to be secretive about your relationship even if he did break up with this girl 2 weeks ago, it's not like they're still dating.
I hope this helped a little :)


alright so everyone says it all the time.. but what exactly is your clit? (link)
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=clit

this is a pretty good deffinition


Its like this I really like this girl but I'm not in her class or have never talked to her so here's the pitch I get someone to tell her that I like her not to ask her out I'll do that myself but just to see if she likes me back which I think she does You know the slight glance every single day at lunch time and so on and don't worry I'm not just imagining it in my head.I'm not a fool.I was going to ask her out myself but figured why risk getting rejected and embarrassed like that for no reason when I could get someone to see if and that's a Big If she liked me in return so then i would ask her out myself.Finally here's the question what I said above an ok way to go with it and secondly I'm 17 and she's 14 just wondering if that's alright.Bear in mind I'm from Ireland which has a completely different culture from America. (link)
hey I'm from scotland so I get the whole cultural thing, personally I think 17 is a little too old for a 14 yo girl, but this is just my opinion and ultimately it's up to you.

I'd say you're definately going about it the right way though. From what you've said it sounds like she does like you, but it doesn't hurt to get someone to mention that you like her before you ask her out.

Good luck :)




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