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i cheated on my ex with my current boyfriend, but my boyfriend and i just broke up. and i decided to go back and talk to my ex. he told me he loves me still and that he cares about me, but i want things to back to how they were with me and him. his family hates me, but either way we had a secretive relationship. and i dont know how things are going to turn out with me and him. is it possible that me and him MIGHT get back together? we went out for 4 months, and i took his virginity.
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Chances are, your relationship will never be the same again. When someone is cheated on, they usually lose a lot of the trust they originally had in their partner. The fact that you were his first probably isn't going to make that much better. If you really think you're ready to get back with him, & be faithful to him, just sit him down & have a long talk with him. Let him know how sorry you are, ask him for another chance, & promise to stay faithful this time.
And make sure to keep that promise. Also, make sure you really want to be with him. You've already hurt him once, it would probably devastate him if you hurt him again.
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You know you hurt him. If I was him I would've been crushed to death if someone cheated on me. If you guys do get back together it probably won't be exactly the same. Your gonna have to apologize to him if you haven't already. You need to tell him that you are completely sorry for what you did and you won't cheat on him ever again. But don't lie to him. You have to mean it. You don't need to hurt him again and if you love him then you won't. But its all up to him to take you back or not. You can't really do anything to make him want you. The most is apologizing. Good luck! I hope everything works out for you!
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In this situation, everything is his decision. It's his choice to take you back or not.
You must tell him that you won't cheat on him again, and more than that, you have to mean it.
He was heart broken once, and that's one time too many.
However, if he says he'll take you back, he will probably have trust issues so I doubt things will go back to exactly the way they were. Things might be different, but you two will still be together, and that should be enough.
Sinse he says he loves you, chances are he won't be able to resist getting you back =]]
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