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Man of My Dreams.
15/f
So theres this boy i've been off and on with having a crush this whole year. We went to one school dance together and it was amazing and we'd both probably agree it was the best dance together of the year. He's been through alot this year and i've always been there for him and he appreciates it alot. He feels as if i'm the only one he can talk to about anything and were just really close in some aspects. We text just about everyday about anything and everything and we talk at our lockers every hour.
He told one of my friends he really wanted to "get to know me more" after the dance. and now that were getting closer and all where does this lead to?
Anyways i've really fallen for him and i'm really starting to like him, what can I do? To find out, to get him to like me, to get closer to him i've never wanted a relationship more than this one.
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He clearly has strong feelings for you. What those feelings may be, we don't know. He could truly have feelings for you as more than a friend, or he could have feelings for you as just one of his truest friends. The only way to find out is to tell him how you feel. It's intimidating, I know, but he is obviously not going to make the move if he hasn't already. What's the worst that can happen> you're going to find out how he feels, and if he doesn't feel the same he obviously has enough respect for you to not make you feel like an idiot. Just remind him things between yall wont change unless he feels the same. In that case yall will possibly become an item! :)
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He'll ask you out when he wants to, and it sounds like that'll be fairly soon but you have to just wait and you don't need to "get him to like you" he already does so just keep being yourself cause that's the person he likes.
Good luck =]
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It doesn't sound like you need to do anything, except maybe be a little patient. Obviously he likes you, but he's just not sure how to bring things to the next level, yet. I know that you could be the aggressor, but it sounds like things are really going fine. The best relationships are the ones that aren't rushed. Just know this-everything you are thinking and feeling-he is thinking and feeling those things too. If he wasn't he wouldn't talk to you and text you so much. He is just a little shy.
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