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She's just a friend, but...
There's this girl... I met her at a party a long time ago and we instantly clicked (I never thought that could happen before then!). I mean instantly! Like within an hour she was really flirting with me, and i was really starting to like her back.
However, due to some bad judgment and choices, I waited to long to tell her I liked her (and officially hear she liked me back) and nothing happened. About a week or two later, she messaged me on myspace (due to some provocation) and we addressed it. I told her how i felt. She said she was "kinda" unavailable. That was a Wednesday. Come Friday, she was fully unavailable with her new bf. And get this, I still never fully got to know if she liked me...
well... a couple weeks later, her new relationship was over (as high school will have it). We still talk and stuff, and we can be pretty casual and friendly with eachother, but i really don't know what's going on.
I can't get her out of my head either! I lie and lie to myself that its over and I'm done with it but I'm really not! She is just so amazing and to think I got so close!
We were both at a party tonight, and I over heard somethings that might have indicated I have a chance, but i don't know. Help? Any experience with this kind of stuff? Btw, 15,M
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The advice you received from Darby sounds really good so think about that.
I'd say she does like you based on everything you've said, I've been in a similar situation where I was this girl you're talking about and I think the best thing to do is ask her out, just casually to hang out.
If she says yes then you get to spend more time together and you'll find out if she likes you. This could also lead you into a situation that you could ask her to go out with you, if she seems to like you enough.
Hope this was helpfull (:
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Yeah, anyone who's been in a relationship or almost been in a relationship has dealt with stuff like that. It's like you don't want to bring it up in case she doesn't like you. You don't want to make your friendship awkward or anything. But at the same time, you don't want to wait too long until she gets another boyfriend.
I think you should tell her how you feel. You've never directly told her how you feel, and she hasn't either. Depending on what things you heard tonight, you should tell her. If you heard her say some things that pretty much strongly indicated that she likes you, you should tell her what's up.
You don't have to be extremely direct. There are ways to hint around about liking someone without fully opening yourself up and being vulnerable to rejection.
I would really like to know what things you heard tonight, because it could really make a big difference. But if you're fairly sure she likes you, you should send her a message on MySpace. Say something quick and simple like, "you looked really pretty at the party tonight."
Just something that she'll see when she wakes up in the morning that will make her feel good.
Darby(:
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