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cheating problem
i have this new boyfriend, who i've been dating for a month. but recently my ex texted me, and i saved his number in my phone under a girls name. so that i could text constantly while i was with my boyfriend and he wouldnt think it was suspicious. well yesterday we went to the movies and my ex asked me back out, and my current boyfriend read it and dumped me. he said he knew it was a guy, even though i called the girl who's name i used, and i told her to help me out. but he doesnt believe me and he broke up with me and he called me a hoe. he gave me a ring in the beggining and he even took that away. he doesnt really have proof that i cheated on him though.. do you think that he might come back to me? i really need help cause i love him alot and i messed up big time.
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You never should have lied to him! You should have been honest with him. It would have saved you a lot trouble. Probably he will not come back to him because you broke his trust. You should have never talked to your ex if you really like your boyfriend! That can only lead to bad things. You should try to talk to him and tell him you're sorry. Let him know that you know you messed up. Good luck
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There might be a chance that you guys might get back together. It might be awhile but it probably hurt him alot. Imagine if that happened to you and you were in his position. I would be hurt so bad. You need to admit you did wrong. You messed up. People make mistakes and then it comes with consequences. You need to go apologize and tell him your sorry and you'll never do that again and you messed up big time. He will probably have some trust issues though. He did trust you and he thinks you cheated on him right? You need to be clear about everything that happened. But he might not come back. Things happen and we learn from our mistakes. I hope you learned from yours. Just tell him everything and when you tell him your sorry, mean it. Don't lie to him. Good luck! I hope everything works out for you.
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A big thing in relationships is honestly. I big thing about growing up is admitting when your wrong AND taking the punishment that comes along with it.
You know you did wrong, but your trying to cover it up. WRONG thing to do. If you really think you love him then the right thing to do is admit to him what you did. Come clean about EVERYTHING and then tell him you want to work on the relationship.
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Look i dont mean to be rude or anything but what you did is really messed up and i bet that hurt him really bad and i know because this has happened to me, and if you talk to him you might be able to get him back but most likely he isnt going to trust you and it is going to take a lot for him to trust you again... so if you really care for him go for it but if its just a fling i would leave it alone its a lot of work.
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More than likely, its over.
When a guy summarily breaks up over something like that with as little hesitation as you described, he isn't coming back.
Let him go and get over it.
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