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A Girl I really really Like
Its like this I really like this girl but I'm not in her class or have never talked to her so here's the pitch I get someone to tell her that I like her not to ask her out I'll do that myself but just to see if she likes me back which I think she does You know the slight glance every single day at lunch time and so on and don't worry I'm not just imagining it in my head.I'm not a fool.I was going to ask her out myself but figured why risk getting rejected and embarrassed like that for no reason when I could get someone to see if and that's a Big If she liked me in return so then i would ask her out myself.Finally here's the question what I said above an ok way to go with it and secondly I'm 17 and she's 14 just wondering if that's alright.Bear in mind I'm from Ireland which has a completely different culture from America.
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I think having to find out if she likes you is a good idea. Although the age has a pretty big gap there. Even though I know people who got married like 10 years apart. But in teen years its pretty big. I don't really know if 18 is considered an adult in Ireland but I'm just guessing so. You'll be turning 18 and she might not be able to date you. Her parents may not like it either. So if you really like her then go along with your plan and see how it goes. Good luck!
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I think what you've done is ok,but...are you sure you want to date a 14 year-old girl,and you're 17?I don't think that's a good idea.If it turns out she likes you and your relationship takes off,sooner or later you'll get horny and she won't like it,since I assume she ain't gonna give up her virginity at that age.Not just that,but what about her and your parents?Would they approve your relationship?I think not.
You should find a girl your own age.Trust me,a difference in age is way too big for your relationship to work out.I hope this helped you realise a few things.
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hey I'm from scotland so I get the whole cultural thing, personally I think 17 is a little too old for a 14 yo girl, but this is just my opinion and ultimately it's up to you.
I'd say you're definately going about it the right way though. From what you've said it sounds like she does like you, but it doesn't hurt to get someone to mention that you like her before you ask her out.
Good luck :)
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